ok well basically, im new to the whole sex thing and have only done it a few times so am still a little unsure what to do. i know guys like girls to make noises but im quite shy and dont want to make a fool out of myself. what kind of noises should i make and what things to say? oh and how loud? he always whispers in my ear....
2007-03-21 09:40:06 · 13 answers · asked by only_lil_kez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'll be honest, i'm a desert over here and you my dear, are an oasis!
1) Go with the flow, relax! it is not a competition.
2) Don't use porn as a reference aid, they are highly paid athletes! (but use it for everythign else)
3) Never fake anything
4) Ask him what he likes, you aren't psychic
5) Tell him what you like, he isn't psychic
6) Use a condom!!
2007-03-21 09:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, that's really sweet! Mine just grunts...
Don't do anything that doesn't come naturally. There's nothing worse than false sex noises. And you can always tell.
I was silent up until I met my fiance at the age of 29, and now I could scream the house down!
Never do anything you don't want to when it comes to sex. Don't feel pressured. My mum told me this years ago and she was right.
2007-03-21 16:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax, if you start to make noises because you feel you need to, then it will sound fake.
just relax and enjoy it, and if the noises come then fine.
2007-03-21 16:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk nasty. it helps. tell him what he wants about your body as you describe youself. noise is good because if you let it out, you experience it differently. and it's just hot and an extra turn on
2007-03-21 17:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what comes naturally otherwise you could sound a bit fake and silly!
2007-03-21 16:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen if the thing is that good you would not need to be asking this question.
2007-03-21 16:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whisper back to him
if he takes the volume higher follow his lead
2007-03-21 16:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not making noises maybe he is not satisfying you enough to make them
2007-03-21 16:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Redman_Jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow.
2007-03-21 16:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like noisy girls....just enjoy it....
2007-03-21 16:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Doodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋