I have been with my boyfriend for three years monday week and I have no reason not to trust im, everyone comments on how he thinks the world of me, he meets me from college whenever he can, picks me up from work, and occasionally takes me, I HAVE TO MENTION THAT HE OFFERS TO DO THIS..I DONT EXPECT IT, I even try and tell him not to sometimes coz i dont want to be rude and mean! but he tells me how much he loves me and even my parents think he is genuine, but, theres a girl at his college who has a boyfriend who i think she lives with, and he gives her a lift home when she cant get home, and ....i dont know. Am \I worrying for no reason and how do i stop worrying!.
Thanks
2007-03-15 03:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by little_millsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wouldnt mind if i just turned up at his college and met her.
2007-03-15 03:51:05 · update #1
and answerer number 16, dont you think i would if i wnated to?
2007-03-15 04:05:45 · update #2
stop worryin ur boyfriend is just a gentleman!
2007-03-15 03:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him it sounds just like you are being a little paranoid sweetie. I am just the same i have been with my man for nealry 5 yrs i trust him but sometimes i cant help but worry he is just very good looking lol. the only thing you can do is talk to him he should understand dont have a go at him though that will make it worse you dont want to end up arguing about it, if he is innocent, just tell him how you feel. maybe you can even meet this girl yourself if nothing is going on then he would not have a problem, by the sounds of it it sounds like he is just a nice guy. good luck it sound s like u have a good 1 there.
2007-03-15 03:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your boyfriend of three years is not cheating on you, as you have said he is not given any signs or clues that he is. What is really wrong with what your boyfriend does? most women would be appreciative more if their men did those things, he is doing it because he cares about you and wants you to know that he appreciates you. Your worrying over things that you should not be worried about unless the reason he is doing those things is because he is hiding something from you, but if he is a straight up guy then why would he do that. Just try to take it easy, and if something is sketchy about it then you will know just by the way he is acting.
2007-03-15 03:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend giving this other girl a ride, tell him how you feel! Maybe he is just being considerate to her or he likes her to. Sit him down and find out why he's doing this for her. Could be a innocent gesture. You should know if he loves you and know one else. You need to trust him if you do love him. Ask questions! Cocoa
2007-03-15 03:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant blame you for worrying, because this girl comes outta nowhere and you dont know her, so you dont know what could be going on. but if you trust your man, which it seems like you do, you have no reason to worry even though you are. its natural. my girlfriend did the same thing to me last summer but hey its all good dont worry if you trust him
good luck :)
2007-03-15 03:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he love you way to much for you to be worrying about a girl that already has man. but he could just be using that as a cover. so maybe you should ask he whats up with her i sure he will tell you
2007-03-15 03:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by cfhjufdrbko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are 100% sure of him, i say don't worry, apparently there are not nice guys anymore, so i say don't worry too much of that. If it becomes a problem then just be honest with him before it ruens the relationship.
2007-03-15 03:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he thinks the world of you, he's just being nice to the girl. It will be ok, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 03:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone would be nervous, he is just probably a extra nice guy and nothing to worry about
2007-03-15 03:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him that question and let him clearly explain his relationship with the other girl. That is what is gnawing at your heart and once this is explained, your mind will be at rest.
2007-03-15 03:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what else would he do, just leave a girl out in the cold that needs a ride home
he doesn't mean anything bad
2007-03-15 03:48:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋