please help, too much drama, drama, drama
2007-03-15 12:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U dont want to be a tramp right??/ Then wait for the boy to break up with his girl...if he really liked u then he would break up with her and believe me, u do not want to be known as a tramp who caused a guy to cheat on his girl (that is not good for the reputation) Let life take its course..things will all work out
good Luck
2007-03-15 12:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The guy's a jerk. Let him drop "hints" if he wants to, but don't start to fall for him yourself. Obviously you're thinking of this other girl in the whole situation, which is very considerate of you. Think how much it would suck to be her and for her man to be hitting on other girls when she's not around. Would you ever want that for yourself? Absolutely not. So don't even think about getting into a relationship with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
If you know the girl well, you might consider telling her about what is going on, but I don't recommend it. Being a girl myself, and knowing how we are, I would say that nothing good would come out of you telling her about his little "hints." Women will get angry with the other chick rather than realizing it's the guy who they should be angry at. Don't ask me why, but that's just how it goes. I would keep my mouth shut about the whole thing unless she happens to be one of your good friends.
If he starts seriously becoming more persistent, you might try saying something like, "What would so-and-so (his girlfriend) think if you said that to me in front of her?," and leaving it at that. You could also help him out by bringing her up in conversation, just to let him know that you don't think what he's doing is OK and to remind him of her.
2007-03-15 20:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by hs329 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop hints that your not interested, or give no heed to them, and pretend taht they are not obvious, try to avoid contact or change the subject if you must... Drama sucks!
2007-03-15 19:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by TheExpert 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
unhappiness is happening 2 her with this girl, she wants 2 meet new people, particulary u, but he doesn't want 2 left her and then don't have u and don't have her, i think that's his way of thinking, he's not really happy with this girl, he wants other, but he doesn't want to risk of loosing her and don't even have other, that's why cheating it's not so bad, unless is happening 2 u
2007-03-15 19:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy is not available until he removes himself from his current "commitment". You don't want to be what people will call you, behind your back, if you take up with him while he is other wise "spoken for."
Make yourself available for the available MAN.
2007-03-15 20:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Beat him to asking her out!
2007-03-15 19:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ella F 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try to ignore him as much as possible
2007-03-15 19:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by el_carliosmx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what?read over your question to make common sence!!!
2007-03-15 19:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jibjab 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋