I'm in 8th rade and I've found that recently I've been flirting with like every boy. I don't have any interest in most of them, but I've found in retrospect that I'm always flirting! What do I do to stop? My friend and I have actually realized we're both doing this, and we decided it was out of boredom during these classes. Are we horrible people?
2007-03-24 18:08:30 · 14 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also think we're leading a few guys on. And we honestly don't mean to be.
2007-03-24 18:16:06 · update #1
I do the same thing there is nothing wrong with flirting. Its only wrong if you lead a guy on. Go ahead and flirt its part of life.
2007-03-24 18:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by generalkim2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade? Girl.....you're just ASKING for trouble! You are WAY too young to even be THINKING along those lines! With how boys already have an inclination to LUST, all you're doing is "adding fuel to the fire". And like they say, "You play with fire, you get BURNED!"
Please, STOP IT NOW! Before you end up tantilizing the WRONG guy! One that will FORCE himself on you (like rape!) You think I'm kidding, but I am DEAD SERIOUS!
Trust me, as a guy, I know guys! They have ONE thing on their minds, especially in this PORN CRAZY time in which we live! Guys today are exposed to a WHOLE LOT WORSE than when I was your age! (I'm 47 now!) Like on the Internet!
As a father of 4 daughters, I would STRONGLY advise you to QUIT IT! Does your parents know you're like this? What kind of relationship do you have with YOUR DAD?
The other thing is, even if it WAS "OK" to do what you're doing, all you're gonna do is make guys think you're a "stuck up B**ch"!!! I'm not saying you are; but that IS the impression you give doing what you're doing! 8th grade? You're still a LITTLE GIRL! Quit acting like AN ADULT and just ENJOY LIFE, like a girl your age should!
And the MOST important thing is......are you SAVED BY JESUS CHRIST FROM YOUR SINS? If you follow the Lord, believe me, you will NOT end up in trouble, like you're heading for now! God loves you!
2007-03-25 01:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not horrible. You just ask really stupid questions that only an 8th grader would ask. However, I have a solution: Get a life, moron.
2007-03-25 01:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by arlamothe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you are defiantly not horrible people. just make sure that if it turns out they are interested in you dont lead them on or someone will end up getting hurt.
2007-03-25 01:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..not at all.that doesnt make u horrible..u r just having a taste of life..just dont let it get to u...dont let it effect your studies in adverse way.And ofcourse..be a bit reserved so that it doesnt affect your reputation in your skool.By time...it'll be ok.have fun...good luck:)
2007-03-25 01:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..you are growing up.
Its just part of your infatuation
That means you liking or attraction to the opposite sex.
Dont worry it will go away as soon as you are more mature.
2007-03-25 01:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by ReRe_Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not horrible girls, u are just having fun flirting, there is no harm in that, BESIDES UR IN 8TH GRADE...ITS FINE
2007-03-25 01:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by kissingislove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to flirt, it's not good to lead them on. At least you're realizing it.
2007-03-25 02:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
That's what everybody who is anybody does in 8th grade.
Be normal. Flirt. It's healthy.
2007-03-25 01:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Marc G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not horrible people because i do it to
don't feel bad
its called being a girl! duhhh
i even do it in different states and counries
2007-03-25 01:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋