We have seperated and he is refusing to pay me money he borrowed from me and my half of bond money. I've been to a solicitor and he's sent my maggot of a husband a letter stating payment within 7 days. It's now been 9 days and we've not heard a word. My husband is a police officer and verbally abused me for 12 months until I got the money to GET OUT. I'm now on my own and I want my money. For the last 6 months of my marriage, I lived in the spare room of the house we were renting. I was paying half the rent and half of every bill that came into the place. Also half food bills. If he laid eyes on me he would verbally abuse me. He accused me of having toy boys and sugar daddys because I wasn't giving him sex. He is a VERY HEAVY DRINKER. 133 cans of beer in 12 days. He drives DRUNK and is not worried about getting caught because he's stated, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS FLASH MY BADGE and they'll let me drive off. This man has no concience. He's a drunken abuser and doesn't care.
2007-03-25 20:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by kazza_kazza_kazza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sad to say, many times there is nothing much we can do because the legal fees will be too much in relation to the amount you want to claim. Unless, you are able to sue him for both the amount he owes you and the legal fees. Maybe you can ask your lawyer for advice on that.
If you can't get back your money, think of other ways to do it. For example, sue him for abuse. You can also tape him drink-driving and lodge a report. Think of all the horrible things he is doing, collect all evidence and sue him.
If all else fails, cover him with a sack and beat him up. If he can do things dirty, you can too.
2007-03-25 20:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by hattybatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the adult world of paying your own bills. Regardless of how much you dislike your soon-to-be ex husband, you are responsible for your own well being. I would suggest you find a job. Your financial dilemma isn't likely to be resolved until you go to court.
2007-03-25 20:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to go back to your lawyer and file for a court order.
2007-03-25 21:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue the bastard!
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2007-03-25 20:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋