I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help me
2007-03-24 18:12:58 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your a better person for it believe in yourself. Girl is a flake and Will end up unhappy in her life she went back cause he convinced her. Probably begged saying he was a changed person, people don't change only disguise....
2007-03-24 18:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I hope your 12 because 2 months isn't a long time in adult years . It was only 2 months not a marriage you should realize that women are very indecisive and that in so short of time dating you still don't know alot about that person, she will not be the first or last person to be so flaky and she should feel more ashamed of her self when she see's you. Like I always say good reddens to bad rubbish. In short ,grow up be a man and get over it.
2007-03-24 18:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by JENNIFER C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry no one can take that pain away and you need to just work through it, everyone goes through a situation like this at some time in their life. As for having regular contact with her i would say to try and avoid getting too close to her and try and work away from her, and if you do start feeling hurt when you look at her, go for a quick walk in the other direction. You will get over her it just takes time and patience.
2007-03-24 18:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are so hurt. It's not fun. You have to see this girl so much because of work, or school? If at school, try to avoid her as much as you can, without "looking" like you are trying to avoid her. As for work, be professional, not personal with her. Stick to business. I wish I could take the pain away from you, but I can't. I've gone thru that kind of hurt before too.It will get better. Honest. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-24 18:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sup Mike,
Sounds like the beggingest guy won. You should have seen this one coming. If she talked that much about him in such a short period, she wasn't done yet. I can't take away the pain but I can give you some good advise. Chaulk this one up as knowledge well earned. Never place yourself in the front court if you can't handle the "rebound".
2007-03-24 18:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that u guys were not just meant to be together..and there's someone better waiting for u at some corner of life.U have to be strong..that's your big test.Try to just laugh it out..life doesnt end at this.As u cant avoid her..dont try.Be friends with her..talk casually..it would help u.U would find reasons why she was not actually your type.good luck:)
2007-03-24 18:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts buddy. Move on as best you can.
2007-03-24 18:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by jamisojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best to surround yourself with other people when you have to see her
2007-03-24 18:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋