In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-12 03:04:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I support you 1000% for what you did. The people who tell you it's wrong obviously don't understand what it's like to go through high school teased, bullied and harrassed and the residual anger that some live with for years after. What comes around goes around I say and anything they get they deserve.
For all of those guys who were rejected and teased by the popular girls in high school and then gets revenge by not only becoming something they thought you'd never become but by treating them the way they treated you, you are saluted as a hero.
You have taken back some amount of pride that they took from you in high school! There are many guys out there who would love to get that opportunity but most won't even come close. For those who don't they will live vicariously through guys like you.
Whatever you do and no matter how big or popular you may become never forget where you came from, who your friends were and what you came through to be who you are today.
2007-03-12 03:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No man, you blew it. You just showed them that they meant a lot to you, even though you meant nothing to them. If they didn't do much to you, holding a grudge for years just shows that you haven't grown up. If they did a lot to you, a few words are hardly revenge.
Revenge is overrated, and mean as they were, apparently they helped you with their insults. You decided to take care of the fat and nerdy problems, and have grown some since school. You could have talked with them, and found out what changes they made since school--maybe they aren't clueless mean gossip queens anymore! You could have ignored them, and made them wonder how they didn't notice you before. You could have talked nicely to a cheerleaderish hottie, and used her to make you look good in front of an interesting woman (I mean, if she used to be jealous of them too, and then you pick her over them, you get many points).
Ah, well, you'll do better next time I'm sure.
2007-03-12 03:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aaahhh... sweet revenge. Yes, revenge is a dish best served cold!
I can totally understand where you are coming from, having myself been a nerd in high-school and then "blossoming" afterwards. And yes, I did the same thing you are doing.
Just don't play them too much, if they reeeeaallly want you saying "no" would be revenge enough. Karma has a bad way of biting you on the butt if you take things too far.
Oh... and find the phone book and look up the nerdiest girl from school... she might be a total babe now!
2007-03-12 03:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea, it's revenge, but since you're asking, I suspect that it didn't make you feel as good as you though it would. I suspect you gained some maturity while you were away at college as well...
I'm not saying that you should have dated the ones that treated you bad, but revenge isn't always all that it's cracked up to be.
2007-03-12 03:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Winger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well.
Personally, I think it is a little petty that you went out of your way to reject and insult those girls who teased you.
You shouldn't have even bothered about them and considered them beneath your notice seeing as they are mean nasty people.
However, your actions just demonstrate that you are just the same as the mean and nasty people that you dislike.
2007-03-12 03:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that two wrongs don't make a right. And while high school kids can be cruel, you are now an adult - try showing a little restraint. Politely declining their invitations will be justice enough. If you continue to be ugly in your behavior, you aren't hurting them at all - who wants an ugly man? Looks fade, but what's really inside is what's important.
2007-03-12 03:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get revenge. It will put you on the same level as them. Take the high road. Be nice and polite. It will make you look good.
2007-03-12 03:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say so! Give them a taste of their own medicine. See if they like it. Might open their eyes to see that insulting hurts. And maybe they wont do it again, to anyone.
2007-03-12 03:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by ?Dodger1125 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it truly is termed being a jerk!!! im sorry i cant simpathy with ur "revenge movements" because u didnt like it at the same time as they teased u, so why may u be a jerk to them? did it experience sturdy at the same time as they rejected u?? do u imagine that they experience sturdy about it too? i dont imagine so. i imagine that s being a jerk. and u r being too inmature, bear in options, that replaced into in severe college, adn maximum young ones in undemanding words care about seems at that age. they were youthful, they didnt evaluate human beings for his or her capacities, yet for his or her look. they in undemanding words had to maintain their social status up in severe college, and probably felt embarassed by ability of being seen with a nerd. and back THEY were basically young ones!!! young ones are f*cking stupid. yet YOU, u r grown up, what replaced into the reason to lead them to experience undesirable??? in my view, u ought to bypass as a lot as them and appologize, tell them that it truly struck u how badly they dealt with u in severe college, and at the same time as u said them those options got here back, and that u r sorry for being a jerk. bear in options, it wasnt humorous at the same time as human beings made exciting of u. so dont be a jerk to others, in spite of in the journey that they dealt with u that way.
2016-12-01 21:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just go out with someone else...show them that you are happy. you don't have to prove anything to them...you have pretty much already done that! you can be nice but, don't flirt with them. show them that they are not worth your time...and that you don't like shallow girls!
2007-03-12 03:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋