He is in a relationship with a married woman and got her pregnant. He wants her to keep it because they are in love. But his parents do not approve. He does not believe in abortion. He is only 19 and she is 27.
2007-03-15 03:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Bootyshaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his parents have no say because he is an adult. and he has no say because it is her decision. and what does she think anyway? what does her husband think? does he know about the affair? does he think it's his child? because if he does, and your friend knows he is the father and wants to be responsible, he should come forward after the baby is born to be able to be a part of their life. but really it is all up to her, whether she wants to tell her husband, get a divorce, get an abortion, act like it's her husband's child, she needs to decide. your friend has no say. at all.
2007-03-15 04:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that when children turn eighteen they are all of the sudden deemed adults? It's just not true. The government decided what the age of consent is not society. He's 19. He is clearly not capable of making good decisions since he was in a relationship with a married woman anyway. What's going to happen next? Does he have a job at nineteen? One that will support this love child? This is so annoying to me for some reason. His parents know what the deal is here. What's the woman want to do? Ultimately, it's her decision.
2007-03-15 11:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by A B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whether his parents approve or not, it's done. Keeping the child means that he is going to be bound to this woman in some way for the rest of his life but the way he most certainly will feel it is when he is required to pay child support until that child reaches adulthood. So be it. The age difference doesn't mean anything except that, if she is free of her marriage and marries him, it is not likely to last. Not likely to last but there is a slim chance that it might.
So, stand back and watch this train wreck. There is nothing you can do.
2007-03-15 10:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an adult, so if he loves her, he should stand up for his rights. If she's not willing to leave her husband, he can go to court and establish paternity. A test needs to be done to prove if he's really the father, she is married, and no matter what she says, is probably also having sex with her husband. Your friend may be nothing more than her "boy toy". Either way, the truth needs to come out; I understand why his parents don't approve of the situation!
2007-03-15 11:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she does with the pregnancy is her choice. He can tell her how he feels about abortion and that's all he can do. She can choose to listen to what he says and then she must make her own choice. As for his parents approval, the man is 19, enough said.
2007-03-15 11:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny your friend doesn't believe in abortion, but can have an affair with a married woman. The woman of course will now be thinking of her husband and there really is nothing your friend can do. He needs to get away from her and find someone single and his age.
2007-03-15 10:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Momof4 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What do you wont to do ? I guess help them out if they have the child don't be mad at them people do fall in love .Does she still live with her husband and does he know its not his? If so then i think somebody should tell the guy if not she needs to get a fast divorce before the kid comes . She must be the young mans first love not much you can do to change his mind hes at his prime at that age and isn't going to listen to anybody that's like taking candy from a baby
2007-03-15 11:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my question is do u really love this woman/ if so your parents have nothing to do with the situation.My advice is u and this woman sit down together and weigth the pros and cons of the situation becuase u and her are the only two that can make the right chioce.
2007-03-15 11:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by daddysierswife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's an adult. He can decide for himself whether or not he wants to invest the next 18 years of his life to this woman and his child.
His parents will love the baby once they hold it.
2007-03-15 10:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ral problems are just beginning for him. Too bad he started at such a young age.
2007-03-15 11:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋