I have always dreamed of being able to protect someone I love and stand up for them - and now I have the chance to do the same thing for this girl I love. However, I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. I do not know how is her feeling as we are speaking though.. But, there are rumours that she like another boy who is also after her.. But, I never saw him protecting her whenever his friend bullied her.
I feel so ashamed of myself. This morning, a class bully disturbed her but I did not have the gut to warn him. I am afraid of what others' opinions will be. I am afraid of gossips. I am afraid of everything.
Any advice for me? I am 15 by the way..
2007-03-12 03:05:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are quite young and there will come a time in your future when you will have the opportunity to protect someone you love, even if it is not this girl. Wish you were my son so that i can personally hug you and tell you that it is alright of feel protective towards the female sex. I know your parents are proud of you.
Please do not be ashamed and afraid. Whatever you do in life you will not be able to please everybody so do not let opinions bother you too much and people will always gossip, those persons are to be ignored as they are usually very insecure and probably more afraid than you.
2007-03-12 03:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by ann t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright well do u still talk 2 her? You should just try 2 be friends and then u can see what happens. You shouldnt be worring about the other kids especially the ones that gossip there stupid and they dont got a life thats why they gossip cause they like 2 feel like there part of someone elses life. so just also if u want just talk 2 her. tell her how u feel.
2007-03-12 03:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by teresasalazar_95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw. you are such a sweet guy. yes, anyone would love it when someone would stand up for them. it is a really kind act, and it shows that you stand up for what you believe is right. i'm very sorry she doesn't feel the same way you do. but it is her choice who to like. it is her loss to not be able to see how great a guy you are. even though she doesn't like you back, you should always, always stand up for anyone who is being bullied. so yes, please keep standing up for other people. there is nothing to be afraid of. the world needs more people like you. btw, i'm also 15. i am very impressed that a 15-year-old guy has the desire to protect someone he loves already=)
2007-03-12 03:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by heartiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll you can be afraid for the rest of your life or you can take a chance. try to get the girl or sit by helpless, hmmm which one looks better....don't worry about what people say. i am 15 too and everyone calls me a slut but i am not jsut my friends.be warned however that things don't always work out the way you want.
2007-03-12 03:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to feel good about yourself. I was in the same boat and never wanted to be different and was afraid of what others would think about me. You need to think enough about yourself to do what you think is right. I wasted a lot of time being afraid. Whatever you do, take care of yourself.
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2016-10-18 04:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by lipton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m 26 , i remember i hav dream when i was 7 yr old ,i hit a guy bcz he bullied my gf. the dream keep on till i was 22yrs old. finally i get the chance to protect my girl only friend but she never fall for me but we become good friends. my advise , do wat ever u can b4 its too late if u think is worth doin it just do it or u will regret for the of ur life for not doin it . don't do it bcz u wan soemthin back but bcz u wan to do it for protecting ur loved one so bless u my friend.(btw i did't hit that guy i just push him aside n rescue her i put up my hands so that the guy cannot go any further then my job is done)
2007-03-12 03:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear is natural, but you need to do the right thing. Stand up for her. Bullies count on people not doing the right thing.
2007-03-12 03:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute!!! 1st of all, know that you may do this, and it may change nothing. Or it may change everything. You never know. So if you decide to do this, make sure its what you want to do, DONT be scared, and do not be sad if it doesnt work as planned.
Good Luck no matter what you do!
2007-03-12 03:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by yako2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid or else you won't be able to stand up!! Be courageous, because a girl will love a guy that stands up to her and she will definetely choose you over th eother guy!!
2007-03-12 03:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋