will other people think it was becuase you werent good at pleasing him or that he was a jerk?
same for a guy, if a girl cheated on a guy is it becuase he wasent good?
i just dont want to tell my next relationship i was cheated on and have him think im not good
what is your opinion
2007-03-12 10:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your to self conscious, people cheat for different reasons not just cause the sex was bad, it could be an emotional thing or he/she just wanted to experiment.
2007-03-12 10:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by juggalohomie6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it says more about the person who did the actual cheating, than the person that was cheated on.
They made a commitment, as bf/gf or even more, and they couldn't hold to that commitment. I would be more afraid of being in a relationship with someone that I knew was able to cheat, than someone who was cheated on.
When you have been cheated on like that, you know how it feels, and you are less likely to go that route.
2007-03-12 17:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok from personal expeirence that happened to be from both ends it is never good and like people told you above so i will repeat it is never good to talk about your past, especially of that kind. People are funny creatures and they get easily convinced in something that there is isnt or at least wasnt essential for them. So basically by telllin your new bf that you was cheated on before or you was disrespected before you set him and yourself for a failure. At some point and trust me i been thought this, you would think of why this guy was doing her so bad? Why? Hmmm Maybe there was a reason behind it? Let me look into it harder, let me pay attention to it and maybe and just maybe i wont be cool with it either and will have to eventually break up with her for a same reason. Trust me whether conscious or unconscious but it will happen one way or another. It is almost like a natural reflex. So you might want to stay quiet about some kind of past like that. Trust me if you say he broke up with you because he though your ears look funny then you may make your new guy look at them harder and actually see that something is funny about them, when all along before that it never bothered him and never even would of noticed it if unless you never happened to mention about it. Its like you inquire your new partner to look into your defects that may be beautiful to him to that matter. It is like someone broken glass is others treasure or however that saying goes. But pretty much same point.
And to fulfill my answer i have to add....it happens other way around. If you want to experiment then ask your man why he was cheated on before or why someone broke up with him for? And see how one day you will start noticing that and it will eventually turn you off from him. Its like two way street.
2007-03-12 18:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I never share what happened in a previous relationship because it shows that your still hung up on the past. I find it best not to touch the topic.
2007-03-12 17:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater will cheat no matter what they love to have the best of both world if they can get away with it .
2007-03-12 17:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably would not want to tell ne one that because it would make then feel all sorry for you and think maybe think there was a reason he cheated
2007-03-12 17:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋