My husband's ex is constantly terrorizing our family. They have one child together. We have a six month old together. His ex has tried to hire someone to say that my hubby is having an affair, she has verbally threatened to have my son and me ran off the road. Her current mother in law has informed us she hates our new baby and would "strangle him" if she could. She says all of these things in front of their child. We have found out that she is plotting to get my husband fired. Our sources are very reliable. She makes our relationship with her very difficult. She is on her 3rd marriage in 5 years. She won't keep a job and wants more money from us. We pay child support just as we should. We have been warned that she is very dangerous and will stop at nothing. What should we do? How do we protect ourselves?
2007-03-15 03:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by momof5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I seriously think you should be talking to an attorney about possibly getting custody of the child , this woman needs some serious psychiatric treatment. Perhaps even talk to a child services they won't tell who has spoken to them.
2007-03-15 03:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would file a police report, if for no other reason than at least there will be an official record of the threats she has made. Will the people to whom she has voiced these threats be willing to swear that she did indeed say these things to them? I would also think about getting a restraining order, and maybe have your lawyer send her a "cease and desist" letter. Might make this crappy excuse for a human being sit up and take notice. Good luck!
2007-03-15 03:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move.
Sorry but it's that simple if she really is the way you claim. Move out of state or at least another city. She can't have more money without a court order, and there isn't much you can or can't do about that. Just pay what you are suppose to, keep track of what she does and claims, and have as little to do with her as possible.
No offense, but this is what you signed on for when you married your husband. You thought you were just getting him, but since he had a kid you picked up the ex too. She will be in your life one way or another for the rest of your or her life. This is why you have to account for everything when picking a mate to marry. You didn't and now are paying.
2007-03-15 03:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to the district attorney with your concerns. They may set up a sting operation to have her hire an undercover cop to have the family killed and then they lock her up for 20 years for conspiracy to committ murder. If you tape any of the conversations it would be a good thing. You need witness's you need a restraining order against her too. Crazy people need to be put away the rest of their lives. So don't just sit there get an appointment with the D.A.
2007-03-15 03:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact an attorney and everytime contact the polic get order of protection for both the ex and ex motherinlaw treat the child with nothing but kindness hes innocent in all this and children are not stupid but this is escalating into something worse than being vindictive
2007-03-15 03:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is breaking the law....please begin to document everything from dates of calls times, circumstances, pics,coversations even the threats.make it very detailed.Your first step is to file a complaint.Go armed with everything.BUT KEEP IN MIND .....do not retaliate in ANY WAY....she may use this against you or your family.Please file that complaint with the police today
2007-03-15 03:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by stacey p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you call the cops and have it put on the record that this woman is threatening you and harassing you. i would have your husband speak to his people at work and tell them what is going on and what she is planning to do. if possible, i would record all phone conversations with her. that way you have proof of the harassment. there is nothing she can do about the amount of money that you pay for child support unless she drags you back into court, so wouldn't worry about that.
2007-03-15 03:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some type of concrete proof, any way you can get it, and go to the police and get a restraining order. I'm certain she will break it, and then you can have her arrested.
Psycho women like that make the rest of us look bad, so I hope something can be done.
2007-03-15 03:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the court house and file an ex parte. Once the ex parte is in force and she makes good on those alledged threats you have every right to file charges and to have her prosecuted.
2007-03-15 03:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order TODAY.
Do not wait until it's to too late and someone gets hurt. It's nothing to play around with...better safe than sorry.
2007-03-15 03:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by LG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋