Its been 2 yrs we r married but my inlaws keep troubling us for smal smal things...we never had any happy moments in 2 yrs but to help my inlaws.....they always land in some problems and me end up helping them financially....its getting a big problem in our married life, as my wife expects that she or me have to help them as they r her parents...i don know wat to do?
2007-03-25 20:27:14 · 2 answers · asked by mangy20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh this is a tough one...Are her parents disabled or something? Are they too old to take care of themselves? There are times that parents have to turn their backs on their children to get them to learn how to take care of themselves and sadly, if her parents are able to work and and of sound mind and body...well sounds like they need to go to a credit counseling person...that person should not be their children! She has love and respect for her parents, which is a good thing but if she truly loves them she would "kick them out of her nest and teach them to fly" just as they did her!
2007-03-25 20:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if your wife married you because she knew that you have financial muscles to take care of her and her family? But that being not the case the possibility is that you guys are staying not far away from her parents so move some miles away.
2007-03-25 20:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋