So today this girl I've liked for a while went to a movie with me a three others. We've made out before and held hands and what not. She had told me at the time she just wanted to be friends for now. So today we were watching the movie and the moment was perfect she looked into my eyes and I looked into hers and we would have kissed but because of the way I was sitting we couldnt lol. I could have asked her out then but I didnt since everyone was around and I wanted it to be private. So I waited until it was just me and her driving home and she said that my friend had let it slip I was gonna ask her out but things havent changed and she still just wanted to be friends. I reallllly like her, and I'll still be spending quite a bit of time with her. I can see us becoming good friends. But I hope to one day mabe ask her out again, what do you guys think? Should I just let it go or follow my heart? I can see us being friends sure but, shes all I think about and I cant see getting over her.
2007-03-24 18:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thats sweet in all but dont pressure her into going out with you or feeling the same way you do... I think that she likes you because of all the romantic gestures you have named that the two of you do but I think shes scared of commentiment or likes someone slightly more than you... But thats no ezcuse to give up be strong and follow your heart and when the time is right than God will help you and guide you to her and the sparks will fly.
Hope I helped,
Brianna
2007-03-24 18:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happend to me befor. I asked a girl out, and she rejected me saying she just wants to be friends. But i really liked this girl and so i didnt give up. I honistly asked her out 6 more times. Then one day she said that she liked me. (After i tryed to date other girls just to get my mind off of her (Which honistly didnt work, i still liked her alot aswell)) so I told her i still liked her and then the next day i asked her out. The total times i asked her out was 7. And now her and I will be dating as bf and gf for over one year and 2 months on monday.
I say fallow you heart. If you seriously like this girl, and you think she may have just a little fling for you, just let time takes its course and maybe she'll learn to like you too. Just let time take its course. But im sure if you fallow your heart it may work out.
2007-03-24 18:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by ][Eric][ AKA Just a question][ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude get on with your life and set a course for yourself. If she wants to ride along, that would be great for both of you. If she doesn't than it was not ment to be. Just remember that if you pursue a girl too much, like after she said that she wants to be just friends, it is probably kind of weird for her.
2007-03-24 18:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet if you act like you're fine w/ that, and dont pay very much attention to her, she'll come running to you. She's totally playing you at the moment . Trust me on this. Pretend like you could care less.
2007-03-24 18:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by oxleahxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on theres plenty of other females to drool over and if she likes you she'll go after you once she sees you lookin else where if she don't well she don't like you but yea plenty of others
2007-03-24 18:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you like her and ask her out. Get over with it.
2007-03-24 18:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So why do you think you've been played? Just be friends, if things are meant to be they will be, don't push it, you may push her away.
2007-03-24 18:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Marty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋