Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

For starters I am using my friends profile as a means to ask this question in secrecy. I am 25 years old; I have been with my husband for 7 years, been married for 6 and have a 5 year old son. He was my first EVRYTHING, first date, first kiss…etc. I have been at my current job for 6 years. I have always been very reserved, quiet and always had low self esteem. My marriage isn’t as good as I wish it was but you can’t talk to my husband. We have problems, he has anger problems and he does not communicate and I am too scared to push any issues, I am the type that does not like confrontation, I would just as soon forget it than to argue about it. So anyways, I work in a trucking industry and 2 years ago this man got hired as an over the road driver. He would always come to me with questions about work, calling me at twice a month to see how he was doing. I thought he was crazy but then he began to call me for no reason to just see what was up.

2007-03-12 03:15:49 · 8 answers · asked by A. T. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I woke up this morning to my girlfriend giving me a nice blowy. I'm thinking this is a great start to the day. My wife woke up while this was going on and got pretty mad that we didn't wake her up to join in on the fun. I thought I was being nice by letting her sleep as she has been pretty tired lately. Should I really have awakened her? I have a feeling she would have been mad either way. Ah well, I guess my problems could be worse.

2007-03-12 03:15:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He went away for a week and i call him every 5 min i fight with him because i thought he was with another person he explain things to me and he sound sincere but he said he is getting tired of me fighting all the time. and hes acting different.

2007-03-12 03:15:01 · 18 answers · asked by anderssonliz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of problems im really depressed because i was taken from my dad for sexual harassment and i already asked a question like this but i just started breaking down in school after reading my answers because everybody is so nice to me but everybody started asking me what was wrong and i said nothing because i dont want to talk about it but then this girl next to me started blaming me for somthing i didnt do and then zack started yelling at me too and i just started crying and i dont think a 12 year old should go through this and i just want to die or somthing

2007-03-12 03:14:16 · 12 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Family

2007-03-12 03:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by onken 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is in engaged to this guy, nice guy, when they are together and not, he constantly looks at other womens sometimes hugs them, he is a suppervisor/counsoler. Does this mean that he is less interested in my friend or not being sexually satisfied with her? Please need lots of advice!

2007-03-12 03:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

once we come back from spring break (we r on break rite now) we have to pick our electives for next year. i will be in 10th next year and im kinda confused as to what i want to be when i grow up.
i dont mind being a kindergarden teacher, but i do need to devlope more patients(sp), and im not sure if they make good money

but thats the problem, i want a nice job that makes ok money. and i dont want to be in college for a long time and be 35 when i finally get my job. so do u have any suggestions?? and career choices that u think are good. cuz im drawing a blank and i need to know what classes to take next year

2007-03-12 03:12:38 · 24 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend knows I like him too

2007-03-12 03:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son quit school in the 11th grade. He was arrested for hit and run then didn't continue his parole. He moved here from TX and I told him he had to get a job and his GED by April 15 or move out. He has some type of anger issues. He gets mad, then happy, then depressed. At his friends last night, he beat up his 18-yr-old brother. They were going to call the police on him and he took off in Nashville, walking. He called me at 2:00 AM and said he wished his brother had died instead of his step-brother, who killed himself this past August. I was trying to talk to him but he kept yelling that he wanted to die, wasn't going back to jail and would kill himself first, then he said "F*&^ You too mom!" I've tried to help him. I love him and when he is in a good mood, he is the best person to be around. Now my husband said if my son comes back home, he will leave me. I'm so worried about my oldest child, don't know what to do to help, and wonder why my husband would leave because of this.

2007-03-12 03:12:29 · 32 answers · asked by bina64davis 6 in Family

I've been single for about a month and need to meet some guys. I'm from Ireland so if anyone from there knows the best places to meet some let me know. I've already tried a night club near me. It has potential but need some new places

2007-03-12 03:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by fox 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm a black girl, but there's this white guy in my skool that always picks on me, I had him last semester in my american history class and all he did was pick on me and try to touch me. When his friends sat around me trying to mess around, he would get so mad 4 no reasons and start to fight with them, now I have him in math class, I sit in front of him and my friends sit right behind him, they tell me how me stares at my *** and that he thinks they are round and in shape because i exercise a lot. He also tell my friends that I am the cutest black girl he has ever seen but he keeps picking on me! What is it?????

2007-03-12 03:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by Milan 1 in Friends

that can give you a Mr.Stiffy?

What are they? -- nothing sexual please.

2007-03-12 03:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 03:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by Vicky S 1 in Singles & Dating

I think relationships are constructed 2 different ways, and everyone is different, and what works for some may not work for others.

1 being- together doing things together constant companionship.
2 being- together but each has their own space and time to do things.
Does your relationship fit into one of these? if so does it work?

2007-03-12 03:10:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've known 4 2yrs now. She doesn't know that I know. My cousin was talking about it one day. The way she was talkin about it was like it wasn't a big thing. I never did understand how she can just tell me something like that about my mother and not have sympathy. I don't know what to do. sometimes I forget about it but than it's times where I want to turn to someone and talk about it. I have no one I can talk to about this. I wish I can just comfront her and let her know that I know. By looking at her you wouldn't even think she has it. She lives life like theres no tomorrow. what should I do. Should I tell her I know, or should I just wait until she feels she's ready to talk about it?

2007-03-12 03:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by Divine 2 in Family

he first proprosed me in the phone. he is good and talks well. i think i too like to talk to him. but recently i saw him for the first time.iam not so satisfied with his face &outlook.what should i do

2007-03-12 03:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are disappearing? Please give me your thoughts.

2007-03-12 03:09:05 · 16 answers · asked by Baby #1 born August 2009 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 03:09:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for over 1 year. I want to tell her I love her. I'm scared that if I do tell her, she might not say it back. I was originally planning for her to say it to me then I will say it. I'm also scared that if I wait too long and she never says it 1st, she might think I'm not in love with her and not interested with her even though I am in love with her. So, how can I tell her "I love you?"

2007-03-12 03:09:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should i do if me and my gf is always arguing, even with simple things, but i'm the one who is keeping my patience, and i dont want 2 leave her and i dont even want her 2 leave me, dis girl knows that she's kinda abusing me, but what should i say,to her that will not offend her???

2007-03-12 03:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for over 1 year. I want to tell her I love her. I'm scared that if I do tell her, she might not say it back. I was originally planning for her to say it to me then I will say it. I'm also scared that if I wait too long and she never says it 1st, she might think I'm not in love with her and not interested with her even though I am in love with her. So, how can I tell her "I love you?"

2007-03-12 03:08:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've had a best friend since i was 2 years old. my best friend and my spouse are drowning and i can save only one of them. who should i choose and why?

2007-03-12 03:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by Lawt 1 in Friends

Effects of having sex in a teenage relationship?
a guyfriend of mine had sex with his girlfriend. 22 weeks later he is talking about trying to have sex with a cheerleader. does he still like his girlfriend. does having sex make him bored of her?

2007-03-12 03:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

How to conquer insecurity?

I'm a pregnant sahm of 2, age 6 and 14 mnths. I am so lonely. I have been betrayed by family, and old friends. I hang out with only my husband. I have recently joined a moms group full of wonderful people. I enjoy myself, but what does it take to overcome that barrier and make REAL friends, past the barely know you phase. And why do I always assume people don't like me? Logically I know its not true, but this feeling holds me back.

2007-03-12 03:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for alittle less than a year. We just tried successfully to get pregnant. I noticed that my husband has been "browsing" online for other married women. He has not made contact with anyone but he has browsed. I don't know how to deal with the situation. I feel if I confront him then I lose any chance of finding out what his intentions are. Can anyone give any REAL advise?

2007-03-12 03:05:48 · 31 answers · asked by Kristy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always dreamed of being able to protect someone I love and stand up for them - and now I have the chance to do the same thing for this girl I love. However, I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. I do not know how is her feeling as we are speaking though.. But, there are rumours that she like another boy who is also after her.. But, I never saw him protecting her whenever his friend bullied her.

I feel so ashamed of myself. This morning, a class bully disturbed her but I did not have the gut to warn him. I am afraid of what others' opinions will be. I am afraid of gossips. I am afraid of everything.

Any advice for me? I am 15 by the way..

2007-03-12 03:05:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

=almost everyday, but now its hardly once a month or once in 2 months!!And this is after my initiation. i am unhappy and disatisfied I tried talking many times , but he has nothing to say. Always says he is too tired or sleepy. And even if im upset, he hardly asks me why or wants to know more. otherwise very loving and affectionate, he is a darling. he never seems to be bothered about our non existent sex life. What do i do?HELP!

2007-03-12 03:05:26 · 19 answers · asked by gorgeeous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The two of us are having marriage problems,and she wont admit to doing it?

2007-03-12 03:04:48 · 3 answers · asked by KIE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See i have been talking to this guy on the internet for over a year now he is in the national guard and right now they are over in Iraq well my thing is that when he gets to come home for a couple of weeks he wants me to come up to wisconsin to see him and well I was wondering if u think that long distance relationships work or not. I mean i live in North Carolina and he lives in Wisconsin. He wants me to move up there when he gets out of the military next year. I really do love him and he says that he loves me and that we can make it work but i don't know. Do u think it willl work or am i just wasting my time? I really do like him alot.

2007-03-12 03:04:23 · 21 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?

2007-03-12 03:04:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating