I´ve been living together with my bf. We are lovers for three months but I just moved in with him 3 weeks ago. Unfortunately, things aren´t going on smoothly. For the third time I caught him chatting to lots of girls. Just today, he re~activated his account to a dating site and found a lot of messages from girls. I have access to his PC where I caught him doing this. I attempted to leave him last week but he said that he´d go crazy without me and that I´m the woman he wants to marry (sounds untrue to me since he´s still 23 for a lifetime commitment and after all the chat logs I´ve seen). During our fight, he sent an sms to my bestfriend expressing his feelings for me and that he doesn´t know anymore what to do just to make me stay. I am really confused now. I do love him so much and I would definitely miss him if I leave his house. However, at the back of my mind, I have to do something coz I dont want to undergo another pain again in relation to love. Please advice.
2007-03-15 03:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run as fast as you can and get your own place!
2007-03-15 03:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to let him go. You've only been sleeping with him for 3 months, not sure how long you have known him.
Try this. Next time he is going to visit the dating site or chat with his women, see if he lets you 'sit' there with him. If not, take a hint, and get lost.
My one and only chat-addicted bf was completely infatuated w/one of the locals that he chatted with and she started calling him alot. They met one day and fell in love at first sight. the wuss couldn't even admit it to me until he sent an e-mail informing me that they were getting married
It's just not worth it- there ar ea billion guys out there, give or take a few....how many have you met!?!?!
2007-03-15 10:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by disorder_ly_conduct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatting with women leads to meeting women. Meeting women leads to liking women. Liking women leads to cheating. My advice...................tell him to de-activate all accounts and give you 150% or you walk. Remember, first time you let him get away with it, he'll think he can do this again and again and you'll be stupid enough to keep forgiving. It's up to you, but me personally, I'd put a stop to all his extracurricular chatting or move out.
2007-03-15 10:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a phase... you should confront him but never use giving up the relationship as a wager.
do something different. make him think twice before he hits the keyboard.
2007-03-15 10:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by flaunt it! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should e-mail the girl and pretend your him.that's how i caught my last bf cheating. or just let him go
2007-03-15 10:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahha, oh sorry!
just activate your own dating site and leave it on, see what he says!
2007-03-15 10:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
o wow
talk to him..
2007-03-15 10:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋