Me and my girlfriend met and started dating when we were 15. We are now 17. When we met she had a boyfriend who treated her badly and i basically "stole" her away, although she was planning on breaking up with him. We've been together ever since. We love eachother alot and have a very mature relationship. We were eachothers first for everything (except making out). We've gotten into fights and have said it was over, only to wind up back together the next day. She is very respectable (save it untill marrage type girl). She views fooling around with a guy as very special and wouldn't unless she was with the guy for awhile. She has said that she wants to have sex with me, and is unsure she can hold herself back, because she loves me so much and wants me to be her first. I respect her and i don't mind waiting for her. I know she would not leave me because she was curious, shes not like that. Is it possible i found the girl im going to be with forever? Do you older people think this is love
2007-03-12 10:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i doubt you found your soul mate, you are only 17
2007-03-12 10:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if by finding ur soulmate u mean marrying her, than i would say NO. ppl marry not when they are with the right person but when the time is right. As bad as that may sound.
any relationship that starts of that early is doomed from the start even if the two ppl seem good for each other. ppl grow a lot and change and will want to expereince new things. i was in a 4 yr realtionship that started ou when i was 15.
my best advice is have fun with this girl ( i am not talking about sex) respect her, enjoy her comapny but try not to take it tooo serious as in thinking about life long commitment and stuff like that.getting committed at such a pung age will probably hurt both of u in the long run.
and about ur last question; as an adult myself yes i think this is love.
2007-03-12 11:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read your story. You say that you get in fights and say it's over but are back together the next day. That does not sound like a "very mature relationship" to me.
I don't think it's impossible for a 17 year old to be in love. But you would know.
2007-03-12 11:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
expensive, Im sixteen aswell and that i think of i got here across my soulmate, yet regrettably he's happy with yet another one. Soulmates won't be mutually now, yet while 2 anybody is made for the different, they would be mutually no count what, possibly no longer now,yet interior the destiny
2016-10-18 05:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by dudik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur barely 17 and no. YOu never know that u might meet some other grl later on and u finally say that's her. And about the whole sex thing, u have to wait. U got ur whole life ahead of u 2 to think about that.
2007-03-12 10:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it could be a possiblity but remember there are other people out there and u might decide u want to get to know other girls.but if u feel that u cant live or be without her then yes i think u might have found ur true love.=)
2007-03-12 10:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps not, you're only 17 you still have loads of time to find your soul mate but she cud be
2007-03-12 10:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by mebh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a little while longer, you're still young. There's many more possibilities in your life.
2007-03-12 10:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait cause you dont hold the future andyou cant tell what will happen to each of you it is sweet that you relatioship gone that far but youre young and you will not know what will happen
2007-03-12 11:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by candy_cola11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋