Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

Ive been married for over 4 years and have two children with my husband. We got married after I found out I was pregnant with our first child. Something that we rushed into, something I wasnt all excited about like a bride should be. I know there was my first mistake. So now I've met someone else, completely on accident, I wasnt looking for someone else. He's the guy I've always dreamed of. He makes me laugh all the time, so outgoing, caring, constantly smiling when he's around or I'm talking to him. Ive known him since before I ever met my husband, but wasnt until recently (past yr) that we've actually started to hang out. I completely love this man, and he loves and adores me. My husband and I get along, hardly fight, because we hardly talk we live together and raise our kids together but that is it. He no longer works, he stays at home with the boys, but he drops them off at this grandmas all day and does his own thing. I dont want to leave on account of our kids. Help...

2007-03-15 04:03:07 · 20 answers · asked by christina6879cj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My man is a good father, a very caring person and fun to be with. He works for a constitution company and he makes pretty good money if he works full-time but in the winter he gets laid off. So I’ve been paying for everything rent, bills, food, and giving him $$ for cigarettes amongst other things because he doesn’t have any money. He hasn’t been able to find other work for the winter but finally this month he went back to work and I love him very much but he turns into such a jerk when he doesn’t get his way. For example, he’s asked me if I could help him pay off what he owes. I don’t mind helping him when he really needs it but the household comes first. So I get my paycheck and he immediately wants to pay his debts off. Things are really tight until he starts getting paid so we can get back on track with what we owe. So he freaks out on me saying that I promise to help him and he’s going to look like a jerk because he’s going back on his word. Then he doesn’t speak to me. Are you kidding me? Why do you have to make me feel bad just because I said no this time. What about our bills, rent, groceries, babysitter, car insurance, the fridge and washer that I’m still trying to pay off. I only get paid twice a month as a receptionist and I try to budget as best as I can. I would think that taking care of our children and home was more important. I’m so stressed about this!

2007-03-15 04:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by Baby J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so have be dateing this boy for like 3 yr and i really really love him alot. he is so nice and sweet to me all the time. but for the last to weeks his been mean and yells at me a lot. I was on his laptop yesterday and and was googleing some thing when i type in how the thing that shows you what you have typeed in befor come up and it said how to break up with a gril friend. and then his been texing this gril and talking to her a lot more then me. and whan i ask him about he get all mad and tells me that he dosent like her. but he told one on my best friends that he thought she had a"pretty face and that was it" so i really dont know what to do i cant eat i cant sleep i cant even thnk about evey thing els. so i ask the grial if she know he had a g/f and sh said yeah. but on his myspace she called him sexy and hot and all that kind of crap. help me i dont know what to do i really love this guy .

2007-03-15 04:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by cfhjufdrbko 2 in Singles & Dating

..oh ye im kinda shy too..

2007-03-15 04:02:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started talking to this guy who I just met about a week ago. My best friend says that she doesn't care, but ever since we started talking, she has been acting like she's kind of mad at me. We don't talk as much as we used to and she kind of acts mean in a way. I don't know what to do. I know if I ask her about it she'll just deny it. The thing that really confuses me is that she already has a boyfriend whom she has been with for about 7 or 8 months. She says that she loves him more than anything but she doesn't really act like it. Is it wrong to think this or am I just being paranoid about the whole thing.

2007-03-15 04:02:17 · 1 answers · asked by knechtly_07 1 in Friends

My ex grilfriend and I had plans before we broke up to go and see Jim Gaffigan tomorrow night (hes a famous comedian.) Anyway, she paid for the tickets (70 bucks a peice) and last week we hung out and i told her i still wanted to go. Today I am really having doubts on whether or not I want to go. The problem is I am in love with her and I am trying to get over her. If i go it will just make me feel crappy. Her sister and brother are coming too, but the problem is there is nobody she can find to buy the ticket. Should i tell her i dont want to go? Should i just not call her at all and dont go either? Or should i suck it up and go?

2007-03-15 04:02:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SHE LEFT HIM FOR SUM ONE ELSE SCREWED HIM OUT OF 30,000 AND HAS JUST COST HIM 3000 TO SEE HIS KID. HE TREATS ME LIKE DIRT WONT CONTRIBUTE TO ANY HOUSEHOLD COSTS BUT RENS HIS OWN HOUSE OUT PRIVATE. AM I A MUG?

2007-03-15 04:00:49 · 17 answers · asked by nesta 2 in Singles & Dating

^^^

2007-03-15 04:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Friends

I would like to understand the laws of attraction more for a psychology class essay, so please be honest, mature and detail oriented, thanks!

2007-03-15 03:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by LuCkY 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:57:42 · 28 answers · asked by mammu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend over 2 years. The past couple months we had been planning a trip to Vegas just the two of us since we havent had the chance to go alone. I started planning it but it seemed he had no interest whatsoever to come up with a date to go. I keapt asking him for weeks but he couldnt give me a definit answer. Finally, i decided we werent going cuz it didnt seem like he was interested. Then about 2 weeks later he says his friends invited him to go to vegas as a guy thing and i got really upset because he didnt even bother with ours and it turns out that it'll be the weekend we were suppose to go. I like his friends but dont trust them. Some are married and still fool around. He says its obsurd sor me to be upset but what should i do? His friends dont want us together and im in a way kind of scared that they will push for him to be unfaithful. He says the only reason he wants to go with them and not with me is because with them, it's a diff kind of trip. am i wrong?

2007-03-15 03:57:38 · 24 answers · asked by Yankees Fan 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help figuren out if u can still like ur ex and well i do i dont no wat to do any more

2007-03-15 03:57:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you only had one day to make a difference in the world, what would you do or say and how would you accomplish it?

2007-03-15 03:57:22 · 3 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2 in Family

with your husband because she needs him to help her financially with her kids and knew he was seeing someone.in fact she knew her personally.

2007-03-15 03:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family

She was married but now separated and her new partner who is a long term friend of hers, is now her partner, unfortunately he is too deep, too intensive and too unsure of who he is and what he is about. our group of friends are struggling to accept him as he is to questioning, what do we do

2007-03-15 03:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went to the store the other night and when I got home I knew he was doing something that didnt seem quite right on the internet. When he went to bed I checked the browsing history and he had been looking for MILF's.... hmph. He lied to me about it at first and told me he just wanted to see how many people were on there with that name, but then I asked him why he had viewed their profile. He just replied with I dont know. Las night he appologized and he said he screwed up, but Im still pretty angry. So I guess my question is what would you do... and how would you react? I just want to know If It's normal for me to feel so angry.

2007-03-15 03:56:11 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is this completely socially unacceptable?

2007-03-15 03:55:52 · 20 answers · asked by Drew W 2 in Singles & Dating

me nd my friends are in a really good mood and want to no whats made you smile today?

2007-03-15 03:55:30 · 23 answers · asked by *!*Rach H*!* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't have a great track record for finding winning men. I have just met someone who I felt very comfortable with immediately and there was definitely an attraction. We are both anxious to see each other again...how long should we wait before we engage in sex?

2007-03-15 03:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know when a guy truely cares 4 someone more than a friend

2007-03-15 03:55:10 · 3 answers · asked by candy j 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright i really like this guy but he likes my friend and she just got a boyfriend and he dosent know should i tell him or would that make me rude or should i tell him that i like him but my best friend dosent feel the same way?
please i could really use some advice!

2007-03-15 03:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by Hannah H 1 in Singles & Dating

its funner to hang out with your bf then it is everything else?

2007-03-15 03:54:19 · 6 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:54:18 · 39 answers · asked by flaunt it! 1 in Weddings

I really like this guy and i think he likes me too. we have so much in common and like a lot of the same music. we always flirt, but he has an ex-girlfriend who is way jealous. first they are broken up, then the next day they are together. i am confused, but i think he likes me what do i do?

2007-03-15 03:53:57 · 3 answers · asked by SexyAmby 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking to a few girls online and interested in meeting one of them offline for sex. This is a fantasy that I've had for a while and I'd like to make it happen, I'm curious to hear from people who have done this, how did you arrange it, was it good, would you do it again?

2007-03-15 03:53:30 · 6 answers · asked by jc_legacy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am going to stay at my friends house maybe tonight and we only can stay till 10 but if i cant im going to go hang out with my bf and he might stay the night but if i stay at my friends i only can stay till 10 i get thire at 8 hang w my bf till10 so thats only 2hours which one should i go with??

2007-03-15 03:53:10 · 1 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

she like has to spen every min with me sometime i just want to play vidio games, or hang out with my friends is that so wrong

2007-03-15 03:52:32 · 24 answers · asked by jo m 1 in Singles & Dating

He is in a relationship with a married woman and got her pregnant. He wants her to keep it because they are in love. But his parents do not approve. He does not believe in abortion. He is only 19 and she is 27.

2007-03-15 03:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Bootyshaker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are joint owners of our house but the bank called this morning to ask why they have not received a payment and that the direct debit was cancelled from his account.We have beengoing through a rough patch with him cheating on me with another woman and she became pregnant and now he is seeing someone else.Is he up to no good?

2007-03-15 03:51:56 · 26 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce