okay i am 15 and all my friends think im gorgeus but i dont. the reason y is because i never had a bf. and i see other girls in the hallways with guys and there not even nice or pretty. - if it helps to answer i look like : tall blonde hair and blue eyes, thin and pale. i guess i have low selfesteem and i know guys love confident girls but i dont i guess i compare my self to a lot of them.
2007-03-21 09:41:22 · 15 answers · asked by blonde32392 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What makes a girl apealing is confidence,work on confidence!!!!,tall and Blonde will be a bonus....ugly girls with confidence get guys,pretty girls with confidence,get more...hit the gym read books,get religion...dont be a follower,be original!!l let them want to be like you not the other way around!!!...stand for something or youll fall for anything....chin up girl...go getem,its ok to be concided!!! and convinced!!!...what you have is golden
2007-03-21 09:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by 2fitornot2fit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends. In high-school I had the same friend. Absolutely stunning, but never had a boyfriend, because she didn't think she was pretty. The reason why you see the not so pretty or nice girls with the guys is because of the self esteem. Even if you don't feel pretty (which I'm sure is not the case) if you "act" pretty and confident, you will see a change in those guys, and in yourself. Guys like girls who are happy, and that they can hang out with, without them worrying about drama. Remember to always smile, and you will see the change. GUARANTEED!
2007-03-21 16:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are "ugly" like you claim it doesn't matter. Next time you go out look at all the couples with kids. Half of these people are uglier than sin, yet someone had kids with them. At 15 your body is still changing and so is your head. in time you'll see that you are as pretty as anybody else if not prettier
2007-03-21 16:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!! Yes you do sound like you are very pretty. Just don't think about it that way, be positive and always have a smile on your face and be friendly, you will be surpised who gets attracted to you. Men, if they don't look at your heart, they are not interested in a relationship. Our personality and the quality of our hearts is what attracts people. Be yourself, don't think of your looks, look at people and see their hearts and you will be fine. Life is too short to be anything but yourself, and self esteam is just a frame of mind. Feel happy in your heart and took ahead not back. I hope this helped, take care Heather
2007-03-21 16:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to love yourself before someone else can love you. You sound like you do have low self-esteem, which is hard to admit. Read some self help books from the library.
2007-03-21 16:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, boys that age are immature. Don't bother with them. Spend time working on developing hobbies and interests. Make yourself more interesting and a better person so that later you will be ready for a special relationship.
2007-03-21 16:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are ugly, then that probably is low self esteem. just repeat in your head over and over that you are worth it and beautiful, even you feel stupid at first doing it. and besides, if someone doesnt want to be your friend because they think you're ugly, then they don't deserve to be your friend for being like that.
also if it makes you feel better, my best friends older brother is really cute and he didnt have his first girlfriend until he was a sophomore. hope that helps
2007-03-21 16:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bruntë 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put make-up on if you don't already.It sounds like you're really pretty but needs to get rid of your pale face.Go tan in the sun for 20 min. on one side and 20 min. on the other side.That's what i do everyday!Hope this helps.
2007-03-21 16:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by hotstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got 3 more years and then you'll be in college. Those guys won't let you get away. High School boys aren't the brightest...No offense out there.
2007-03-21 16:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by ty4all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the only reason guys arent going out with you is because guys are dogs and they only want to go out with somewhen when they think they are going to get something out of it you just have to wait and look for that one special person some men are sweet and will be confortable no matter how you look or how you act!
2007-03-21 16:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋