Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help me

2007-03-24 18:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had this condition known as mudd butt for a week due to eating the large quantaties of curry. Every time I bathe, the mud butt just returns and so does the smell from my pores.

Should I even bother taking a bath anymore?

2007-03-24 18:12:52 · 23 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I have been married 5 y.We have a 3-yr daughter. My husb is 48 & I'm 40. I couldn't do anything w/o him until recently & if I did he would lose it. He made it clear he would never let me go.Constant-extreme posessive, jealousy & over-attentive was scary-same time it was flattering & confusing. If I did things he didn't approved, he would pin me to the bed or closet wall & yell uncontrolably in my face. If I tried 2 leave, he violently force me to stay. He never allowed me 2 do things I use to enjoy. He managed 2 get fired from his job 2ys ago & never returned to the workforce. He wanted to be "mr. mom." I did not agree! I've been sole provider & encouraged him 2 get a job! His mom died in 7/2006 & he's benef of her pension.He did a 360 in our marriage & walked out as soon as he began receiving his benef $1,500 mo. f/ the rest of his life. I haven't received $$ from him.Numerous times I tried 2 leave-he forced me 2 stay! I HATE HIM-so why does my heart deeply want him back!

2007-03-24 18:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by Tatiana Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is 2 guys who I like i know 1 likes me but not sure about the other i just want your opinion about them if u were me


#1. He's athletic, he plays basket ball, soccer, and likes ping-pong. He is short though, like 5feet 2inches or something. He looks at me during class. He flirts, can't describe how. And we hug every day after school. Also he has liked him me since the beging of last school year. Also he has a 4.0 GPA


#2. He is athletic sort of, he plays sports with his friends. He has a guitar. he's tall like 6 something. When in a group he's kina weird but alone he's nice and not bad to talk to. We tickle each other, he grabs my knee and tries to tickle me like that, and he doesn't have the best grades, he can also be really sweet

2007-03-24 18:12:42 · 6 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

I apoligized to her for some things i did,and she stormed out of the gym mad.2 months later,she smiled at me,but she still kept her distance and so did i.

2007-03-24 18:12:18 · 2 answers · asked by greg t 1 in Singles & Dating

im 12 and not like a fat buff girl infact im quite skinny and pretty in boys eyes but im also strong,fast,got strong legs,nice punch,and can basiclly take down and out run every boy except for three boy in my whole school am i the kinda girl you would really want to date?

2007-03-24 18:12:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An ex got all screaming at me about how much he hated me and how he resented that I considered him the center of my world (I dont) and how I was responsible for all the bad crap in his life -what had preceeded the incident was me asking him and two weeks later he expects me to be his friend as if nothing happened.
Um - am I nuts, or is an appology the least I deserve before I should even consider being his friend?

2007-03-24 18:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Friends

im really falling for one of my best guy friends.
im scared to tell him, what if he never talks to me agian?
i know i've posted this already, but there was something i forgot to add,
she(my bff) broke up with him because she cheated on him, and said he deserved better.
do u think would be fine with it?
or hate me?

2007-03-24 18:11:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like is a bit shy around me, so I dunno if he likes me or my friend more? He talks to her a lot and gets into a lot of little arguments with her. Is there signs about that, because I always feel like he's staring at me, but when I look up, I feel like I'm crazy... Help?

2007-03-24 18:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by ☆Danielle☆ 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I am not the only guy dating two girls...just lay off, I would rather have guys answer anyways!

2007-03-24 18:10:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for two years. I am a junior in high school and he is a senior. He did like me when we first met but I turned him down because he was really clingy. A couple months ago we almost nearly went out but didn't because he didn't want to hurt me because i would have been a "rebound girl" since it was right after him and his gf of almost a year broke up. But he always said maybe in the future something could happen. Him and his gf went back out for a little while but now they are broken up for good and he has been single for like a month and a half. I now feel like I really like him a lot. Should I just be straight forward with him and let him know? I don't know what else to do...or how much more waiting around I can take.

2007-03-24 18:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by more than words 1 in Singles & Dating

i will like to help me find a guy name verniot estherling living an america dob on 06/28/1980 from in haiti ilove to meet him or having contac please help with this is his babi mother

2007-03-24 18:09:26 · 1 answers · asked by merline theodoregoing on nowokay 1 in Friends

If a single man does not want kids by his personal choice, health condition or thru a vasectomy should he be praised for having good responsibility or being selfish ?

2007-03-24 18:08:46 · 20 answers · asked by isbros 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 18:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Brittany N 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 8th rade and I've found that recently I've been flirting with like every boy. I don't have any interest in most of them, but I've found in retrospect that I'm always flirting! What do I do to stop? My friend and I have actually realized we're both doing this, and we decided it was out of boredom during these classes. Are we horrible people?

2007-03-24 18:08:30 · 14 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who leaves his computer on all the time and his status always shows up as on-line even when he is at work and I know he is not on.

So, does that part regarding recent activity refer to last time they check their personals mailbox, last time they messages someone, or what?

2007-03-24 18:08:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently a guy that i was sorta hooked up with dumped me for another girl. Well now he doesnt like her anymore cuz he still liked me and says he made a mistake. I still like him but i dont just want to go back to him. Another problem! Theres another guy thats interested in me and I kinda like him!:-0 Should i go for the new guy or go for the old?( the old man has said he was sorry and stuff but idk if i should just give in or not, i stil like him tho!)

2007-03-24 18:07:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So today this girl I've liked for a while went to a movie with me a three others. We've made out before and held hands and what not. She had told me at the time she just wanted to be friends for now. So today we were watching the movie and the moment was perfect she looked into my eyes and I looked into hers and we would have kissed but because of the way I was sitting we couldnt lol. I could have asked her out then but I didnt since everyone was around and I wanted it to be private. So I waited until it was just me and her driving home and she said that my friend had let it slip I was gonna ask her out but things havent changed and she still just wanted to be friends. I reallllly like her, and I'll still be spending quite a bit of time with her. I can see us becoming good friends. But I hope to one day mabe ask her out again, what do you guys think? Should I just let it go or follow my heart? I can see us being friends sure but, shes all I think about and I cant see getting over her.

2007-03-24 18:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 18:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by violet 1 in Singles & Dating

He dumped her on her b-day and beged to go back out with her. She hates when he grabes her but she dosent want to get dumped. What should she do???!!!???!!!???!!!???!!!

2007-03-24 18:05:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a Russian girl friend I have bean writing to and want here to come to Australia what is involved I would like to do all the Paperwork myself if there is anybody out there what has done this before i would very much appreciate your help Thanking you Steven

2007-03-24 18:04:22 · 1 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My inlaws always ask for things, money for example, but never approach me, they always contact my husband directly! He can't say no to them, and they know it! It's driving me crazy, how do I make them stop?

2007-03-24 18:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by Nastedani 3 in Family

O.k. heres the deal, this woman and I dated for about a year and a half, I broke off the relationship with her for several reasons: 1. She lived with her ex-boyfriend, she said that nothing was going on with them but I never new where they stayed.

2. Her mom passed away and she was very depressed about it, so she wanted to spend more time with her family.

3. She barely kept her word on some of the slightest things ( i'm going to come over and would not show, or come extremely late )
Needless to say after a while I broke off the relationship, Now she's calling me again saying she loves me, no one has ever touched her the way I did, experienced the kind of bond we once had and STILL want to marry me.
Should I allow this woman back into my life or move on and let her meet someone else or am I being fed a bunch of B.S. again.

I do still love her and always will, but I don't know if I should take the chance again.

2007-03-24 18:02:43 · 15 answers · asked by ausaramenra2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 18:02:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm a man and I've been with the same woman for 5 yrs. She's a great woman and we have a baby together! She stayed with me even after I cheated on her! We've been engaged for a while and we even have a baby girl together. She quit her job and takes care of my 8yr old son from my first marrage and our daughter. I live in the trailer she bought before she met me and drive her car to work because my credit is so bad i can't afford one so she has no way to go anywhere. She's wanting to get married but i'm not ready and I migh lose her! what should I do?

2007-03-24 18:02:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

becaous i did it with my girl and she felt loose and she told me once that she fingered her self like 4 times is it that, that made her loose

2007-03-24 18:02:01 · 14 answers · asked by Temo G 1 in Singles & Dating

if you're in a rowboat in a bathtub in the middle of the ocean at midnight with one paddle, what do you do when the wheel falls off and lands in the leaves?

Quick!!! it's an emergency! my friend is in this situation as we SPEAK!!!!!! HELP ME FAST BEFORE SHE GETS BUCKED OUT OF THE SADDLE!!!!

2007-03-24 18:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesn't drive and leave things to me to do like paying rent,bills and any household duties.

2007-03-24 18:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by GUNNER 74 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I never get how people hook up at clubs. Sometimes an attractive girl would dance in front of me seductively for a while, usually with her back to me and kinda coming close, what should happen then? do I dare dancing and touching her? do I keep dancing without touching her until she takes the next move? do I talk with her? what the hell do I say anyway? whenever i feel like getting close or touching, i feel like a jerk harassing a woman who didnt explicitly ask for it. yet then I see everyone around me kissing and making out.

A couple of times there was a girl dancing in front of me who appeared to have "reversed" while dancing, and assuming she expects contact, i kept dfancing with my hand on her back/around her. yet it was accepted badly and she walked away. I dont wanna be that jerk in clubs girls always tell stories of! help!

2007-03-24 18:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by Karni V 1 in Singles & Dating

I like my bestfriend and would like to go out with him.But I don't want to just go up to him and tell him I like you want to go out with me!How can I let him know I like him without actually telling him?

2007-03-24 18:00:47 · 8 answers · asked by HEATHER 1 in Singles & Dating