Effects of having sex in a teenage relationship?
a guyfriend of mine had sex with his girlfriend. 22 weeks later he is talking about trying to have sex with a cheerleader. does he still like his girlfriend. does having sex make him bored of her?
2007-03-12 03:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh its wonderfull give it a try you will be thrilled at how much fun it is . have your friends join in make it a group activity . think of all the money you will save not wasting time at mcdonalds and the movies no sir sex sex sex is great all the time .
2007-03-12 10:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys at that age aren't too sure (ok, not sure at all) of what they really want in life, let alone in a life-long relationship. For that matter, neither do most girls. So basically, the actual chances of somebody you are dating in High School being your eventual life-long spouse is pretty small. Most teens don't want to hear it that way but it's true.
With that said, most guys DO KNOW what they are looking for in a short-term relationship - sex. That's really it. They might go out with you and have fun, but really they want sex. So once they get it, they will take advantage for as long as possible while looking for the next person they want to have sex with. So yeah, the guy gets "bored". And yeah, it can "ruin" a relationship because the girl will usually have feelings for the guy well beyond sexual and when the guy leave, she feels used and depressed.
My best advice: don't bother with the sex. Seriously. See if he really wants YOU by telling him "no sex" and sticking to it. If he stays until marriage, you found your mate! Congratulations. If he leaves, then you were able to figure out what he was really after without having to "give yourself up" to him!
I hope this helps. Tell your friend she should re-evaluate her relationship with him and offer to go without sex for an extended time. It will either make him leave (and then she'll know what he wanted) or stay (and than she'll know he wants her). Be blessed!
2007-03-12 10:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Dad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex always complicates relationships whether it be with a boyfriend/girlfriend or best friends. After having sex with my best friend for the first time our relationship was very strained but we were able to work through it and get back to how we were. Now we're in a very committed relationship. Granted, we've been friends for years and best friends for over two years and we're passed the high school years (even though there is an age diff between us; he's younger).
It's hard enough to be in a sexually satisfying relationship as an adult, let alone as a teenager.
Your friend is stuck in a 'pleasure' rutt and needs to understand that girls are not there for his enjoyment either. They are human beings with feelings and having sex is extremely intruding for a female. He needs to learn to respect them before he has sex with them.
2007-03-12 10:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does change things. It seems he is trying to play the field and not be serious. It’s hard to have a serious relationship when you’re young. He may still like his girlfriend but he still wants to have fun with other girls LOL… That’s completely natural. :)
2007-03-12 10:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by mizzmaya79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ure friend is miserable...sex sure ruins teenage relations...and i agree with ure conclusions about ure friend....i beg of u not in the least bit to be influenced by him...never do sumthing that u feel is wrong,whatever the consequence is..
good luck with ure life
2007-03-12 10:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by lilmissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like 4 different levels of dawg.
2007-03-12 10:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋