Everytime i see her and she sees me, we look into each others eyes. I feel theres a connection but i dont know what to do. She is not in any one of my classes. Please help
2007-03-25 20:31:10 · 10 answers · asked by axl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her to a movie.... or Ice cream...
2007-03-25 20:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by job e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it! Spot her at a time when she's alone and say something about the weather, her hair maybe or what classes she's taking. Then ask her if she wants to get a coffee sometime before class or after. Be confident but not too pushy. If she says no, then it wasn't meant to be, let her know you'll be seeing her around. Remember, sometimes girls are shy too and if they really like a guy they may say no. If you don't want to move on, then try to see if you guys can do a friend group thing with everyone. She might see then that she should go for you too! Good luck.
2007-03-25 20:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hope you just don't give blank stares. Maybe you should smile at her. I think a nice smile would be more inviting because you've probably attracted her curiosity. She may want to talk to you, but needs a welcoming sign from you first. Or if you want points for bravery, just approach her when she's alone and say (with a smile) something like, "Hey, I've noticed you look at me sometimes. There's nothing wrong with the way I look, right?" Say it jokingly to add humor to the situation. I don't know, that might not be the best example for you, but a possible scenario. Sometimes, you've just got to go for what it is you want without abandon. If not, you'll regret it later. ;)
2007-03-25 20:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by The Maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into her eyes as you usually do and then give her a big smile. If she smiles back and most probably she will, approach her and start a light simple conversation.e.g ask her about her classes, her name etc.
However, if she does not receprocate your smile don't take it personal, she might be somewhat shy. So just find another chance and flash her another smile.
ps. make sure your teeth/mouth are in order. No colourful bits stuck between your teeth, no food smudged over your lips etc.
: )
2007-03-25 20:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by mahawi61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go right to her the next time u see her n ask her for a date.
I read a phrase, its like this"take the first step in faith, you dont have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step"
That's all you need to do now, be brave n take the first step!
2007-03-25 20:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Shiuan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get her to one side and ask her out. If you find that to hard or your shy write a not and give it to her then walk away and see what happens you will soon know if she feels the same way. GOOD LUCK it worked for me
2007-03-25 20:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try and approch her, at a good time, like lunch.. ask simple questions and introduce yourself...nothing too full on...just ask how she is and stuff...and maybe things will hit off....you gotta put effort in, cos if you dont try you cant succed...goodluck
2007-03-25 20:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool dude. Next time you make eye contact, just walk over and say" "I couldn't help noticing you around, and I thought maybe I should come over and say hi..." :)
2007-03-25 20:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by The Oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start saying hi to her whenever you pass her and then that'll work you up to actually approaching her and saying hi and how are you and then eventually do you wanna go to a movie
good luck
2007-03-25 20:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by pogsick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get the courage, walk over to her and just say, "hi". Don''t expect a girl to start this..
2007-03-25 20:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋