Ok, where do I start? Ah, how about Valentine's Day. Well, our school has these things called Valograms where you can buy a valentine for your crush. My brother told me his friend, let's just say his name is... uh, Charlie, liked me a long time before the valogram thing but I ignored it because I did not like him that way. Anywayz, a couple of my friends told me that I had a secret admirer because they saw him sign up during lunch for me to recieve a Valogram. I knew it was Charlie. So, I asked my brother if Charlie bought a valogram for me and he said yes. And to top that off, I have 8th period with Charlie! Well, the day before Valentine's Day, which is also the day they were gonna hand out the Valograms, Charlie stopped me and told me that he knew that I knew about the Valogram. Ever since, he's been smiling at me and talking to me. I told him I just wanted to be friends, and he said ok. But, he still is liking me. What should I do?!
2007-03-12 10:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, yeah and Charlie also gave me at least three valentines on Valentine's day. Now, he bought a Valogram, which is a dollar, and a chocolate bar which makes two dollars. I feel so bad when I try to be his friend but at the sam etime ignore him. All answers are appreciated and their will be a reward!
Thanks,
XOXO,
♥♠Tokyo♠♥
2007-03-12 10:54:39 · update #1
Oh, he is a nice guy, just simply no way I see us together. I have remained friends with him, but he seems to like me more and more after telling him I don't like him and that I just want to be friends. Just to clear that out ♥
2007-03-12 11:00:22 · update #2
That's hard. It sucks for anyone .. if they really like someone and they don't like you back. But what can hurt even more is not telling them the truth (in a nice way) then for them to get false beliefs such as maybe you do like him. Explain to him in the nicest way possible that you just want to be friends!*Goodluck sweetie♥
2007-03-12 10:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's sweet!! I think you did the right thing by telling him you just want to be friends. But be honest with him tell him that you appreciate all the gifts but you feel like he's coming on you to hard. To please give you some space. You can't stop him from liking you though.
2007-03-12 18:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guy or not, but if you don't like him you don't like him.
Just tell him you really appreciate the gifts, but you just want to be friends.
If worse comes to worse, tell him you just couldn't date your brothers friends.
Don't let him keep buying you things.
2007-03-12 17:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a nice guy.
2007-03-12 17:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady's, true or false, a swift kick in the groin always works, does it not?
2007-03-12 17:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me the only solution is talking to him personally and tell him you're not interested, that you just wanna be friends... good luck!
2007-03-12 17:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i had the same problem... i just sat him down and told him wow... you are blind i like you... as a friend nothing more... please just like me the same way i like you... if all goes well you will be just friends in no time
2007-03-12 17:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋