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The guy I like is a bit shy around me, so I dunno if he likes me or my friend more? He talks to her a lot and gets into a lot of little arguments with her. Is there signs about that, because I always feel like he's staring at me, but when I look up, I feel like I'm crazy... Help?

2007-03-24 18:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by ☆Danielle☆ 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

He doesn't talk to me much, only a little, he acts differently to me, I dunno if he thinks I'm weird or something, but when I pass him going to my next class, he looks another way, and one time I was talking to one of my other friends, about how I sit next to this really mean guy I get stuck with all the time, and he asked me who it was, I was like, why? and he said he just wanted to know.. and I was like, its not important.. I have no clue what that meant though. but he kept asking, after that he said, if its not that important why don't you tell me. and I was like, because its not important for you to know.

2007-03-24 18:23:30 · update #1

I dunno if he looks at my lips, when we talk he looks at my eyes, but maybe not.. Its hard to tell.

2007-03-25 07:11:59 · update #2

7 answers

You probably scare the @#$%& out of him! I know this is going to sound ridiculous but when I was in high school (when the dinosaurs roamed the Earth) girls scared me too. You girls are strange creatures but maybe you should strike up a conversation with him! You share classes together right? Ask him for help on an assignment or what he thinks about it.

Give him eye contact, this will let him know that you're sincere and non-threatening. Tell him you like the shirt he's wearing (or whatever) if the conversation gets dull. You should know within a few minutes of conversation if he likes you too!

2007-03-24 18:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by tropicalturbodave 5 · 0 0

Are you shy? When he talks to you do you mumble or ignore him? Do you smile when he looks at you? Your friend obviously makes him feel comfortable and he can talk to her and even fight with her. Does you friend like this guy as well?

signs.
does he act different when you are around?
do you ever catch him staring?
does he blush when you talk to him?
do his eyes dilate?
do you make him nervous?
Here's a great idea to let him know you are interested in at least being friends with him.
Buy a dozen donuts LET HIM PICK THE FIRST ONE...when he gets it look up at him and smile tell him "you hope he enjoys it"

2007-03-25 01:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

well if a boy likes u he might look at u a lot and might want to be near u some and might just talk to u a little since he is shy so i guess u have to make the move for him to like u maybe be flirty with him and see how he reacts to it!!!!!!

2007-03-25 01:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by alexsoccer27 3 · 1 0

***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

If u ever need anything email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com

*Much Love* **God Bless**

2007-03-25 03:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 1 0

A guy likes you when

Steals glances at you
Only smiles but too shy to talk to you
Try to get your attention by striking nonsensical conversations that led to minor arguments
Sometimes try to impress you.

IF he really likes you, he will do something about it. if not, it's just harmless flirting

Good luck

2007-03-25 01:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by shida2606 2 · 1 0

try flirting with him and see what happens. im exactly the same way. usually when you feel like a guys staring at you he is and may like you.

2007-03-25 01:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1 0

he might like you...that's a good sign just wait and see what happen next.

2007-03-25 01:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by ceec 4 · 1 0

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