where are all the nice guys at?

Question

where do you all hang out at to meet a nice gal?

Answer 1

We don't, we simply make friends and if some come around that are intrested in us and we are intrested in them. Things go from their. But as the saying goes... Nice guys finish last... well now u know the reason. LOL

P.S. I'm RIGHT HERE []_ [()] []_

Answer 2

Most nice guys are at the following *places*:

#1: with their excellent girlfriends/wives who they were lucky enough to find and whom they will never take for granted because they know such women are the exception;

#2: still suffering from the illusion that women want nice guys (instead of b*stards who indiscriminately warp/ruin the souls of women) but don't have a clue as to where such nice girls are nor enough social skills to make a woman want to let them get beyond the introductory speech because such men are nice but not smooth - or suffer from a lack of polished style because they themselves are real and do not present an image of what women want but present their true selves;

#3: have come to the conclusion that they will never get anywhere with women because women want immoral brutes so they gave up a long time ago and have let porn substitute for a relationship;

#4: They're gay.

Most nice guys do not know where to find women so they don't hang out anywhere except at the loser places where their friends tell them too, like bars.

Most nice guys that got lucky (myself included) just happened to have God smile on them after many decades of misery just right at the moment when they decided to become monks; and most of us nice guys who did find "miss Right" were definitely NOT looking - the fact is that trying hard to look was the deal killer - it seems that it just has to happen naturally for nice guys because they can't compete in terms of the "Meat market", a trick more suited to the many cut-throat Neanderthals out there who have no sense of guilt, shame or compassion.

Their ignorance notwithstanding, most nice guys can be found at Grocery Stores and Malls.

Answer 3

Face it, you don't really want a nice guy, do you? :o)

Instead, you're question needs to read, "where are all the guys I can control and manipulate in to getting what I want?"

Frankly, all the nice guys are in support group meetings trying to figure out what women really want.

All I know is Hollywood doesn't put nice guys on the big screen for a reason.

you silly, silly gals.

Answer 4

where are all of the nice girls at? i think that we are all around each and we meet everyday. but what i have come to terms with is the fact that when you are looking for the "nice guy or girl" that's not what you really want. in your earlier years you want the a*******le but i think that later years in your life that nice guy will be the last person that you expect. don't worry you will find love. i have no doubt in that.

Answer 5

The nice guys dont hang out. Thats were your'e going wrong. Thay are at home because they dont have any friends. They listen to music on their headphones and dream about girls like you.

Answer 6

you dont hang out in a certain place to look for a nice girl. usually you meet her through friends or just by luck.

Answer 7

there is 2 billion nice guys out there, but only 1 million of them are awesome.........

i'm in 1 of the 1million, we hanged out at club and park and other places......you gotta find us *wink*

Answer 8

Nice guys have been trampled on, used, abused, taken for granted, and not appreciated. So they either don't go out, or they become old and bitter. Nice girls are the ones that are harder to find...

Answer 9

Bars are of course the worst place to go. If you want to meet a good man, you have to find them where decent guys hang out. I gather you are looking for a seriously good man for a seriously good relationship.

VOLUNTEER. This is a positive activity and conversation flows easily with other do gooders. Choose your non profit with care. Not all charities are equal when it comes to meeting guys. Chose one that men enjoy: these men will be outdoors and manly. Habitat for Humanity is an example. MMMM all those muscles and tools! It is also a good karma way to help people tool

GOLFING. This is where lots of guys hang out. If you hate sports, so what. Get a few lessons and join em. Even if you are the worst golfer around most men will be gentlemen and encouraging. It is a great outdoors activity and many men appreciate a woman golfer. It can become a pleasant way to meet someone and have sensible fun without too many hassles. A great flirtation op when you need help with your swing. Just watch out for flying balls. (I had to say that LOL)

TAKE A BICYCLE TOUR. This is another good meet n greet activity. These tours are crammed with good men. There are often benefit rides for MS or whatever so you are also doing charity work too! Most of these guys are very health conscious, confident and nice. You will also meet some great women. Bike tours often include an overnight stop, great idea, hmm? There are tours available for all distances usually, and you work up your stamina. Men like it because it gives them great legs. You will too. And those tight little racing shorts they wear can inspire you to enjoy being last in line LOL.

TAKE A SELF-IMPROVEMENT WORKSHOP. These people are evolved, sensitive and looking to become more so. There is much room for interaction because of those group exercises. Men like them because they learn about the opposite sex and listen to women. You will walk away with more self-confidence and positive reinforcement about yourself.

JOIN A SUPPOR GROUP. This is a caring environment where everyone shares their deepest needs and fears. This way you can discover if a guy is attractively insecure or certifiable. Remember to be honest and not make something up. Men like the help they get with their problems. You never know, you might give up that habit you have sworn off for the last ten New Year resolutions!

DO A CHARITY MARATHON. Every organization seems to have these walks or runs for fundraising. The men are healthy and careful of their health. There is much training involved and this is a good way to meet fellow athletes. Perhaps pair with a male training buddy for the months ahead of the race. Get to know him. Have an after race gathering full of pasta and fun. This is a good place for men to feel like they are doing good and feeling good. A very healthy environment. Many are passionate about the cause for the marathon or a personal connection. Maybe they lost a friend or mother to breast cancer. So there is also an element of activism involved. Great way to raise money and feel good and get healthy.

HANG OUT AT COFFEE BARS. Every city has a million of these. Many encourage patrons to linger and read and chat. In my town there are many built right into very good bookstores. We have on that has philosophy nights every Wednesday. This is an easy way to approach someone about the book they are reading as they sit across from you on a sofa. Good way to meet people for sure. You might end up continuing the convo over dinner. This is a good way for men because it is a break from work and $$ etc. You not only meet guys, but catch up on you reading and improve your fabulous brain.

YOUR LOCAL HEALTH STORE. Customers here will be health minded. There are usually boards with great ideas of local healthy activities like cooking classes or yoga or some such. These men are healthy and like to take care of themselves and are often good cooks because they are fussy about what goes into their tummies.

CONVENTIONS. If you can handle Trekkies… LOL. But seriously conventions of any sort will attract large groups which can increase your chances of meeting a nice single guy. It offers also immediate topics of discussion and exploration. If a guy is at such a thing, chances are he is passionate about the subject matter. You might find him. You might find a new passion without him.

A FEW LAST LOOSE END IDEAS. Check out a dancing group or a coed baseball team. How about your trusted friends? Family members?

UNIVERSITY COURSE. Don’t go in for “feminist issues in the 19th century” however. Find an interest that is a reflection of you and pursue it. Philosophy, the arts, athletics, world religions, the variety of offerings in higher institutions is amazing. Perhaps a business course. Tailor it slightly according to the type of male you seek but realize there are no “normals” out there. A big apish looking jock might have a be into women’s lit. You learn, and you meet guys.

Ads in the paper, well you have to be very cautious, same as anyone you might meet on the internet. Internet dating services, some are good, some are bad. And when they are bad, they can be very very bad.

My personal solution was to join a Muslim service and I was literally batting them off with a stick within a week. Heck I am 58! Muslims do not date so I knew I would find serious seekers. And their educational levels are usually astronomical. I have never seen so many Masters and PHds under 30! And you know they have high morals.

Yes it worked for me. I married a lovely man of 35 last year. He flew me to his native country and we had a wonderful marriage and very long honeymoon. But we had to separate, very reluctantly because for political reasons (read government) I cannot live where he now resides.

Don't give up hope -- and don't head for the convent just yet! Take a deep breath, catch your second wind. The ideas I suggest are win win activities for you even if you strike out. But, chances are you will meet with success. If I can do it, you can do it! Very good luck to you honey.

Answer 10

us nice guys are RIGHT HERE!! :D