What is the difference between a woman who gets pregnant on purpose when the man did want any or more kids?
Compared to man having a vasectomy without telling the woman in his life that he cannot no longer have kids?
2007-03-24 17:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by isbros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think there is any difference between either act. They are both trifling as hell.
2007-03-24 17:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both acts are deceitful. I think if a man has a vasectomy and gets into a new relationship, he should be up front with his partner and advise her that he cannot have children.
I definitely think that a married man, or a man in a relationship should discuss having a vasectomy with his partner as well, because if you are in a serious relationship things of that nature should be discussed openly.
If a woman gets pregnant on purpose when she knows her spouse or partner does not want more children, that is a betrayal as well.
I think if a couple is truly on the same page and really love one another, then no secrets should be kept, and each person should respect the others wishes.
2007-03-25 00:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by tropicalfancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who purposely gets pregnant against the guys wishes is bringing another life in to the world vs the man getting a vasectomy without the woman knowing.
2007-03-25 00:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman purposefully getting pregnant is using a child. A man having a vasectomy is a decision not to have children. I respect the man's choice and am sickened by the use of children for manipulation. Big difference.
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2007-03-25 00:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the first situation, she is doing something that will consume the rest of his life. But then again, if he is willing to have sex, he should be ready to face the fact that he may become a father.
With his act, he is letting someone believe in a dream that will very likely never come true.
Both of these behaviors are inherently dishonest. Which would bring up the subject, what are these people doing in a relationship based upon deceit?
2007-03-25 00:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the woman is deceitful, the man is responsible for child support.
When the man is deceitful, the man loses his partner.
Either way, the man pays. So it's better to be honest.
2007-03-25 00:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference is bringing a child into a situation where the child is unwanted by one of the parents. When a child comes into the equation you are no longer dealing with just what two adults want.
2007-03-25 00:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no differance between the 2.They are both dishonest and decietful things to do.Especially when both people should have a say in something of that importance.
2007-03-25 03:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by cs_rouge_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman gets pregnant.. you, her, and MOSTLY the child will be hurt for the rest of your lives!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When a man gets a vasectomy it ONLY HURTS HER!
2007-03-25 00:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deceit is always a sin
2007-03-25 00:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋