Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

i.e. He's more conservative, and I'm more liberal.

2007-03-12 10:53:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I sent him a message that said, just been wondering all day.................... say if you did dump your girlfriend, would you go out with me by any chance? He sent back, I dont really want to get into relationship right now, i think you're really cool, but i think i just want to be single for a little while. He just broke up with his girlfriend so i would understand that he wouldn't want to get his heart broken again. When do you think that he will want to go out with me? Remember, me and him have gone out in the past.

2007-03-12 10:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have a mexican girl 23 years old that has been working for us for the past year. she speaks no english at all. she works 11 hours a day and is the only mexican there along with my mom and cousin. i try to converse with her to keep her from being bored but conversation is somewhat difficult. i know some spanish because i took 3 years in high school. we had some decent conversations before and i try to talk to her everyday. she only speaks when i talk to her and never talks to me. if i dont speak to her the whole day she will not talk to me. she is not a shy person. when i stand next to her it feels awkard like she is uncomfortable when im close. should i just stop trying to speak to her.

2007-03-12 10:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mos Def 1 in Singles & Dating

I went on a vacation a few weeks back. I wanted to go with my wife but she didn't want to go. She told me to go by myself. I went for 7 days. I helped her with some of her office assignments for her work and when I didn't know how to do one particular thing she flew off the handle and screamed at me that I should read the textbook because it was made for idiots like me. We've been married now for 7 years, but she never (NEVER!) brings up the subject of having kids, unless I start to talk about it first, at which point she uncovers a flaw in myself and points to it as why I'm not suitable for having kids. I'm employed, have a degree, and I'm a sweet and kind gentleman. Bit ugly but sweet and kind. When she gets some time off, she's off with her friends, Never with me. Now she's talking real quiet with her guy-friends, like she's hiding something. I was resting on the rug the other day when she came up and kicked me in the back, like I was a football or something. What gives?

2007-03-12 10:52:50 · 15 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please tell me why this is. Is there a certain type of white woman that black men are attracted to?

2007-03-12 10:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by Rebecca F 2 in Singles & Dating

he lived with me for 6 months and left because of fights

i really love him and i have an anger problem

i know he still cares for me

he states that he thinks we should not do this anymore and he cant keep going through this

he has left several times and came back

2007-03-12 10:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by YOLANDA W 2 in Singles & Dating

She deleted the question, but I still have it, so discuss:
If I divorce my husband do I get to keep the house?

I have been married to my husband for 6 months and I want to get divorced.

Before I was married to him he already had the house that we are currently living in. It was passed down to him from his parents and he owns the house. If I am married to him does that mean I also own the house? Or is it 50/50? If it is 50/50, does that mean I could choose to sell the house if we divorce, and would I get half of what it’s worth? I would prefer it if he moved out and keep the house, so will I be able to do that even if he owns the house or do I also own the house since we are married?
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Okay, some people are telling me I won't get it and others are telling me I will get half of what it's worth. But what if he says he doesn't want to sell? What happens then?

Basically, I don't want to keep him, but want to keep the house. I know it sounds selfish, but I

2007-03-12 10:52:16 · 15 answers · asked by camys_daddy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

he lived with me for 6 months and left because of fights

i really love him and i have an anger problem

i know he still cares for me

he states that he thinks we should not do this anymore and he cant keep going through this

he has left several times and came back

2007-03-12 10:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by YOLANDA W 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, where do I start? Ah, how about Valentine's Day. Well, our school has these things called Valograms where you can buy a valentine for your crush. My brother told me his friend, let's just say his name is... uh, Charlie, liked me a long time before the valogram thing but I ignored it because I did not like him that way. Anywayz, a couple of my friends told me that I had a secret admirer because they saw him sign up during lunch for me to recieve a Valogram. I knew it was Charlie. So, I asked my brother if Charlie bought a valogram for me and he said yes. And to top that off, I have 8th period with Charlie! Well, the day before Valentine's Day, which is also the day they were gonna hand out the Valograms, Charlie stopped me and told me that he knew that I knew about the Valogram. Ever since, he's been smiling at me and talking to me. I told him I just wanted to be friends, and he said ok. But, he still is liking me. What should I do?!

2007-03-12 10:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girl friend is so nice so beautiful how can i have complement to her

2007-03-12 10:51:48 · 2 answers · asked by sagoo k 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend met and started dating when we were 15. We are now 17. When we met she had a boyfriend who treated her badly and i basically "stole" her away, although she was planning on breaking up with him. We've been together ever since. We love eachother alot and have a very mature relationship. We were eachothers first for everything (except making out). We've gotten into fights and have said it was over, only to wind up back together the next day. She is very respectable (save it untill marrage type girl). She views fooling around with a guy as very special and wouldn't unless she was with the guy for awhile. She has said that she wants to have sex with me, and is unsure she can hold herself back, because she loves me so much and wants me to be her first. I respect her and i don't mind waiting for her. I know she would not leave me because she was curious, shes not like that. Is it possible i found the girl im going to be with forever? Do you older people think this is love

2007-03-12 10:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... Im a freshman in High School and I really want to make the most out of my years and REALLY enjoy myself. The problem is, I have quite a few 'friends' but no really good friends. I feel lonely and i never get invited anywhere or have people to talk to. I have never been asked out and just really want to have a good time these four years. Can anyone give me ideas of how I can feel better about my high school experience. I am #1 in my class for ranking so a lot of kids just think of me as being smart, so that's a handicap for me as well. I am also recovering from anorexia currently and don't know if that is holding kids back too. I just really need your help and advice please!!

2007-03-12 10:51:32 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetie 4 in Friends

IM going to have my sweet quince[15] & I really like this guy,& he was my partner for my couzin's "15",so my other cuzin asked him that I wanted him to be my main chambelan for my party,but then he said that who would be his partner,but since im not having damas only guys,he said that if he's the main one that he might not come out=| What can I do to try & convince him to be my chambelan for my party?Help,because if he's not coming out,my party's ruined!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-12 10:51:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you ever flirted with some girl just to make friends with her?
Why do people think that when you flirt with a girl you just want to have sex with her???

2007-03-12 10:51:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 22-yr-old diabetic sister has had some problems in her past with drugs, mainly because of her bad choice in friends. She moved out of state w/a friend last yr for about 6 mos & no one knew where she was/how she was doing - she even ended up in the hospital for a week & no one found out till days later. 5 mos ago, she moved into my house with me - I have a 3 bdrm house & live alone, so it just made sense b/c my mom lives out of state & my dad just got remarried & the new wife doesn't want a houseguest. Anyway, since my sister's been back, she got a minimum wage job & is much healthier than she was in Oct., but she doesn't respect my house, doesn't clean up after herself & gets mad when I point out her messes, she eats everything, and there's no indication that she plans on moving out any time soon. I don't want her back 'on the street', but I'm not sure how much longer I can put up with this. Should I let it slide & be happy she's healthy, or should I send her packing?

2007-03-12 10:50:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

than average & ugly girls ....

yes...yes I know that beauty is in the eye of beerholder ha ha ha

All I want is your honesty in answering this question ....


Thanks,

Remember, honesty is a virtue!

2007-03-12 10:50:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met on yahoo, found out basically she used me so she wouldn't be bored, basically was a trophy for her, caught other men , married men, texting her, telling her they were in love with her! Confronted her and she just denied it and said only were "good friends" sorry , been around the block enough times, to know only reason a married man would tell a single women he was in love with her, one he was getting some "tail' or two, was hoping to get some "tail" So beware men, lookout for a single female, 40, in Aurora Colorado, she's a "vampire"
She's a user, got alot of free work out of me, great Christmas presents foe her and her daughter, two months later, decided we were too " different" and couldn't be, now,literally two weeks later, she is on the prowl again, same bait, just altered a bit different, yeah, she really loved me, loved my you know what in the sack and all over the house, but once bored, looking for a new toy now...

Avoid her like the plaugue!

2007-03-12 10:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by blythkd 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 10:49:42 · 2 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of taking my son to a metallica concert in Belgium (we live in Germany). Any thoughts from other parents? He loves Metallica.

2007-03-12 10:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by stewsclues 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-12 10:48:23 · 5 answers · asked by brahms41 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I wanted to talk to my BF and he has a myspace but I dont, so I got on my brothers so I could talk to him. I guess maybe i shouldnt have said "Why dont you talk to me online? am I not good enough?" Hes said to me before that he feels like I'm spying on him by looking at his myspace. I understand he wants to talk to his friends too, but I really wanted to talk to him. I just dont understand because he was the one who taught me to message on myspace and now hes mad at me. He admitted he was frustrated because I wanted to talk to him. What did I do wrong and what should I do?

2007-03-12 10:48:06 · 14 answers · asked by axelflame8 2 in Friends

With my old college buddies for some drinks or hang out with my boyfriend for a quiet dinner and movie

2007-03-12 10:47:49 · 8 answers · asked by kate_ryan13 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 10:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by XoXo Cuppycake XoXo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 10:47:32 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it weird for a girl to ask a guy out? I really to go want this guy, I don't know what i should do! HELP!!

2007-03-12 10:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Tiffany 3 in Singles & Dating

Please help me I've gotten a few of useful answers but not alot of people have answered my question.
But anyways there is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!

2007-03-12 10:46:48 · 19 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this is in the wrong section but i wanted to get some answers, adn i know alot of girls go to this catagory!
cheer try outs are april 6th and i dont know if i am ready!! i have been trying to get my backhandspring since i didnt make it last year(i can throw it). this is so important to me i get butterflies when i think about it! any advice would make me super happy!! i have never cheered in my life but i did the clinic last year and i like to be a flier. (i am not scared) I watch the girls at the cheer gym where i tumble and my best freind is a cheer leader there. i have tried to have her help but she is not a very good coach. lol love her though. I know basically the jumps, and the positions or whatever i just.....i dont know. well thank you guys for any help!!!

2007-03-12 10:46:37 · 4 answers · asked by summer girl 3 in Singles & Dating

will other people think it was becuase you werent good at pleasing him or that he was a jerk?

same for a guy, if a girl cheated on a guy is it becuase he wasent good?

i just dont want to tell my next relationship i was cheated on and have him think im not good

what is your opinion

2007-03-12 10:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something really special but I can't think of anything unique? My wedding will be semi-formal. Please help

2007-03-12 10:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by Nellie 2 in Weddings

I don't even think she realizes how bad her alcoholism is. She gets drunk daily and phones everyone she knows, slurring her words. She seems so angry at everyone and everything. Anyone with advice that has a similair situation with a friend or family member. I'm sick with worry too.

2007-03-12 10:45:27 · 23 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Family