he lived with me for 6 months and left because of fights
i really love him and i have an anger problem
i know he still cares for me
he states that he thinks we should not do this anymore and he cant keep going through this
he has left several times and came back
2007-03-12 10:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by YOLANDA W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some medication to calm you down and be nice to him.
2007-03-12 10:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Heads up! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a good start would be to apologize.
You probably should also gey counceling to get help for your anger problems and keep this type of fight from occuring as often in the future.
I can't guarantee this will get him back, but if he really loved you, he would help you through your hard times, and if he doesn't, he's not worth your time.
2007-03-12 10:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He comes back hoping it will change for the better. Excessive fighting is not healthy for a relationship. He cares for you Im sure. But, if you'll notice, you answered your own question....
"he states that he thinks we should not do this anymore and he cant keep going through this "
You have to work on a solution for that. Thats his problem, his delimma. Now ask yourself what you plan to do about it before you try to get him back.
2007-03-12 11:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by angelofdeath0101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to fix your anger problem first. You could take some anger management classes. Then you could approach your boyfriend and tell him you want him back and that you are taking A.M classes. That way, he'll know you really care for him and are trying to make things work.
2007-03-12 10:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lose.
Get your anger under control, and then approach
him with some concrete evidence that you have
changed.
Otherwise, this isn't much different than a guy battering
his woman and than apologizing and saying he'll
be better next time.
I'm not saying that it is as bad as battery, but the
"I'll be better now" just isn't very credible.
2007-03-12 10:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is you need to work yourself first..if you mention here that you have some sort of problem..."just like me"..lol
make sure before you get back w/ him promise yourself that you will avoid doing staft that make you guys fight...cuz iwas like that too...i always start a fight even there no reason...trust me i will find a reason to start a fight...which is no good in a relationship...
also before you get back with him learn what you really want in a relationship...plus dont think negative.....control yourself...
good luck
2007-03-12 11:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're the problem.
Have you talked to your doctor about anger management?
2007-03-12 10:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by m k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anger management. If you really love him (and yourself) you'll want to change that ugly habit.
2007-03-12 10:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ruthie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh for gods sakes just let the man live his life ! Move on !
2007-03-12 10:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to decide to come back; you cannot "get" him back. Honestly - I agree with him. The leaving/coming back thing does not work in the long run
2007-03-12 10:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋