Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

my best friend wrote some really mean stuff bout me and my bf just cuz she doesnt lyk him she called me a b*tch and him a pot head and drug dealer and then she apologized and expected everything 2 b ok what should i do? i love him so much and shes so mean 2 every1

2007-03-17 12:51:40 · 7 answers · asked by *_Anni3_* 2 in Singles & Dating

im in a nother state .
my man is is a good person he never dis me until i left miami .
2:00 am a bi*ch cal me to tel me she with him,and f**k him.

2007-03-17 12:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24yrs old and my boyfriend is 34. We have been going out for 1 year and 5 months, and living together for 8 months. I would say around 9 months ago the sex basically stopped. Whenever I try to seduce him, he more or less gets annoyed and does not want to. I do not think I am ugly or unsexy, but he sure makes me feel that way. In the beginning of our relationship I could not get him off of me. I talk to him about our problem, and he has NO answer to it. He understands that he never wants to have sex, but can't give me a reason. What is wrong??

2007-03-17 12:48:54 · 20 answers · asked by elaise11 2 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE THIS BEST FREND WERE REAL CLOSE LIKE SISTAS EVEN BUT THIS 1 DAY IN SCIENCE CLASS AT MY HIGH SKOOL SHE SENT ME DIS NOTE THAT SED I LIKED DIS BOY BUT I DIDNT OF COURSE AND B4 I CUD WRIT N E THING BAC MY TEACHER SAW HER SHO ME DA NOTE AND CALLED HER RENTS....SHE GOT IN TRUBLE 4 LIK 2 WEEKS AND THEY BLAMED ME 4 THE WHOLE THING SAYN IM A BAD INFLUENCE ON HER AND THAT I HAVE 2MUCH DRAMA IN MY LYFE AND ALL THIS OTHER ISH RESULTING IN DEM SAYN THEY DONT APROVE OF ME AND I CANT TLK OR ASOCIATE WIT MY BEST FREND EVER AGAN IN HURT AND SO IS SHE B CUZ WE BOTH KNO THATS NOT TRUE I MEAN I DIDNT EVEN WRIT NE THING BAC...IM SOO HURT IM CRYIN ON THE INSIDE....YUP PLZ N E BODI HELP ME I NEED ADVICE

2007-03-17 12:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by lilsoso r 1 in Friends

my mom just drilled me to tell her my crush she named every boy on my soccer team untill she found out and we were at the dinner table. why does she want to know so bad? should i have told her? and moms would u do that to your kid? im 13

2007-03-17 12:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Singles & Dating

what does is mean when you say to a guy "you're probably going to get a girlfriend and forget about me"...and he says.."no, i'm allowed to have girlfriends."


? what does this mean

2007-03-17 12:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother has been convited and sentanced to prison, he did not tell any of his family he was in any trouble, does anyone know if I can find out which prison he has been sent to?

2007-03-17 12:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just wonna know do they even date never seen a blatina being part black from his fathers side and also how come they dont associate with us

2007-03-17 12:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by romaine 1 in Singles & Dating

NEED IDEAS FOR GUY WHO SAID NO TO ME DATING HIM!

2007-03-17 12:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. so im always fighting with one of my friends. i always like block em on aim and stuff but like five minutes later i want to talk to them again. any way i can ignore them without missing them?

2007-03-17 12:46:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband just got a cellphone he went without one for 6 months ontill now he bought one for work anyhow i am upset i know he needs it for work but a couple of years ago he used to give his # to woman and text message woman well basically he was a cheater but we got back together i am worryed that this will happen again now that he has his phone i dont want to have to start going threw his calls and keeping my eye on it it's just something i dont want to put myself threw again but i dont want to break up again!

2007-03-17 12:45:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 12:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by Do or Die You'll Never Make 1 in Friends

For years I've tryed to hold on to and deal with this life. Horrible chilhood, worst marrige and now a slow and painfull cancer. Looking back there was lesson no nothing to justify all this pain. When my children ask me how I feel about my life the only thing I can think off is I DONT' KNOW. On top of that I can enjoy my kids because of the deacese, and I have no one to take them when I die. Can someone tell me how can I be thankfull of anything if this journey really sucked...

2007-03-17 12:45:04 · 8 answers · asked by solstice 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean when you ask a guy if he still likes you and he responds with "yeah,no,kind,of yes" and then asks if i get it?!?!!..........umm why are guys soooo confusing! i would love some guys opnions on this one!!! please h e l p me!

2007-03-17 12:45:02 · 4 answers · asked by queensum 1 in Singles & Dating

What can you do that he wont be able to resist you and cant get you off his mind.

2007-03-17 12:44:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a young African American woman who wants an african-inspired themed wedding definitely want my pastor to officiate and he and I both have extremely large families with exhorbitant taste and very little money. We want the wedding that celebrates our love but will be memorable for our families.
Any suggestions? I have a year and 5 months to plan this. What comes first?

2007-03-17 12:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by Africa soon to be The Mrs. 1 in Weddings

I like this guy thats works in a store in a retail park near where i stay.
Problem is whenever i'm there its always with my mum becuase i don't drive.
Is there anyway of telling him i fancy him without actually saying it? My mum is the type of person to embarass me without meaning it!
Sounds really childish but any help is appreciated!

2007-03-17 12:44:26 · 7 answers · asked by This ain't a Scene 1 in Singles & Dating

what does is mean when you say to a guy "you're probably going to get a girlfriend and forget about me"...and he says.."no, i'm allowed to have girlfriends."


? what does this mean

2007-03-17 12:44:09 · 10 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who is 26 and 2 of my friends think he's a stalker. Even though he doesn't act like it. How can you find out if someone is or isn't without getting the police or family involved?

2007-03-17 12:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family

I'm 19 and about three years ago my mother left her husband of 17 years. Their marriage was one of abuse, both verbal and physical. He was a drunk, he did drugs and he loved to argue and fight with others. My mother truly loved him but I hated her because my life and hers as well as my brothers and sisters were made miserable. Now three years without him my mother is the happiest I've ever seen her and our relationship has grown into something beautiful. I never truly knew my mother until three years ago when our relations ship blossomed into a mother daughter relationship rather than my bitterness and anger attitude towards her.
She's almost 50 and I'm the last one of my siblings to leave home, she'll be left alone, I'm transfering to another college far from home. I blame myself for her lonliness because I pushed and pushed until she left her husband. She doesn't date and I'm afraid she'll chose someone just like him. How do I know if she's lonely? Is it my fault?

2007-03-17 12:43:43 · 2 answers · asked by Chaun 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'v been havein problm with my dad 4 a while 4 about 4 moouths it started on christmas day he was i guatemala with his gurl firend he didn't bother 2 tell us that he left and on christmas he didnt call like he all way dose i got so mad at him because before this he came 2 my house and the whole time he was there all he did was talk 2 gurl friends he dosent give a crap about me or my brouther s and sister so i didnt talk 2 him for about 1 mounth .... when i ended up taking 2 him he said that he didnt care about how i felt about his gurl friend and1 day going 2 marry her that right theresaid 2 me that he didnt care about him i hung up on him and i stated crying ...i never cry about any thing unless some one dyes he also said that he will move over there with her but he couldnt cause we need him and i think that a bunch of crap........i really dont know what 2 do i think i dont need himm at alllllll so if u can help me that would be graet !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-17 12:43:39 · 13 answers · asked by Puerto Rican Baby 1 in Family

At first I thought Katie liked me because she looked shy when I talked to her...Plus, she always gave good common about me...So one day, I asked her to come to my birthday at the park (the secret is I want to be with her alone). Suprisingly, she said that she would go to my party only if I have some of my friends there. She explained that it would be boring if no one showed up and we were alone and had nothing to talk about...Her words were rude, and I were broken hearted....Then we did not see each other for one year. Finally, we meet again. Now, I have a girlfriend (Katie didn't know), and I learned from my friend that Katie doesn't have a boyfriend right now and still single. I want to make Katie feel lonely and regret for not going out with me. So I have invited her to the restaurant without telling her that I will bring my girlfriend. What should I do at the restaurant to make her feel jeolous and regretful. Any good suggestion?

2007-03-17 12:43:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without telling you he's gettting from an escort

2007-03-17 12:42:40 · 26 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband thinks i cheated with my mothers fiancee(i didnt) but he took my neighbour out "for coffee"says he needed someone to talk to,behing my back,yet i beg him to talk to me most times tell him how i feel but to no avail makes no difference he also made a few visits to my other neighbour without me knowing while her boyfriend was and is still away he says nothing happened although she said she would sleep with him but she didnt want to deal with me if i found out i confronted her with it she denied it i am not sure what to believe and dont know if i should stay with him or just move on we have been together for 14 yrs and married for almost 5 we have 3 children together but i am very torn and confused i have been walking around with a stupid smile on my face and now feeling pretty damn stupid about it all.....any suggestions?all are welcome...thanks in advance.

2007-03-17 12:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by perfectwife06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last wekend my family was in town and they all wanted to go for a drink..we just lost our mom suddenley so we had a lot of things to go through ..we lost her amonth an a half ago. anyways... i asked him to come along he said no afterwards i met up with some friends and they told me he was down at the stript bar when he told me he had to console a friend going through a divorce. iwasnt going to say anything yet but when i called him afterwards he got mad at me because i was out with my family and said i was wrong for doing this. we havent talked in a week ,,we have been on and off for 5 years .. im very upset with him,, i feel used he has me cleaning for him every wek and never does his dishes we live in differnt house holds we hardly ever go any where,,,and even his friends asked me that night if i was still seing him!! what the..? is going on here??

2007-03-17 12:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by mary c 3 in Singles & Dating

Being dumped by a text message
or
Being dumped on msn??

2007-03-17 12:41:59 · 25 answers · asked by hello 2 in Singles & Dating

why do all women tell me they dont like me becuse i am 5.4 260 say i am to fat nd short arent there women out there tat like short and fat men

2007-03-17 12:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by greek12b 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah, she said she wants to keep us a secret, because we go to school together and it would be awkward. but i dont even feel like im going out with her becuase i have to act like im just her friend all day.

2007-03-17 12:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right before I propose a trip to the zoo, of course.....

2007-03-17 12:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it hot when girls grind you. i do it at partys and stuff and love it but what do guys think. my guy friends said they love it but i need another oppinion and also is there any way to make it more fun for the guy like new stuff to do

2007-03-17 12:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by Kim S 1 in Singles & Dating