Please help me I've gotten a few of useful answers but not alot of people have answered my question.
But anyways there is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!
2007-03-12 10:46:48 · 19 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whew! You really scared me for a minute. Well, I'm glad you're not gay. Well, if he does go out with you now, then what if he likes her. Will he end up dumping you for the new girl? He probably won't go for her, though. I'd never go for a new girl. She might turn out to be popular:( or might be a geek:), but I think you should go for him. You already know he likes you, so what's stopping you. First thing tomorrow you need to ask him. Heck, he's probably crying over you right now.
2007-03-12 10:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes a very good friend or your parents to like you 'no matter what'. People aren't so forgiving. It sounds like you will have to make the first step this time. You can tell him you are sorry you were busy when he asked about getting together previously - but you are free this weekend, would he like to get together & hang out at the park or whatever you are into. Remember if you ask, you pay so be prepared.
About the new girl - if you start to see this guy & he drops you because of a new pretty girl he wasn't worth having to begin with.
2007-03-12 10:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad truth is: you don't know. At least not for sure. But if you're worried about this so-called "real pretty" new girl, you probably don't have to be. Unless this guy you like is very shallow, he probably won't pick some girl he doesn't even know just because she's hot over a girl like you that he liked enough to ask out. Tell him how you feel about him, and you should be fine. Chances are, he still really likes you.
2007-03-12 10:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Prue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with the guy and tell him that you are interested in him and have a chat about your feelings, tell him you want to have a chance and to let things take their natural course.
If you do this, you will know éither way whether or not this guy is still in to you. If he is, he will give you a chance, if not, move on and find someone better... but just remember that life goes on and that you will be right as rain once you get over the fear or disappointment... just make sure you realise that if you expect the worst, it won't be so bad if you ar elet down and if he says yes... the world is your oyster.
Best of luck!! Gay or not....
2007-03-12 10:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by ghostsqaud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to ask him out. He's been rejected by you once before and may think you only like him as a friend. If you don't make the next move, he'll move on.
2007-03-12 10:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by levell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun care about the hotter girl! if u still like him and u think its worth giving it a shot then go talk to him, from his response u can tell if he is intrested or just not bothered... just give it a shot...
if he sounds like a nice guy, then i guess u shud apologize for turning him down the last time... then he might get the hint at where u gettin at...
ps i dun think ur a gay bro tryin to act like ur his sista!
2007-03-12 10:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one ever knows who will like them for how long. I am old. but I had at least 20 relationships in my life, Things change, people change. Like as many people as you can, Some of the best relationships are not romantic.
2007-03-12 10:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not say remember when you asked me out and I said No. When he says yes why. Say well I just wondered if I could change my mind.
Then take it from there. Nothing to heavy then you wont feel embarrassed.
2007-03-12 10:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by bren_elvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply approach him, look him in the eye, and say : "hi, the last time you asked me out it wasnt a convenient time, but I'd like to make up for it if you're still interested", and if he responds with a yes, then no harm no foul. but if he says no, then you know you blew it, so ya gotta live with it.
2007-03-12 10:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not appearance alone that real guys like. If he is that type of guy, he is not worth getting into a relationship with anyway.
2007-03-12 10:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sparky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋