Absolutely not! There is no way I would let that happen. She got herself into trouble, now she has to deal with the consequences. She is his EX (and for good reason apparently), he does not owe her anything...especially since the child is not his.
2007-03-24 17:44:46
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answered by michellecdnd 3
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Not enough information, but generally speaking, I'd say this is a lot to ask of you. The ex would have to be absolutely without anyone else to go to and be in such a bad situation that there was not other choice.
You could say, yes, with limitations. Place a time restriction on how long you will tolerate the ex living with you and stick to it. Get agreement with your husband on those limitations before this person moves it.
I'm having a hard time understanding how your husband could even suggest this to you.
2007-03-24 17:51:28
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answered by SafetyDancer 5
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Say no by all means. The fact that her family doesn't want a bar of her is a big red flag that this person is just plain trouble. Having her stay there will probably cause tension in your marriage too. Not only that, when it comes time for her to go, you might have trouble getting rid of her too. Something to consider anyway. Kind regards, Penny xx
2007-03-24 18:03:04
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answered by Vanessa 6
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It's your house too. I can understand that he still feels the need to take care of her. It's a guy thing that I really can't explain. I felt it too.
It sounds like she is a real winner and will not do your family any good to have her in your house. If you can, put her up in a hotel for a couple of nights. But she has to get her act together and not depend on her ex to come to her rescue. Do you know the word enabler?
2007-03-24 17:50:35
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answered by wildwillyinva 4
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She is called his, ex, right? Her family won't let her stay with them because all she has done, right? You are your husband's wife, right? And, she has a kid that isn't his? After all of the above, you are asking if it is wrong to say NO? You gotta be kidding? Your husband divorced this woman and they don't have any children together. He is no longer responsible for her health and happiness; he is responsible for your health and happiness! Listen to the Wizeman, he knows!
2007-03-24 17:49:06
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answered by wizeman 2
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an exceptionally sick mama dogs is an truly annoying subject. and that i comprehend your anger at various the solutions which you gained. that's generic which you will desire to vent decrease back to those individuals a number of your anger and frustration. So, attempt to proceed to be calm and save your concentration on your dogs & doggies. do no longer enable this cloud your genuine objective - a healthful dogs. And confident, i'd desire to renowned this effect. Kudos to you on your speedy action in looking after 7 doggies! it is not basic! I wish that greater people would comprehend that there are circumstances that stump even the superb of vets. mutually as the calicum situation is the main trouble-free with those indications, it isn't the only reason. And your dedication to this dogs and her doggies is extremely, very admirable. So, you recognize which you're responding to this disaster contained in the superb way achieveable. you're doing all you're able to do in an truly complicated subject. enable God handle something. Peace
2016-10-01 11:00:12
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answered by faim 4
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If your husband's ex is in legal trouble, I would definitely say no.
Your husband may think he knows who his ex is, but if her own family will not take her in, then there are definitely big issues. If you are willing to care for her child, while she is having trouble, then do that, but if you are not comfortable with her staying in your home, then put your foot down and say no. Always trust your instincts. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 17:54:58
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answered by tropicalfancy 4
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No it is not wrong to say no. Obviously your husband's ex has a problem. It is not his new family's problem. The fact that this woman would even consider staying there is a major red flag, try banner. It is your home and she should not stay unless you both are in agreeement.
http://www.predator-awareness.com/
2007-03-24 17:45:41
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answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4
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You need to say no. Men need to hear no.
If he is genuinely concerned for the kid, take the kid in for a day or two....but the ex-wifey is an adult (and a bit of a gem by the sounds of things). She needs to find her own way. If her own family wont take her those are big red flags..... SAY NO.
2007-03-24 18:24:04
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answered by Sweetserenity 3
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You have every right to say no!
I would and have with wife ex husband when he ask her to stay with us 4 years ago!
I told him he had nerve and to get the hell out of here in front of wife so as to leave no misunderstanding on feeling about this jerk off!
wife and I haven't herd from him scenes!
DO THE SAME!
2007-03-24 17:47:47
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answered by Free-Lance 5
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