Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

I´ve been living together with my bf. We are lovers for three months but I just moved in with him 3 weeks ago. Unfortunately, things aren´t going on smoothly. For the third time I caught him chatting to lots of girls. Just today, he re~activated his account to a dating site and found a lot of messages from girls. I have access to his PC where I caught him doing this. I attempted to leave him last week but he said that he´d go crazy without me and that I´m the woman he wants to marry (sounds untrue to me since he´s still 23 for a lifetime commitment and after all the chat logs I´ve seen). During our fight, he sent an sms to my bestfriend expressing his feelings for me and that he doesn´t know anymore what to do just to make me stay. I am really confused now. I do love him so much and I would definitely miss him if I leave his house. However, at the back of my mind, I have to do something coz I dont want to undergo another pain again in relation to love. Please advice.

2007-03-15 03:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother has a minor learning disability. he left school at an early age and since then hasn't hung around with anyone, he expects me to hang around with him all the time, but i'm older now and have my own life to lead and i'm planning on moving away soon. i've introduced him to a number of my friends but he just doesn't click with them at all, my sister thinks i'm over-exaggerating but i'm not and he wouldn't even visit her all that often unless i suggested it. we have suggested every social activity but he always goes for the hard-to-reach options. i'm upset because i really don't want to leave my brother in the dust when i go off travelling to other places for who knows what amount of time. he may not be capable of running his own home which means he will have to live-in with someone (it'll end up being me) when we are much older because i can't leave him behind forever either.

can anyone give me good advice on how to make my brothers life a little bit better??

2007-03-15 03:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for three years monday week and I have no reason not to trust im, everyone comments on how he thinks the world of me, he meets me from college whenever he can, picks me up from work, and occasionally takes me, I HAVE TO MENTION THAT HE OFFERS TO DO THIS..I DONT EXPECT IT, I even try and tell him not to sometimes coz i dont want to be rude and mean! but he tells me how much he loves me and even my parents think he is genuine, but, theres a girl at his college who has a boyfriend who i think she lives with, and he gives her a lift home when she cant get home, and ....i dont know. Am \I worrying for no reason and how do i stop worrying!.
Thanks

2007-03-15 03:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by little_millsey 2 in Singles & Dating

Indian husbands are so devoted to their mother that they go deaf to their wife. Even if the wife is insulted by their mother they are supporting their mother. Why so?

Why cannot they trust thier wives?

2007-03-15 03:40:21 · 10 answers · asked by life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 03:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by tamzin x 1 in Friends

2007-03-15 03:38:46 · 17 answers · asked by mark w 1 in Singles & Dating

we met in nov but he said he doesnt recongnise vals day so I got him a gift I did not get a gift not even his company. we see each other after 7 days if am lucky an dhe said things will be better coz he has been sorting a few things out.

2007-03-15 03:38:31 · 14 answers · asked by supper Star bitch Slap 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby's ex is a real piece of trash. She has a jaded sexual history, won't keep a job, is very promiscuous, bankrupt (twice), and has terrible reputation in the small town where she lives. She has not really done anything to have their child taken from her. We do not want his child to be like her. But we all know the old saying, the fruit doesn't fall far from the tree. The mother is always plotting things against me and my husband. Very bad things. Like paying someone to go to his boss and claim they are having an affair. My hubby is a police officer and they take things like infidelity very seriously. She is a true dead beat. We need to protect our family. What should we do?

2007-03-15 03:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just thinking that I usually have the best chance of meeting the opposite sex when I travel. I mean it has gotten so difficult here in the west to meet people because of our insular lifestyles.
What do you think? Where and how do you meet people?

2007-03-15 03:37:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe that if you and a young lady reaches your peek (climax) at the same time that there is a different connection. I was having sex with a young lady that I have been dating for a few months and for the first time in a long time I climaxed when she did. It's like something about her triggered me. I am just not sure if it was that good or if there was more of a connection there.

2007-03-15 03:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know i wrote this before but I'm not crying. I can barley type I'm so upset! I hate this i don't know what to do!! I'm really sorry this is so long!!

Hello! My name is Jackie and I'm 18. I'm a senior in high school and i had posted this earlier on my sister's yahoo answer's name. I really needed help with something! I realized after i wrote it that they way i had written it was a bit immature so i will start over again. I apologize for the length of this.

I am graduating this year and i feel like this is the year i have found my "best friends" Lets call this person "friend 1" I found her true colors. Sadly enough there colors are black and not a pretty color like orange or green. I am looking for advice as to what i should do in this situation. I hope that someone will be able to help me understand what's going on. Thanks a million :-)

2007-03-15 03:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by Julie S 1 in Singles & Dating

b-cuz my best friend is 12 and she have sex then my other best friend had sex when she was only 14 but im 13 n i want to know should i wait or not

2007-03-15 03:36:43 · 14 answers · asked by Shakira W 1 in Friends

2007-03-15 03:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by chicalocia 1 in Friends

I personally think it's their addictive personalities. Agree?

2007-03-15 03:35:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this guy, hes hot but blahhh. Hes 20 so am I. The other guy is dorky a little and 18 but I cant stop smiling when I'm around with him. i want to dump the 20 year old for the younger guy. Am I crazy?

2007-03-15 03:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a Geologist Assistant it's so boring!

2007-03-15 03:35:23 · 32 answers · asked by suzy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone once said "it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't" i think i agree

2007-03-15 03:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Val 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a boy i like and im not sure if he likes me. i want to get his attention. i think i kinda putt him off some times by fighting him. but he fights back. i wanna get his attention. BUT NOT BY OFFERING SEX!!!! im only 13! pervs! so wat should i do???

2007-03-15 03:34:45 · 6 answers · asked by Evelyne 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now I am deeply in love with a girl and I do not think I can live without her. I have told her my feelings last year but she said she just wanted to be friends. Since then, I have done a few things for her, such as offering my help, lending her my textbook or even making her a birthday card.

I used to think and believe that one day I would be able to win her heart. But today it dawned on me whether or not I deserve her. I saw her and her friends and a few boys from my class gathering during break time and was sharing some stories. Pardon my ego, but those boys are more 'jerk'-ish and care less about their studies, just unlike me. I am more quiet and calm. The girl is sometimes cheerful but she is a very kind and beautiful girl. Smart also. She seems too perfect to me.

Now, do I actually deserve her? Should I continue to chase my true love? We are 15 and I truly love her!

2007-03-15 03:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:34:26 · 17 answers · asked by Hooney 1 in Weddings

or swallow it? I was yawning and a mosquito ended up in my mouth, but since they say they are pure protein i thought i'd swallow it, or not?

2007-03-15 03:34:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:33:44 · 3 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex is constantly terrorizing our family. They have one child together. We have a six month old together. His ex has tried to hire someone to say that my hubby is having an affair, she has verbally threatened to have my son and me ran off the road. Her current mother in law has informed us she hates our new baby and would "strangle him" if she could. She says all of these things in front of their child. We have found out that she is plotting to get my husband fired. Our sources are very reliable. She makes our relationship with her very difficult. She is on her 3rd marriage in 5 years. She won't keep a job and wants more money from us. We pay child support just as we should. We have been warned that she is very dangerous and will stop at nothing. What should we do? How do we protect ourselves?

2007-03-15 03:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kind and tries her best for you?????

2007-03-15 03:32:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 03:32:02 · 2 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 03:31:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls always ask me out, I have never asked a girl out.
Girls are also always the ones dumping me, what does this say about me?

2007-03-15 03:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's a tricky question i've come across.
ur driving a vehicle which only 2 people can ride in(including urself).
u pass a busstop and see an attractive girl and smile at her and she smiles back; u knw she's interested...
also, u see an old classmate standing there-uv been tryin to trace him for ages
there're no other cars on the road. at that moment an old lady at the stop has an attack.
what do u do? do u help the lady, losing your chances of hittin it off with the gal and meeting ur friend?

2007-03-15 03:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by avg_jack 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a good freind for many years. The two of us always flirted but kept it clean until college. We both did some things we regret, and in the process she broke my heart. We stopped speaking about a year ago but still keep tabs through a mutual freind.
Fast foward to today- she starts sending texts messages that her "number has changed", "we haven't talked in a while" and "would you like to come to my wedding?". Now I've known about her engagement for nearly a year now- she met her fiance right after we split. So why come at me with a text message now? Is this genuiwne or is she up to no good again? I can't help but be a little suspicious that she calls out of the blue like this, conicidently after I inform our mutual freind that my current girlfreind and I have been on the rocks lately...

2007-03-15 03:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Weddings

My half sister was married shortly to her last husband and took on his last name. She in turn had the last name changed and given to her first daughter (she had by someone else) and the the daughter she had with my ex brother-in-law. They are divorced now and she was awarded custody of both kids. The thing is, she dropped the both of them off at my parents place right afterwards and now we're raising them (it's been over 9 1/2 years now). My parents aren't named as the legal guardiand, but she does not keep contact at all and did drop them off herself. There's no way to contact her; we don't even know where she is. Both of my nieces are now at the age where they're being questioned and teased by school mates on their last names because it's different from my parents. How do we go about changing it so that they have their grand parents last name? Is this even possible without my half sister doing it herself? Please help.

2007-03-15 03:30:44 · 2 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Family