Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

Once I was a very strong and independent woman. I've been thru a hard marriage, widowhood, raising two sons on my own and a new marriage.
I have lost all trust in my current husband. He has lied several times to me and I caught him in an online affair. The emails about me were lies and burned my heart. He apologized, but I can't trust him.
I am very old school when it comes to marriage. It is sacred to me. I believe you should try forgiving someone and move on, but this is consuming me.
I feel I need to kick his **** out, and as I think it thru it is very hard. My sons will be effected by losing a second father and I am also a business woman with employees under me. The business is in its 2nd year. My husb gives me some money twice a month. If he is not there, I might have to close the business and then my employees will lose their jobs and that would kill me because I care about them, too.
I am in so much torment.

2007-03-24 17:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 17:47:45 · 28 answers · asked by Clyz15 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 17:47:14 · 16 answers · asked by violet 1 in Singles & Dating

My 1/2 duplex was originally built to be one suite. It is now two and thus has NO soundproofing. I can hear the neighbors alarm clock! They can hear mine. I can hear their t.v. channel and their arguements.. often word for word. My concern is that I am having a baby in a few months. The neighbors can even hear my baby's heartbeat when I listen on my machine! That is not loud at all. They say the porch door in my enterance echos in their place. I am in the basement and it is cold. I turn the heat on, and they complain that they sweat and open their windows in a Canadian winter. These neighbors are moving this week. I don't know who will my new neighbors will be. But my newborn will cry and wake up at night.. they will hear everything... I don't want to be tense with my baby crying and being more uncomfortable in my home then I was with these neighbors.. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

i am a single mom and would move when my lease is up with a newborn baby and a 7 year old. I love my location now

2007-03-24 17:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

like omg i like so like destroyed like my my bboyfriends palm like pilot and he he like doesn't like kno , like omg like how do i like tell him becuz like i like like like....ummm whats it liked called ohh yah like LOVE HUIM, and like if he like finds out he'll like kill me or like break up with me like that will like be so like horrible becuz i like love him and he like loves like me so like what should i like do to make him not be like mad like about this like whole like thing like thanz like love u all who like answer this:D

2007-03-24 17:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by MORGAN 1 in Singles & Dating

had problems with her or she doesn't know you too well.How can you tell?

2007-03-24 17:45:53 · 11 answers · asked by greg t 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 17:45:33 · 7 answers · asked by Hey You 2 in Singles & Dating

if not or if so....explainnn

2007-03-24 17:44:54 · 25 answers · asked by your_ma_was_here 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 18, I am a single mom. She still lives at home, I do not charge her for anything. I buy for all our needs. She has a part time job and is a full time student. She met this guy two months ago. Since then my daughter wants to take up another job and is always short of money. She said her hours at work are not enough. All she pays are her student loan, half of our car financing and her cell phone. Now she tells me she has not enough money to pay her cell phone.
This boy does not go to school, does not try to get a part time job, lives at his mom's house. I know he does not have money. I suspect that he borrows money from my daughter and my daughter spends when they go out.

2007-03-24 17:44:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 17:43:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

any information on her

2007-03-24 17:43:46 · 1 answers · asked by Don H 1 in Friends

2007-03-24 17:43:35 · 8 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you ever wonder what if you acted differently in a situation?
what would happen if u acted instead of acted shy and quiet in something?
like i kinda regret being shy all through high school...
and not doing anything about a crush. i had a monster crush on this junior when i was a freshman in high school...and i wanted to ask him to the dance but i didnt....and whenver i was around him i was so quiet. and then i moved to another school and never saw him again.
i constantly wonder what wouldve happened if i worked up the guts to tell him that i liked him....
i guess im just scared of rejection.
have u ever been in a similar situation?

2007-03-24 17:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One month and 25 days ago, I broke up with my girl friend of 3 months and 13 days. I thought I was over her but I'm not sure, I have done almost EVERYTHING to try to get over her, but NOTHING I do seems to be working. I tried focusing on other people, but no luck. I had a date 2 months ago, but that didn't turn out so well considering that my date invited my girlfriend along with us =/. Does anyone have any suggestions as how I can get over her???

2007-03-24 17:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a boyfriend!!!! and what's worse, is i think i'm falling for a girl at my school who's straight!!

2007-03-24 17:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does it bother them? When should you stop?

2007-03-24 17:41:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 17:40:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 17:40:50 · 6 answers · asked by he had me at hello 1 in Friends

my husband asked me to let his ex stay at our house cause she is in legal trouble. her family wont let her stay there cause of all she has done. is it wrong for me to say no even though she has a kid that isnt his

2007-03-24 17:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by wlfbelcher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since myspace got big and everyone and their dog has a page, all i hear or see is myspace drama or beef. Here are some common issues that permanently damage peoples lives:

1.people catching their gf/bf cheatin
2.best friends kicking each other out of their top eight
3.husbands gettin busted when women put " just puttin some love on your page"
4.people getting caught on myspace at work
5.people who are involved/married listing their status as single
6.best friends who split because one is a friend on myspace with somebody the other one hates..

heres a lil public service announcement :

MYSPACE RUINS LIVES
if u have an account close it before u get sucked in!!!

2007-03-24 17:40:38 · 13 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Friends

What is the difference between a woman who gets pregnant on purpose when the man did want any or more kids?

Compared to man having a vasectomy without telling the woman in his life that he cannot no longer have kids?

2007-03-24 17:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by isbros 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... so i have had predominantly guy friends for all my life, so it pretty much desensitized me to the hints that guys give when they like you. Can anyone tell me waht are some of the hints guys give when they like you? what are the oddities that wouldnt make sense to me?

2007-03-24 17:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by badchic55c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm 13 and I would like to ask this girl out.
I'm good friends with her but I'm not sure how to ask her out.
I mean should I txt her or ring her or just ask her out in person and also any tips on what to say because Im new to this.
Oh and she's also a couple of months older than me should i still ask her out.
thanks

2007-03-24 17:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by Shakey_101 2 in Singles & Dating

i just lost my best friend travis in a car crash on 3-23-07 and its killing me . im best friends with his g/f and he waited every day for us to get out of school and if she was out before me he was still there. or bring us food at lunch even tho he was in school . he was a great friend and knowing he wont be there and omg fair at fair time he was there with his cows he was going to help me show mine its my first year annd now idk if ill show his b-day is friday this coming week we had a party planed and everything how do i get over him it hurts sooo bad plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 17:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by Amada 1 in Friends

I have been dating this girl and we just got really close & I found out that she gets really really wet like a pool. I have dated couple of times before & this is totally new & shocking to me. I understand normal arousal but this is unimaginable & turns me off completely.

I am afraid to ask her or discuss about it & I am afraid I might offend her.

Is this something normal or there is something wrong and what is the reason behind it & if there is a solution to it.

Thank you.
Mike

2007-03-24 17:38:32 · 9 answers · asked by mike2op 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do im a full blooded italian also but i dont wanna get whacked

2007-03-24 17:38:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just turned 18 years old and i never had any relation with females im not gay or anything . i think i might be too shy or maybe i just dont have a clue how to have a converstion with females... i need some help/advice

2007-03-24 17:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by anonym s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school right now, and i've notice this one girl, i dont know her but i just seen her walkin in the halls and i really want to get to know her. so how/where should i start i have no clue what to do :(

my guy friend is friends with her but i dont really talk to my guy friend much we aint that close friends. so its weird just goin up to him and askin him to hook me up~

2007-03-24 17:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by George 2 in Singles & Dating

im talking to my friend right now and he keeps on saying he is gonna die alone.. what a girl to say to a guy about that?

2007-03-24 17:37:57 · 20 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Friends

My boyfriend of 7+ years and I have different opinions of what makes a relationship work, what each person has to bring to the table to feed the relationship, going out, etc., etc. He never wants to go out. As a matter of fact he prefers to lie in bed, watching TV anytime he's not working. He doesn't help out around he house, he doesn't help pay bills, he starts an argument whenever I mention going out (with him or with my girlfriends). I had new furniture delivered 3 weeks ago, the old furniture is still still crowding the room because he is too lazy to help me dump it (not do it himself, but help me). Whenever I go out with friends he accuse me of seeing "him" (whoever in the hell "him" is). I've never cheated, but he has. We're trying to work things out, but his constant false accusations and unwillingness to compromise are causing me to want out of the relationship. I've tried talking to him to let him know what I am feeling, but we always end up arguing. Any suggestions?

2007-03-24 17:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by T-Dub 1 in Singles & Dating