Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

im 13 (same witht he kid i like) and he told my best friend he drinks and smokes. he claims its because of the town he lives in no one else knows except me my bf and 1 of his friends. he doesnt even know i know. so now what is it ok for me to still like him? im so confused what do i do now

2007-03-12 11:04:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married 3 weeks after my baby is due.He is getting married in a strange town where we don't know anyone. They said no kids under 18 were allowed. I express my concern about leaving a new baby w/a stranger and I didn't feel I would want to go to the wedding if my baby could not come. During that same conversation the fiance said she wanted us there and me in the wedding.

Skip ahead a month and I haven't gotten a call from them only emails asking me my dress size. So I sent them a friendly email saying my husband and I would like to speak w/them, not only about the baby issue but they have not talked to us in months and she blames me for things I haven't even done, before we commit to being in the wedding & paying $1000.

I just got an email from her saying they do not want the baby there and I should leave it with a sitter because they are paying $600 for a video. Is that the cost of family? I don't want to be in the wedding. But want to watch. Advice pls

2007-03-12 11:04:27 · 37 answers · asked by Ambre B 3 in Weddings

i need someone do to help me please,its a long long srory.but the bottom line is that just over a year ago i ws given 6 to 18 months to live,so i left the uk and came to asia to die,but im still here but i have lost the ower of speech,i would like just one person to phone the person i love and miss so very much.
there are just things i feel i want to say to her,this is no joke this is from my heart,if i give my msn name i will be on line now.it is changnoione at hotmail co uk..............this is my last throw of the dice,thanks people.

2007-03-12 11:04:25 · 6 answers · asked by john boy -1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Marital Status Definitions

2007-03-12 11:04:14 · 10 answers · asked by Alfie Martin 1 in Singles & Dating

which do you prefer and why?

which are the best to get lost in?

which are the best to stare into deeply and passionately?

....

2007-03-12 11:04:14 · 10 answers · asked by the nice girl 23 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:02:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just so unhappy with him. i tried telling him but he says to me that he wont leave and wont sign etc but i want out and have for a number of years but he wont listen to me

2007-03-12 11:02:18 · 19 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not looking for a relationship of any kind right now in my life. I work full time and go to school. But I like to make new friends and I can be a bit of a tomboy so I usually have guy friends. For some reason whenever I tell a guy that I don’t want a boyfriend they act real cool for a while then they start to get weird and stop talking to me. When I ask them why they quit talking to me they always say it was because they thought that I wanted a relationship and they didn’t want me to get the wrong idea.

I am very confused by this and I have analyzed my behavior over and over to see if I was doing something nonverbal that made them think I wanted something more and I can’t figure it out. I don’t get “touchy feely” … I just don’t flirt period. I act like one of the guys. This has happened to me more than once. Are guys opposed to having friends that are girls? Or am I really giving them bedroom eyes and I don’t know it.

Has this happened to anyone else? What should I do?!?!

2007-03-12 11:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by DeeDee 4 in Singles & Dating

yet people say that you cannot make yourself love someone? I dont get it?

2007-03-12 11:01:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to find out the history about my partner, and whether he's been in trouble before as he's shady about his past and there something about him, he says there nothing, he was in the army. what site do i go on? preferably free.

2007-03-12 11:01:40 · 9 answers · asked by white_funny_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

she will come in middle of my study with her 4 kids in very busy time at the university. what do you do...?

2007-03-12 11:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went to my JROTC military ball on sat. i thought i would be alone all night as i usually am. but i danced with someone. but it wasn't just one dance, it was almost all night. my question is, do i ask this person out or should i forget it? i have some feelings for her considering she's the only one to do so. i have her in one of my classes, so i see her everyday. it would just be nice to know if would be wise to do something. thanks

2007-03-12 11:00:43 · 19 answers · asked by Brutus 2 in Singles & Dating

its affecting my school work and my behavior and i don't know what to do

2007-03-12 11:00:03 · 8 answers · asked by Brittanie C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats The Best Way To Break The Ice Between Two People

2007-03-12 10:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by THE ROUNDEST KNIGHT OF THE TABLE 1 in Singles & Dating

my cousin made out with me in the hotub, shes 16, shes a step cousin so its not blood related but still. is it okay?

2007-03-12 10:59:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats The Best Way To Break The Ice Between Two People

2007-03-12 10:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by THE ROUNDEST KNIGHT OF THE TABLE 1 in Singles & Dating

in only 3 weeks, i still think i have a shot at getting her back. i asked if she wants to go to the dance coming up, even if only as friends, she still has yet to get back (i left a message) but i want to know if any of you have lost someone that was the reason the weekend was more boring than the school week, just so you could see them for maybe 10 minutes a day, i cant focus it seems and i need to know if i can do anything to get her back

2007-03-12 10:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by supratuner9 4 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but i don't think she likes me. She is really nice and i have a lot of fun with her. I'm to scared to ask her out unless i know she likes me. i need tips on how to know if she likes me without asking her.

2007-03-12 10:58:10 · 1 answers · asked by Fins 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been cutting myself. All of my friends got pissed at me except one of them...he didn't get mad he told my school guidence counsler and I got baker acted for it. (Put in a mental hospital). I have been getting better...I haven't cut as much! Some of my friends are talking to me now but now everyone at schol is calling me an emo *****! It's really hard 2 stop cutting but I'm trying...what do I do???

2007-03-12 10:57:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's smokin hot....we were definitely feeling the vibes....

2007-03-12 10:57:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what do people consider common law marriage to be?
I think I have a clue as to what it is but im not sure
just curious

2007-03-12 10:57:03 · 17 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many men out there are actually really looking forward to getting married and settling down with a woman? Really you know your one and only forever and no-one else
Just interested to see if women have us all wrong

2007-03-12 10:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have problems with my boyfriend everytime we go out or something im always arguing with him telling him why he looks at other girls and stuff he tells me hes not looking at no one and if he is he says its normal who in here things its normal ? i mean he tells me he loves me he has changed somewhat but still i cant help my problem can anyone help i really want my relationship with my honey to last longer than 3 years

2007-03-12 10:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by Magz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a new cook. i makes meatloaf, pot roast with onions, and smothered chicken. anyway i think it's pretty good. but will men tell me if he don't like my cooking? i'm nervous to cook for dates cuz i wanna kno if they don't like it.....most men gonna tell me the truth or not?

2007-03-12 10:56:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 10:55:29 · 10 answers · asked by NOT USING Y!A ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!! 5 in Singles & Dating

That I am married and in the process of getting divorced
how do you tell them?

2007-03-12 10:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sons are young...not having a gf yet, though theyve gotten a couples of crushes here or there. but, apparently, some of you kids get together....what do you do? do your parents drive you around on chaparoned dates or ??

2007-03-12 10:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have aways liked or maybe even more my bestfriend since age 5 and i am 16 now. he moved away 2 years ago and that was hard. recently he asked me if i liked him. but i chickened out and avioded the question. but deep down i really wanna tell him but i don't want our realtionship to change for the worst.
what do you think i should do and how? i really need some how.

2007-03-12 10:55:13 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I was talking to a married friend of mine, and she said that oftentimes, the men we deem as "ideal" often aren't the types of men we need when it comes to marriage. She said that in her experience as well as the experiences of other married female friends, the men they ended up marrying weren't the types of men they would have normally dated when they were younger. How true/accurate is this?

2007-03-12 10:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 10:54:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating