My bf wants to have sex tonight but I'm not sure?? He keeps pressuring me to do it, but still worried. I know you probably think this is about me afraid to do it but I just don't know how! This is weird but I need to know a couple different ways & how, quick. He's coming over in an hour!!!!!!!! 1hr.!!!!!
2007-03-15 12:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 19!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 12:51:38 · update #1
If you're not sure - you're not ready. Sex should not be something you're pressured into. It is something very special for two people who love each other (preferably husband and wife) to share. From the sound of it - I don't think you're ready to go through with this. When you're ready, you won't have any doubts, fears, concerns, anxiety, or pressure. Take this hour to thank about this. If your b/f loves, he'll wait until you're ready.
2007-03-15 12:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first time and you are not ready if this boy is really the right one for you he should understand that you are not ready or that you just do not feel the time is right. You should not do it just because he wants you to
If you are curious about knowing how to do it then you should not be worried about that. if he knows you are a virgin he does not expect you to be a professional and actually if you were he may be a little suspecting of your true sexual status lol
All in all if you are not ready just flat out say it. He is not worth it if hes pressuring you! Do not do something you will regret for a guy who you probably will not be with long!
2007-03-15 19:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you gota think of how this will change your relationship, for the good or the bad. Now after you thought that through, tell him how you feel. I take it you're a virgin? Well if he's not let him do it all, but you might want to let him know you don't know how to. This advise probably won't matter to you, but just think about it. if its in the cards, its in the cards.
Juggiejones OUT
2007-03-15 19:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Shalyn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.. if he cant accept it you are too good for him and are better off.. sex can be a lot of pressure but dont let him get the better of you
2007-03-15 19:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by MeLLy BeLLy =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont. If you are not ready for it then dont. If he loves you he will understand. Tell him that you are not ready. No one should pressure any one into anything. I think he is being a bully totally disregarding what you think
2007-03-15 20:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by freespin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him when he gets there and tell him firmly that you dont want to lose your virginity. you want to give it to , hopefully him, at marriage. if he resists, firmly state your opinon again.
dont worry about losing him as a boyfriend, if hes pressuring you into sex, then hes not a very good choice. but if he can respect you enough to back off then hes a keeper
2007-03-15 19:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sir. ChatsAlot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to - DON'T!
It is very important you have sex when YOU want to, not when your boyfriend wants you to.
There is a certain line in a relationship when you make your own choices and forget about what your boyfriend wants to do, and he crossed that line.
Don't do it if you don't want to!
More advice at http://www.easyteendating.com .
2007-03-15 19:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP right there!! Before you hurt yourself. lol... You are not ready!!! Though guy! You should not have sex. Now you have nothing to worry about!
2007-03-15 19:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to do it just follow his lead,
people are differant and you have to work on what each other
likes.
go with ideas you have, try differant things.
main thing is talk about it.
if you don't want to other than not knowing how don't
2007-03-15 19:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Girl Friend-
IF YOURE BF IS PRESSURING YOU TO HAVE SEX THEN YOU NEED TO GET RID OF HIM. IF HE TRULY LIKE YOU AND RESPECTED YOU THEN HE WOULD JUST UNDERSTAND THAT YOURE NOT READY TO HAVE SEX
GET RID OF HIM
2007-03-15 19:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by sparky_42375 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋