Right now I am deeply in love with a girl and I do not think I can live without her. I have told her my feelings last year but she said she just wanted to be friends. Since then, I have done a few things for her, such as offering my help, lending her my textbook or even making her a birthday card.
I used to think and believe that one day I would be able to win her heart. But today it dawned on me whether or not I deserve her. I saw her and her friends and a few boys from my class gathering during break time and was sharing some stories. Pardon my ego, but those boys are more 'jerk'-ish and care less about their studies, just unlike me. I am more quiet and calm. The girl is sometimes cheerful but she is a very kind and beautiful girl. Smart also. She seems too perfect to me.
Now, do I actually deserve her? Should I continue to chase my true love? We are 15 and I truly love her!
2007-03-15 03:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw. as long as you really care about this girl, you deserve her. don't think that you aren't good enough for her. be confident! but since she already told you she just wants to be friends, it might be a better idea if you moved on. when a girl says that, she really means it. continue being nice to her, but it may or may not make her change her mind. you sound like a wonderful person for a 15-year-old. i'm sure you will find someone who will truly love you back=) good luck!
2007-03-15 03:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 15 then you do not truly love her. 15 year old girls are more interested in the "jerkish" types of guys for some stupid reason and will remaim that way for quite some time. Focus on your studies and she will come around in college. Stay her friend and be there for her when all the jerks lie to her, cheat on her, and dump her. Trust me, if she doesn't come around then it was never meant to be and your true love will find you.
2007-03-15 03:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl doesn't like you all the good deeds and good will that you can muster will not make her like you. It's not a question of whether you deserve her or not, you probably do, maybe more than those shallow guys she hangs out with. But if she just isn't attracted to you, you're going to need to move on eventually and find someone who appreciates your intelligence and good nature
2007-03-15 03:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie.
Its not wether you deserve her, its wether she deserves you. Unfortunately it seems she has laid her cards on the table, and said she only wants to be friends, i think its time for you to try and move on, see other girls, let this girl see you ( not snogging) other girls but talking to them and laughing with them and she may realise that she does like you, or She may realise that what she has is a really good friend.
One thing to remember is that No one is perfect.
2007-03-15 03:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve someone that wants you. Try backing off and sees what she does. If she comes back to you, maybe you can build from there. But if she just wants to be friends, dont try so hard. you are young with alot of time left to find the right one.
2007-03-15 03:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro, ur jus 15 nd ur mind is not that much matured 2 select ur life parter.... only after 20 yrs u can decide ur own life ....moreover, that gal dosen't seem 2 have ne kinda interest on u......so, u better move off....nd try 2 e'joy ur life coz teen age is d most enjoyable life of ur lifetime ....don't jus waste it for d only sake of love...
2007-03-15 03:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by cutegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15
it is useless to tell you because you wont understand
love and lust are not interchangeable
they will feel the same for you now
you will swear that it is love, I used to
go up to her and say how you feel you have nothing to lose
just remember that it won't last forever anyway
2007-03-15 03:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww omg thats soo sweet and dont give up you will get her cause u sound like one of the perfict guy and if he cant relize that then its her loss not urs good luck
2007-03-15 03:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by yo_mama_beesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, move on.
2007-03-15 03:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋