Okay I'm going to try and break this down easy with out using any names considering both of these boys have yahoo accounts and they are frequently answering questions...
Boy A: We dated in 6th grade and went out for two weeks. Broke up. He's my next door neighboor. I regret ever going out with him.
Boy B: Boy A's best friend since 6th grade.
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Okay. Me and boy B have liked each other since 7th grade, and we are now 9th graders. We have first period together and we both have second lunch. We are constantly running into each other. When ever I'm near him he stops talking and stares at me to see what I'm doing.
Since our teacher in 1st blk doesn't assign seats he ALWAYS moves to sit behind me and will constantly do things to get my attention.
Today he moved to my table and sat in MY seat..so I was stuck threw the whole lunch unable to eat because of his stares. The only thing thast keeps up from dating is boy A...what to do?!?!
I think I'm in love with Boy B!
2007-03-15 12:47:49 · 28 answers · asked by Chandolyn T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres more you need to know...Boy A is obsessed with me. Every month he comes over and asks me out again and again. He gets all his friends to come up to me and ask me out for him. Since I think he knows that I like Boy b...he gets him to ask me ALL the time...it never ends..even tries to give me gifts from his own girlfriend... I also forgot to mention that he is a total pervert...my bathroom has a window and if I leave the curtains open he will try to peep in! Besides being creepy is a good friend..and thats all!
What I'm asking is.. What can I do to let boy A down nicely and let Boy b know that I don't have any feelings for him?
2007-03-15 13:00:51 · update #1
well whatever u had with boy A is over, it is no more.... the past is just the past. just my suggestion is, dont lie to him, let him know how u feel about boy B, tell him that u dont know when it started happening, but not too long ago - even if it was too long ago lol- tell him that u fell for him. and tell him that whether u and boy B, get to get involved in a relationship, that u still wanna be boy A's friend, and that u dont wanna end ur relationship because - even u said u regret ever going out with him- tell him that u still had a good time while u were dating him, and that u wouldnt like to end ur relationship at all, that boy A is a gud friend of urs and u would like to stay friend regardless u were to date boy B or not... and if i may suggest, don't go out with boy B before u reveal ur feelings to boy A, because he might think that u guys both betrayed him. Well good luck, hope everything works out between u and those guys, and that noone ends up hurt.
2007-03-15 12:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girly, if you and boy a have dated in the 6th grade that is a long time ago, he needs to move on and you need to tell him that you like boy b and you really really want to get to know him and possillby go out because that seems like what you are hinting on in this info. Just let down boy a slowly he seems liek he might be a little senitvie but you also need to tell boy b that he also needs to talk to his friend and see like what he thinks from the guy to guy point of veiw if you no what i mean. good luck
2007-03-15 19:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, u´r very young, but its good to star doing the things clear since the very beginning, cause in the way u make it now will depend most of ur life in the future, so first advice: 1. when u end up something, u have to be sure, its not good to go back for something u had already left. 2. if u like boy ¨b¨ go ahead! dont waist ur time, make up something to ask him out, like shopping ... he already took the firt step, payin u special attention and tryin to be always around... its enough... so go on girl!
U can ask me anything at anytime...
Hope this help u :-)
2007-03-15 19:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by jalina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're in love alright,
I can tell because you're scared to talk to him because you dated 'Boy A' for 2 weeks.
I can tell by the way you detail him so perfectly.
The way you cant eat because he steals your seat and looks at you.
Please, you're in 9th grade.
If you loved him, you wouldnt care about 'Boy A'.
You might not like my answer, but you know its best.
Anyway, be with 'Boy B'. 2 weeks 3 years ago, doesnt mean he owns you.
Ah, freshman. the innocence is beautiful.
2007-03-15 19:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to speak directly to him and tell him about liking someone else. It wasn't a good idea to go out with him to begin with since you live next to each other. If that dosen't work, then mention about the possibility that you may have to talk to his parents about the situation.
2007-03-15 19:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe both of you should talk to boy A and tell him that you guys would like to date. He shouldn't have a problem with it cause you guys only dated for two weeks that isn't a whole lot of time to really get attached to someone. I think you should go for it!
2007-03-15 19:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by southern_girl_florida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to "Boy A" and let him know how you feel about "Boy B" and see what he thinks of you and "Boy B" going out. It's been 3 years, he might be ok with it.
2007-03-15 19:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay go out with Boy B..duhhh lol!!! And hope that Boy A has got over u cuz that was 3 yrs ago!! Come on!! Move on with ur life!!!
Good Luck Girl!!! : )
2007-03-15 19:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad for boy A. That was so 6th grade! You are now in High School and ready for boy B. Enjoy his attention and be happy. :)
2007-03-15 19:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if boy A knows that you dont like him anymore
and that your in love with boy b, then i think it should be ok.
i still hope that you and boy A are still friends because you might see him more if boy B and boy A are best friends.
nevertheless, you should talk to boy B and see what he's like or go have fun..
good luck.
2007-03-15 19:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by tome' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋