Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

My ex ended our relationship 6 wks ago. We didn't speak for 3 weeks & she contacted me. I decided I should try and get her back but not push too much and see what happens naturally.

We met for a drink, everything seemed good and the spark was still there. The next time we spoke she wasn't so warm.

We will meet up again in a week or so. I am just going to see how things are.

If over a few weeks it seems we should be together then I will come out and say it to her. I know if I do that too soon she will get scared and that will probably be it.

Trouble is, it is her birthday in 10 days. I would like to buy her something, not the level of presents I would have bought her if we were together but something to show I still care whether or not we are together.

I am worried that if I buy her something she may think I am being pushy but also know she may be upset if I don't, although she would never say it.

Any suggestions?

Do I drop the gift round on her birthday?

2007-03-15 12:53:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so he told everyone who i like, and he knows i like him, i was watching his reaction from afar, because he guy who told said im gunna tell now, so i didnt belive him, but i also did in another side of me.... anyways my crushes reaction was, a blush, and a walk-away... the person who told said he might like me, but i want opinion......

by the way: he says hi to me oftenier...(i know thats not a word) thank you SSSSOOOOOOOO much!

2007-03-15 12:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by Dezzi;Babbyy; 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 12:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor G 1 in Singles & Dating

They are helping me out with my daughters big day! Bday...all the girls are meeting at my parents house to be picked up by my b/f & me. I'm using my parents van to help taxi the girls. We live 2 hours away from these girls. I really appreciate all this!

2007-03-15 12:52:16 · 3 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Family

a whole new world out there - for their happiness?

2007-03-15 12:51:38 · 30 answers · asked by I'm Sparticus 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please help, too much drama, drama, drama

2007-03-15 12:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im not sure bout this but im 14 ok and me & my bf have been datin for almost 3 months........ok i have 2 question! (1) can this be really love? (2) is it really possible to fall in love at this age?? i ask this bcuz i think i really do love him!!! i talked to his mom bout it and she told me that wen we first started datin she didnt even think it was gonna last....so im happy it even lasted this long but i want it to be much longer she told me it may really be love bcuz her husband and her have been together since 7th grade!! im in 8th and he is in 7th he is 13 and im 14....oh one more question.......do you think its ok that im datin a 13 year old and im 14?? just wonderin!

2007-03-15 12:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Lauren C 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl, we're like best friends, we have several classes together, she is also the guitarist in our band... I'd probably do just about anything for her and I dont know if she likes me, like I said we're really close friends, I wanna know is there anyway to tell if she likes me, or anyway to get her to like me?

2007-03-15 12:50:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

b/c there really is no proven way to go back in time right? haha :)

2007-03-15 12:50:53 · 10 answers · asked by peaches78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a crush on this girl in my history class for several months but do not know how to "get" with her. In class, she would often stare at me, twirl/redo her hair, and point her knee towards me. However, I'm not sure if she actually likes me back. Whenever I do get a rare chance to talk to her, the conversation would always be simple one-word exchanges.

So, with that in mind, there's another problem. I never seem to bump into her in the halls and she always arrives in class before I do and leaves quickly when it ends. Since the teacher only lectures and she sits diagonally across the room from me, I can't seem to find any reason to ever talk to her. I've known her very slightly in the past, so introducing myself to her would seem odd.

So, the question is: does she like me, and what is the best thing to do in this situation?

2007-03-15 12:50:22 · 3 answers · asked by excelblue 4 in Singles & Dating

i got dumped for someone my ex thought was a retard and would never go out with. now she wants me back. what should i do

2007-03-15 12:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im still inlove with her but now she doesnt care about me and she treats me like trash

2007-03-15 12:49:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It should feed about 15-20 ppl. My daughters bday party. I was surprised she asked me to make her a cake. She doesn't eat cake! lol She only eats the icing. But she eats brownies.

2007-03-15 12:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Family

my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and i have started to notice that compared to evryone around us we have sex a lot less. It is nothing to do with not wanting it on my part. Average week would be always once and maybe twice. We are still young and this does not seem normal to me.(Both 20) I have talked to him about it and he said its nothing about from fact that hes tired all the time. Just seems weird to me because boys at this age mostly seem to pine for it as much as possible. Is this normal?

2007-03-15 12:49:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to a man for 4 years, who has treated me like crap but I tried to make it work. It has got to the point where I dont have MUCH love for hom any more. I am in love with my ex, he wants me to be with him and be his wife. I dont want to make the wrong choice, dont have any one to talk to about this, please help?

2007-03-15 12:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by B and L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends are all fighting with my other friend..im in the middle of this fight cause its all she said I said!! they're all my friends, but I cant stand this fighting,they expect me 2 tell each other what one another said bout each other. I cant stay away cause they're in all of my classes! help?

2007-03-15 12:47:50 · 5 answers · asked by sam! 4 in Friends

2007-03-15 12:47:50 · 7 answers · asked by princess 2 in Weddings

Okay I'm going to try and break this down easy with out using any names considering both of these boys have yahoo accounts and they are frequently answering questions...

Boy A: We dated in 6th grade and went out for two weeks. Broke up. He's my next door neighboor. I regret ever going out with him.

Boy B: Boy A's best friend since 6th grade.
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Okay. Me and boy B have liked each other since 7th grade, and we are now 9th graders. We have first period together and we both have second lunch. We are constantly running into each other. When ever I'm near him he stops talking and stares at me to see what I'm doing.

Since our teacher in 1st blk doesn't assign seats he ALWAYS moves to sit behind me and will constantly do things to get my attention.

Today he moved to my table and sat in MY seat..so I was stuck threw the whole lunch unable to eat because of his stares. The only thing thast keeps up from dating is boy A...what to do?!?!

I think I'm in love with Boy B!

2007-03-15 12:47:49 · 28 answers · asked by Chandolyn T 2 in Singles & Dating

what makes boys go crazy for a girl? what can a girl do to attract a certain boy? any suggestion don't be nasty please

2007-03-15 12:47:32 · 15 answers · asked by su 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone i know is telling me i have no fat to lose.... so do you think i'm fat or a'm i dieting for no reson? check out my myspace: http://www.myspace.com/dreambigordietrying

2007-03-15 12:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or surprise EVERYONE?

2007-03-15 12:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Family

I'm trying to find a gift for my boyfriend.

2007-03-15 12:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by flower_keeper 1 in Singles & Dating

well theres this really cute boy at my school that i really like but i dont know if he knows i like him but i think his best friend knows i like him andsince its almost the end of the school year do you think i should tell him?

2007-03-15 12:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by evelyn o 2 in Friends

a goodlooking man is a goodlooking man irrevelant of coulour what do you think

2007-03-15 12:45:54 · 5 answers · asked by denny 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems like every man I fall in love ends up cheating on me as soon as we get serious.... Is there something wrong with me? I am considering just being single the rest of my life or I will just have to put up with it and learn to not care if my spouse cheats on me.

2007-03-15 12:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by luvnlife85 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 12:45:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 12:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by tuchy m 1 in Family

this may be a stupid question, my girlfriend and i both love eachother very much and in november of '06 i gave my girlfriend a promise ring for her birthday and she had me put it on her right finger. and today she told me that she is now wearing it on the left hand to get the message accross that she is taken.. we are both of the catholic religion and beleive and have remained faithful to the abstaining until marrage so that has nothing to do with the situation. is she trying to get the hint accross that she wants a new ring on that finger or is it something else?

2007-03-15 12:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by ffpdfirefighter2002 2 in Singles & Dating

You like a female friend. You introduce her to your good male mate, you then discover that your male mate likes your female mate. Do you carry on going for your female mate? or do you back off & let your mate have a chance? You don't know how she feels

I am in fact the female mate. I want to know whether my male friend mite'v backed up due to his friend's fairly obvious attraction. I like my male mate, but only think of his m8 as exactly that a freind of a friend.

2007-03-15 12:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf wants to have sex tonight but I'm not sure?? He keeps pressuring me to do it, but still worried. I know you probably think this is about me afraid to do it but I just don't know how! This is weird but I need to know a couple different ways & how, quick. He's coming over in an hour!!!!!!!! 1hr.!!!!!

2007-03-15 12:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating