I just turned 18 years old and i never had any relation with females im not gay or anything . i think i might be too shy or maybe i just dont have a clue how to have a converstion with females... i need some help/advice
2007-03-24 17:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by anonym s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha. hey buddy. i'm 19, and never had a gf. i am shy, and i use to not know girls. i went to an all guys highschool. anyways, now i know many girls, and can talk with them no problem. thing is, i can't find one that is right for me, who ALSO likes me back. this stuff is hard. it takes times. you know, maybe we are just not attractive. oh well. i KNOW it's hard, but focus on other things.
people tell me when you stop looking that is when things happen for you. i think that is a bunch of bs, but it's the best advice i can give you. you are probably a cool guy, and if you are like me you beat yourself up about everything. maybe not, heh. girls girls girls. if you like one right now, or find one you do like, take it from me, pursue her! even if, like me, it doesn't work out, because after months and months she shows no interest. no regrets dude. no regrets!
2007-03-24 17:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by OrangeBunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. It will happen. Now HS is over and it is a new start. Anything thta has happened or hasn't happened dosen't matter.
Get in college thats where the girls are. Check out this show at this web site blowmeuptom.com listen to the radio show. Leykis 101 will help.
You have to talk to women.....you need to make yourself talk to one women a day until you can interact without being scared. I don't care if its a waitress or the checkout girl or the girl who sits next to you in class. Have one conversation with one girl a day. And lets face it you need help.....Get on a match.com or something like it and reply to one ad a day. The guys who ask out the most women date the most women. The stigma is off internet dating, use it. Keep the faith it will happen.
2007-03-25 01:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well buddy its normal if u dont have normal gf at the age of 18 in india well countries like france , Scotland ,US finding a gf at this age is quite normal. Well i would suggest if ur not finding it dont losse heart comon ur young u got hell of time in ur life to find a girl Well i found gf at the age of 26 trust me i found the ebst girl of my life(it another thing she is not indian).
Well best way to aprroach a women is to go and talk to her dont be shy.
things will work out
2007-03-25 11:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by vikas_dellcomputers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky u--so u have also been saved with being dumped and sleepless nites cos ur relationship broke-man!! ur one lucky dude--neways--go easy on urself-ur not gay--so that kinda solves all probs-and go easy on the girls--be cool and calm--y the heck u gotta b nervous? the girl isnt someone from outta this world--shes is normal just like u and me--and usually the most gorgeous girls have complexes abt them themselves--so inflate their ego
2007-03-25 02:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by fahima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now i ain't that old ya'll but i remeber that i got my fist bf ( 20 ) i was calm nice and a good lookin. worked for me.
2007-03-25 12:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by LaffyTaffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheers me to.........
thats life without any girls........
2007-03-25 02:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by orange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋