Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

my bffs ex boyfriend got her introuble,well acually they got themselves introuble,but there were consequences for both of them and he blames her for what he did wrong and he broke up with her,knowing very well that it was his fault to.well he started making up lies about what happend and was telling that to anyone who asked.she confronted him about it but he had no reponse. he even told his bff the lie(his friend didnt belive him so he got the truth from me and belives that more). but during the relationship he told her that he loved her, told her she was beautiful all kinds of stuff, like i belive he really did like her alot.but after he started telling ppl who asked stuff like no i never did lover her. shes ugly,never again will i go out with her, i dont want nothing to ever do with her...i dont belive thats true but why does he say stuff like that(he even said it in ear siatance of her). he has had 3 gfs since her,and do u think he still thinks about my friend, the one he did wrong

2007-03-21 09:48:55 · 4 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

Well at school im like the popular girl, but I am always in trouble and that’s not cute to me. I hate teachers tell me Im so smart but I am very behavior challenged. I also have been told I have a attitude problem and I want to be the smart, popular, role model, GOOD Girl!

Thanks!

2007-03-21 09:47:59 · 8 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Singles & Dating

Like personality traits.

2007-03-21 09:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Alisa 3 in Friends

... there is a remote chance for a possibility of a purely platonic friendship between two fully grown people of opposite genders if they are both heterosexual beings?

Or do you rather think, like me, that such a bond or friendship is only possible if one (or both parties) is openly homosexual?

If you think that such a platonic relationship is possible between two adults, please tell me how immediately because I am literally dying to find out!!!

This has never happened to me before therefore I do not believe in it but my live-in boyfriend is currently involved in such a situation and I need to know that I can trust him to handle his friendship with this woman.

Furthermore, his female friend wants nothing to do with me, which increases my suspicions that there is more than meets the eye; she refuses to get to know me, as if I didn't exist (he's known her longer).

Your personal thoughts & feelings on this delicate matter please.


P.S. Serious answers from mature adults only please.

2007-03-21 09:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy in school and my friend got his number for me, so he called. So we talkin and he asked me did I like him and I said yea. He said he could tell, but now like everytime I look at him he smiles at me so I blush. ok but this is the crazy part, my teacher changed our seats and she put me right next 2 him and he be talking to his friends about girls and his "3" girlfriends. In my mind I'm like "WHAT", but when we on the phone he never talk to me about that stuff. I mean he's really not my type I like badboys and he's nice but sumthing about him I like. So do u think he likes me or is he lying 2 his friends, or what I mean I'm confused?

2007-03-21 09:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

This way i will know what a girl likes.

2007-03-21 09:46:44 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

my ex..for a little over a yr has said he's "sooo over" what we had..even though it was quite special..he bought me my favorite roses and some stuffed animals..we only dated for 2-3 months. we broke up cause of distance..but still..it was wonderful what time we did date. but..i'm having issues letting go. why was he so successful in getting over us and i'm not?
what can i do to get over him?

2007-03-21 09:46:24 · 10 answers · asked by incognito_092 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a pink colour fan... if some one is "maybe" aping me is it normal to feel funny?
im A FAN OF PINK..i have bot pink things..purses..shoes..sunglas... reading glasses .. all in pink.. and ofcourse clothes... wow why did it bother me that ... my brother in law purchased only pink clothes for his wife the other day we all "had' to go shopping. ...

He was never a pink fan... nor is she .

now .. why do i feel funny about it ?

i'm overreacting .. ?

PS>> my alarm clocks are pink to.. and my brother in law himself gets me pink coloured things as gifts ..if req.

2007-03-21 09:46:20 · 13 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family

Girls Please answer this one please

2007-03-21 09:45:47 · 4 answers · asked by Alex B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 09:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most all the fundraisers are for groups of people. She is doing this on her own to pay for a conference trip to Conneticut and needs to raise a few hundred bucks. Any thoughts or suggestions?

2007-03-21 09:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by Gregory B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this question is mostly for women over 26. when it comes to sexual attraction, meaning good looks(the type of guys you'd be more likely tempted to mess around with), what age bracket do you consider the peak? meaning that guys below that age tend to look young to the point where it's less attractive and guys older tend to look old to the point where it's less attractive. be 100% honest and TELL ME YOUR AGE PLEASE. do not answer without giving me your age, that'll help a lot.

2007-03-21 09:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She is a sophomore at my school and I a junior. She is not in a relationship, she's gorgeous, and I’m really afraid of a turndown.

I've known her for 3 years now and I know a bit about her. I really need help with this and I don't know what to tell her. Please help and thank you for any advice.

2007-03-21 09:44:06 · 20 answers · asked by alex b 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on him and i have aslo dreams about him?but every time i talk yo him he always put his head down or look another he never speaks and looks at me and told his friend that he does not like me shoul i belive him?and he found out that ilike him also

2007-03-21 09:43:49 · 7 answers · asked by andrea 1 in Friends

..as my life has changed so much. I had a family life and didn't work, now I don't have that. I can do whatever I want althoufh, I'm, stuck with this man who was company during a bad time, but he has problems, he still wants his ex but thinks I don't know it. A man has asked me to motorbike around America with him. Should I pack up and go, although I'm in my 30's, so is it a good idea. Any experiences out there to share with me? Help!

2007-03-21 09:43:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me how , & i want to have any girl as a friend to tell her my secrets.

2007-03-21 09:42:36 · 5 answers · asked by osama t 1 in Friends

boy-friends, girl-friends, relationships

2007-03-21 09:42:08 · 1 answers · asked by Baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 09:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-21 09:41:56 · 5 answers · asked by Breyana R 1 in Singles & Dating

boy-friends, girl-friends, relationships

2007-03-21 09:41:54 · 1 answers · asked by Baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

We've never had sex before, and personally I do not want a relationship that starts out with just f**king. Am I wrong on this? Can screwing around lead to love, or should I talk to him, or do something else that can be significant?

Mind you, what we have is wonderful. We both enjoy each others happiness and company. I just want the next step to be love, then sex. He gives the unstated impression that he wants sex, then love.


I don't know what to do or think!

Help me not over think this like many girls do!

2007-03-21 09:41:33 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay. I am waiting till marriage to have sex and have a great long-term boyfriend who respects that. Yes, I am a virgin.

Of course, I have the natural urge to have sex. And I'm curious as to what it's like. But I am going to WAIT till marriage.

I have dreams about sex. I feel like I have a lot of them. But everytime we are about to do it in my dream, something stops us from actually doing it. It's either someone pops up outta nowhere, I actually wake up, anything. And it's so annoying!! I just want to do it in my dreams atleast GOSH!

Does this happen to any of you people?
Any words?
Please, I don't need immature lame responses.

2007-03-21 09:41:29 · 19 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i am 15 and all my friends think im gorgeus but i dont. the reason y is because i never had a bf. and i see other girls in the hallways with guys and there not even nice or pretty. - if it helps to answer i look like : tall blonde hair and blue eyes, thin and pale. i guess i have low selfesteem and i know guys love confident girls but i dont i guess i compare my self to a lot of them.

2007-03-21 09:41:22 · 15 answers · asked by blonde32392 2 in Singles & Dating

If so how did you handle the situation? Did anything good or bad happen in the outcome of it?

2007-03-21 09:41:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is moving in next door to me and she thinks she'll be over at my house or have my kids over at hers all the time. She doesn't have children of her own so she has kind of "adopted" mine. As it is, she's over almost every day for several hours at a time, I imagine once she's right next door she will be over or inviting my children over EVERY day! I just am not that socail, not to mention I have stuff to do during the day which her visits interrupt. Also, these are MY children and I don't like the idea of them going to play and get treats at her house so that mommy is just second best and the discipliner know what I mean? How do I let her know that she isn't welcome to visit all the time, and my children will be staying at my house, without ruining our friendship? She also tries to come along when we go on family outings like the zoo etc. How do I draw the line nicely? Thanks!

2007-03-21 09:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by moira77 4 in Friends

To all the single people out there....

Are you looking for love?...or just waiting?...
What type of person are you?..... People tell me
that I should just wait for it....& when it happens,
it happens......you know what I mean?.....
But there are times when I feel lonely...lol...
and I want to talk to people and look for people
to meet.....but sometimes I think i'm trying to hard
to find love.......

what do you think?

2007-03-21 09:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FOR WOMEN ONLY...... BE HONEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 09:40:58 · 41 answers · asked by olddad1019 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, well, I have no problem talking to girls, flirting, you know the easy stuff. But I am REALLY lost when it comes to dating. I am in highschool, help me out please, dating? How?

Also, I could use some help with the meeting girls, like I have trouble meeting new ones.

2007-03-21 09:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well basically, im new to the whole sex thing and have only done it a few times so am still a little unsure what to do. i know guys like girls to make noises but im quite shy and dont want to make a fool out of myself. what kind of noises should i make and what things to say? oh and how loud? he always whispers in my ear....

2007-03-21 09:40:06 · 13 answers · asked by only_lil_kez 2 in Singles & Dating

in the first part of the dream, i am walking with my crush who is also a good friend of mine to the bus stop. Once me and him get to the bus stop, he decides to go 2 mcdonald's...which is strange cuz me and him are suppose 2 wait 4 da bus..not go 2 mcdonalds!So i just tag along with him and go 2 mcdonald's

ok, so the second part of my dream is also weird! my highschool gym teacher was teaching my gym class in my old middle school..which is strange because she always teaches it in my highschool! but during the gym hours, i get a love letter saying that some kids likes me. In the letter it said something about liking me and loving me. I end up showing the letter to my crush and my friend to see what they think. now that i told u da first and second part of the dream, do u think u may know the meaning?

2007-03-21 09:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating