This girl in highschool (we both are freshman) I like her. We have 1 class together and that biology. I see her in the hallways like alot because our classes are near each other.
My friend (we are close) is like her best friend and I asked him to tell her i like her. He did so now she knows and she is giving me looks and I think she is waiting for me to make the first move (break the ice). I need help to talk to her because Im shy and its hard for me to get the confidence to go up to her and to talk to her. I can make a conversation about the stupidest stuff but when im around her i cant help but to stay quiet. Around other girls im a huge flirt. I know i must talk to her but i just need tips and topics to talk to her with (im a pretty decent looking guy if that helps).
Could i try to write a note to her?
2007-03-25 20:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by Bryan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am like you but time has change, I am now confidence to talk and miggle with girls. My friend I did not get help but in you case I'll help. Get up from being shy and go talk to her but treat her with respect. Do not talk about sex or anything that that will hurt her feelings. Be gentle with her as females are not tough as males. Talk to her about school, books, musics, studies,movies, games, and sports. Don't talk a lot about yourself let her talk about herself. Let her see yourself so don't act as someone else always be true to yourself. Try to change example be more hardworking, smarter and helpful. If you smoke or bully then stop. She will then like you more and if you know about her feelings towards you then ask her on a date.Be yourself when you mix with her,her family,and her friends. If you have more Q then e-mail me. Good Luck and try to talk to her as fast as possible don't give her a note but give a video of yourself about your life, hobbies, and friends if you must
P.S Be yourself always
2007-03-25 20:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Aditya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T WRITE HER A NOTE! i'm a junior in h.s. and it sounds like having ur friend tell her FOR you that you like her was "middle school" enough. The way to impress her is to just walk up to her, make a lil conversation, then go in for the kill. it takes guts to ask a girl out, so i don't blame you for freaking. here's some conversation starters:
start: hey! how's it goin?
1.) so what's ur next class?
2.) what's ur fav. class?
3.) so do you live around here? (how long have you lived here?/gone to school here?)
(Make sure you show genuine interest in what she's saying and maintain eye contact with her. use her answers to branch off into new questions about HER--don't talk about urself too much, unless she asks.)
then, when you think she's warming up to you (which might take a few approaches), just ask her "hey, if you're not doing anything friday night, wanna go to dinner or a movie or something with me?"
you can do it man! go sweep her off her feet!
2007-03-26 03:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't use notes. You shouldn't have even told your friend to tell her. Girls want face-to-face answers. The look could just mean curiosity and not neccasarily that she likes you, but it's worth a try right? So this is what you do: You say "Hey" it's as simple as that. It will initiate the relationship. You will find things along the way from there.
2007-03-26 03:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be playful and humorous, that i always good. and try saying the stupidest joke you know to break the ice because if a guy ever came up to me and did that i would laugh like im crazy cuz its cute. so make a fool of yourself in a good way and then it wont be hard to ask her out.
goodluck!
2007-03-26 03:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I know is that one talks by opening the mouth and letting words riding on some air through the vocal cords, come out of it.
Go up to her and get this, she knows you like her as well. She could also be antsy about it. Start by sitting by her and some words will come out...
All ze best
2007-03-26 03:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bruno Tataglia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shy?write her a note.letter?don't.u might write something she don't wanna know.wel,i'm a girl.i know how she feels.we (girls) dont need daring guy to straight about their feelings to us,just be urself.of course we dont want our firt met is like cinderell in a castle but the next is like hell.so,be urself & confident.try to see her when not so many people around both of u.wel,hope this will help!
2007-03-26 03:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rehearse what your gonna say over and over again and try telling yourself positive things as if things don't go to plan you'll need a fairly high self esteem to stay above water. If you get what I mean.
2007-03-26 03:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Gumby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say a HI ! 2 her,,ask her abt which class she hAs nxt,,,,OR thnk of sm wrk 2ask her lik a homework,,a notes,,or some teamwork bt dnt b concentratd on tht clas qstn,,it mit mak u nt move any further......notes r okey....bt it wud 2 secretive.......mayb nt cool dude start u mit wnt........betr tak....hwever hard it mit seem,,u wil knw her exact thoughts and reaction.....try and b a friend first......who is stable and wnts 2 advance into romantic relationship .I SAID STABLE BCOZ IN FRNT OF GIRLS U OUGHT NT 2 MAK A FOOL OF URSELF BY BEING AOVERLY SMART PERSON.
GUD LUCK!
2007-03-26 03:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by shashi s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋