do you ever wonder, what if?

Question

do you ever wonder what if you acted differently in a situation?
what would happen if u acted instead of acted shy and quiet in something?
like i kinda regret being shy all through high school...
and not doing anything about a crush. i had a monster crush on this junior when i was a freshman in high school...and i wanted to ask him to the dance but i didnt....and whenver i was around him i was so quiet. and then i moved to another school and never saw him again.
i constantly wonder what wouldve happened if i worked up the guts to tell him that i liked him....
i guess im just scared of rejection.
have u ever been in a similar situation?

Answer 1

what if's are a waste of time and just wind up depressing the **** outta me. i try not to think about those..but i always do. like, i wonder what would've happened if i'd joined this one thing instead of this club that i did join (where i met the person i luv...unrequitedly). but then i figure this whole unrequited thing is worth it cuz she's still a great friend so...and i believe all things happen for a reason (to answer ur ?)

Answer 2

In high school their was this nice girl who always would say Hi to me when we met in the halls.I was always too shy to say much to her and I couldn't see how a skinny frail thing could see something in me being a fat slob.I don't remember ether of us being popular.I still think of her and wonder were she is now.Their is this customer that comes in at my work who reminds me of her.She looks older than me.I don't think its her.In the 80's I was seeing this girl who was 15 years younger than me,I new I was their in her life as a support figure.She was separated from her husband,She had a 1 year old and 1 in the oven.We all had red hair and I could have past as the Father of her kids.I cinda wanted to.I even went with her to Lemmas classes.I was to be her coach.Being friends I didn't think I could tell her how much I loved her doring the delivery,and I told her that.The next thing I new I was out of the pictuer and her soon to be ex was back in.Befor doring and after the birth her husbend was cheeting on her.I was told I could not see her or the baby doring the three days she was in the hosbitel.On the last night of her stay a muchual frend snuk me in.Her husben who she had not seen for three days was their.Arangments were made for me to be her ride home.When I went to pik up the three of them her husbend was no were to be found.She was rooming with two other girls,(sisters) at the time.When we got her home she found her room in a mess and evidenc her husbend had a gest in their bed.I wished I had told her the truth and told her I did love her.

Answer 3

I think everyone thinks "what if" sometimes...some of us do it more than others. They say it's not good to think like that, but some people have a hard time breaking that habit.
Good Luck!!

Answer 4

I don't wonder what if. I live in reality because that is what life is. Make the best of it every day!

Answer 5

yeah but don't worry about it u can only learn from the past

Answer 6

yeah. me too.