What do you when you find things online about your boyfriend..?

Question

Well here it is my cousins and I were online and we each typed in our boyfriends' screen names and found some interesting things like personals from different sites and things like myspace, red light social center. With my boyfriend I found him all over the place even in red light social center and on it a girl is claiming he's a good 'uck and he's claiming she's his future wife when with me he keeps telling me he doesn't believe in marriage. I found him at other personals as well dating back to 2005. We've been together for 5 yrs this June. I already emailed him a list of the sites and I've noticed other things as well in his myspace he's single, on his AOL page he's single, everywhere he's single except at this red light place he's in a relationship now I have to wonder is he in a relationship with this girl or with me. Now I'm just trying to figure out how to react to all this. I thought I loved him, I feel like I do but I'm not even sure anymore of my feelings for him. Or his.

Answer 1

wow....i think that you need to dump him...ask him outright if hes cheating on you . If he says no then refer to the things you found online and tell him its over because if he really cared for you these things wouldn't be happening. He is jerk leading on someone else and you...do yourself a favor and let him go...it will be hard of course ,5 years is a long time but you deserve to be happy and with someone who will be faithful.

Answer 2

Are you absolutely positive it's him?
You should make certain before throwing accusations, I mean surely if you've been together five years he isn't stupid enough to plaster himself all over the internet like that. If he wanted to be single, I'm sure that he wouldn't be in a five year long relationship :)

I remember a while ago, some loser took the time to make a fake profile about a friend of mine, just took his photos off his myspace. It was that simple.

Answer 3

The best thing would propably be to talk with him about. There are propbly many lies around, perhaps he had only a look on this sites. But if you talk about to him, you should notice how serous, or not the case is!

Answer 4

Talk to him personally about it. Just because one site says single doesn't mean anything. He might not even check that site. Just talk to him face to face. Get him to admit it if his is doing wrong. Don't just assume, but talk face to face. If you can't trust him now, what's to say you can trust him in the future.

Answer 5

u gotta confront him. u've been with him for 5years, he should respect u enough to explain. about the single stuff on myspace, thats just normal for guys to do that. i might mean nothing but unless u confront him u'll never know.

Answer 6

I would definitely confront him about it . he could have reasons for that . hard to jump into conclusions so there's no other way but for you to ask him about it face to face . that way you'd see how he'd react too and you can have your mind at ease . it's better to be in the know even if it will hurt

Answer 7

i think the next time you wanna type your boyfriends name online you better think twice before doing that.. i'd rather not bring up old matters...he might not like it..some people have no control on their online friends....so your boyfriend cant be blame....

Answer 8

He's a cheater no matter what he says. Guilty until proven innocent. Dump him!

Answer 9

Get more info, ask his close friends or family. Then confront him. let him know how you feel about the whole thing.

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Answer 10

Let him have his good time on-line.. On-line flirting is harmless. Lots of people including those married are addicted to on-line flirtings.. It will just go away..