Ok... so i have had predominantly guy friends for all my life, so it pretty much desensitized me to the hints that guys give when they like you. Can anyone tell me waht are some of the hints guys give when they like you? what are the oddities that wouldnt make sense to me?
2007-03-24 17:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by badchic55c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:
1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.
2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.
3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.
4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.
5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.
6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.
7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.
8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.
9. The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.
10. One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.
11. He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.
12. You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.
13. Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.
2007-03-24 17:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes they are shy around you, they like hanging around you a lot (but that could mean that they are good friends with you too), if they smile and nod when they see you, sometimes if their friends ask if you like him thats another sign, if they flirt with you way over board, thats all i got sorry. I hope i helped at least a little!
2007-03-25 00:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find one of the big ones is physical contact. When a guy seems to be into you, I notice at least, that they seem to touch you more often (ex: hugs, pats, rubbing, etc).
2007-03-25 00:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by le_a_perdu_ame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FLIRTING, the way he talks to you, what he talks to you about, if he trys to ask you places with just you two, he's around ALOT. hmmm...it mite help if a guy answered this question lol
2007-03-25 00:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by chanteezy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-25 00:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.constant jokeing
2.always around you
3.cares about you no matter what
4.offers to you to play with him around his friends (isnt embarressed about you)
good luck=)
2007-03-25 00:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys that like you compliment you for everything ,Your looks your eyes your clothes your perfumes your moves & every thing you stand for
2007-03-25 00:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you open your legs and invite him inside for a short visit with Mrs. puss!
2007-03-25 00:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh, god, just ask. "Do you like me?" What's so hard about it.
2007-03-25 00:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋