It seems like every man I fall in love ends up cheating on me as soon as we get serious.... Is there something wrong with me? I am considering just being single the rest of my life or I will just have to put up with it and learn to not care if my spouse cheats on me.
2007-03-15 12:45:37 · 6 answers · asked by luvnlife85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not every one of us will cheat on you. I have never cheated on a girlfriend or spouse. I have, however, been cheated on. Here's my 43 years experience... Men and women are attracted to the same type of person even when they are trying to change. You are attracted to shallow people( That's no reflection on you so don't get upset about it.) Therefore, you will get shallow treatment from those types of characters. How to fix it? Establish a new routine. Look for people who have roots...good family life, long-term friends, history of long-term relationships, careers, etc. Once you change your focus on people you'll start finding the right type of guy for you. Never settle. They're out there, you just have to look in the right places. (Hint: HE WON'T BE IN A CLUB!)
Good luck!
2007-03-15 12:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's frustrating to have all your relationships end up so sadly but you should not give up just because of them. For all those crappy relationships I'm sure there's one guy out there who's so good for you. I guess the first thing you should do is figure out why they cheated on you in the first place. Maybe you guys didn't spend enuf time together or something like that. And when you know the cause you can work on making your next relationship better.
2007-03-15 12:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, it's just the type of guys that you go out with. I mean players and guys who are too good looking tend to cheat. "Nice guy" usually won't cheat on you. Maybe you should find a nice guy!
2007-03-15 12:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not you its him hes not honest this is how to tell if ur man is cheatin on you
1) check his email adress
2)sneak in his car
3)when u have to pay the bill see who he has called
2007-03-15 13:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm I must be your complete opposite...like I'm in bizzaro world. Every girlfriend I have had has cheated on me. I am not jealous, mean, violent. So I guess its the giant stamp on my forehead that says "please cheat on me I like it"
2007-03-15 12:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up. Whatever you do... DON'T GIVE UP...(sob) .. Please dont give up...(sob) Just take ur time finding the right one or just ease on dating for a while, and try ur luck again. (sob)...Just don't give up!
(crying)
2007-03-15 12:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋