What do I say to someone who I like?

Question

She is a sophomore at my school and I a junior. She is not in a relationship, she's gorgeous, and I’m really afraid of a turndown.

I've known her for 3 years now and I know a bit about her. I really need help with this and I don't know what to tell her. Please help and thank you for any advice.

Answer 1

Hello Alex... :-)

Here is what you can do and say:

1-
A: When you see her next time (if you know her, I mean you can greet her and such common behavior) just say hello and then politely ask her for a couple of minutes (really not more than 120 seconds)

or

B: (If it will be the first greeting as you just know her from a distance) Greetings should be polite and the request for a couple of minutes should be polite and (try to have confidence in your voice)

2- Tell her that: Am telling you something that is puzzeling me and I thought the best person to solve it is you and don't ask me why.... (You have to be nice and serious) Yesterday I posted a Q on Yahoo Answers just to get an Advice of how to face someone with the idea that you like him or have a real crush on him, I got tons of replies but actually the simplest was to tell you what I really did. I'm just having some really hard time to express this and now I got it out of my chest. Now you know (smile with relief).

Then just ask her not to say anything now and that you will be around but NOW you have to go have a good sleep and figure out what's next on your own..

Believe me it will work, (maybe not instantly) but now she has an eye on you :-)

Be honest.... Good Luck

Answer 2

Next time you are talking to her just ask her what her plans for the weekend are. If she says she doesn't have any ask her to go check out a movie with you or something fun you both might enjoy. That way it comes a cross as a casual invite yet if she says yes and agrees that would be your opener to really tell her you like her....later on during the outing that is. If she says she is busy, made other plans, or whatever the case may be than no big deal since it was only a casual invite in the first place.

Answer 3

first of all, you needa get to know her a lot more before asking her out. asking her out just cuz of what you're saying is kinda shallow, and some girls wouldnt appreciate that. and you're a junior; she's a sophmore. thats gotta mean somn. start acting like a junior. dont be afraid of no turndown. move on

Answer 4

well i start with hi:) its pretty self explanatory if you get to know her and find u still like here ask her out if she says no u lost nothing gained nothing and u can move on with knowing u did what ur heart wanted sorry if i sound a bit blunt dude but thats how it is im a junior too

Answer 5

Hey Alex Buddy.

First Of all DOnt Ask any advice on relationship from others .Bcause 80% people are jelous and the rest 20 % dont know what to do . I think god has given you good brain . think and do......

Answer 6

You have waisted alot of time. You need to just say Lets go get some icecream or coffee. Then you will know by her reaction if she likes you or not. If that date goes well ask her to dinner and/or movie. Have fun. Just do it you wont regret it.

Answer 7

what is it u want to tell her.. U can maybe ask her to dinner. u have any dances coming up.. ask her to that.. U seem like the shy type? maybe a flower at her locker.. u just have to get creative and do something sweet and small. that always means the most

Answer 8

Well become her friend first work up to something special that way when u do ask her out it wont be as hard

Answer 9

dont do it over phone coz you need to see her reaction..
take her out and come clean say how you feel, ask her is she feels the same.. maybe take things slow at first but you should tell her.. at least you know you have tried! ;)
x

Answer 10

be her friend and than as she feels more comfortable with u and than make the first move... dont be different around her be cool calm and collected,, Hope it workz well for u

from kimmy