Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

i'm 30, been married 1 year. we lived together for 5 years before. i knew i shouldn't get married as my feelings started to fade but i felt pressure. so stupid! i was in denial. i thought if i just got it over with everything would be fine. now my wife wants kids and i am so miserable that i don't want kids. i want nothing to do with the whole family thing. i don't even like telling people i'm married. i dont wear my ring. i dont like going out with her. i am not having an affair nor do i want to. i just want to be on my own again. instead of just talking to her i now start fights with her. we never used to fight now we can't get along. i think my weekend drinking is becoming an issue too. its my only escape. i try to tell my friends but they just think its the usual complaining about "the wife." i'm so depressed, and my wife just told me "i don't feel loved." i am trying to talk to her but cant seem to. i don't know what i'm doing. my life is falling apart.

2007-03-12 11:35:27 · 29 answers · asked by joe s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you believe in true love...? answer honestly... with reasons for your resoning...=D

2007-03-12 11:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:33:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or spend time outside of school with each other. Is that a boyfriend/girlfriend or is it just a friendship?

2007-03-12 11:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

This is actually something that happened to me. My boyfriend's parents gave him the choice of either losing me or his truck, and he choose the truck. Then I said, "I love you." to him and he never said it back. I think he's mad at me, but the next day we stayed at a friends house and we had sex there, so is he mad at me or at his parents?

2007-03-12 11:32:44 · 22 answers · asked by buffy1010987 1 in Singles & Dating

The day's just beginning
You see the girl you love
You don't know what to do or say
You're friends
You talk to eachother everyday
On the phone, computer, etc
You're walking with her
Talking, laughing, having the time of your life
The sun hits ya, you smile at her she smiles at you
It's time to say goodbye
You hug and walk off
You're walking, past places where we played as kids
Later you talk to eachother
Time's ending
You say you'll see eachother tomorrow
You know what
You're in goddamn love
Is there anything else better in the world

2007-03-12 11:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me I've gotten a few of useful answers but not alot of people have answered my question.
But anyways there is this guy in my class that I really like, and he likes me but one time he asked me out and I told him no because I didn't know I had feelings for him, and now not too too long ago I realized I like him, but the problem is one of our former classmates is going to go back to school with us and I'm afraid that he might start to like her because my friend told me that she is real pretty. Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
P.S. I'm not gay my older brother let me use his computer. I am a girl!

2007-03-12 11:32:20 · 2 answers · asked by ilk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this kid were going out for a long time but we were in and out of the relationship alot. Well one day his cousin got stoped by the police and he didnt have a licence. So to make a long story short i gave him $250 in cash so he wouldnt go to jail. This happend in early november and i havnt seen a dime or recieved a phone call when he promised to pay me back. Me and his cousin (my ex) are no longer toghether but he says he will pay me back instead of his cousin. But yet again i havnt seen a dime.So what do i do? do i just forget about the money? or do i call the kid and tell him to pay up?

2007-03-12 11:30:29 · 4 answers · asked by SUMMER&GUS 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. This guy I REALLY liked just asked me out, BUT I'm not allowed to date. I see him once a week. Should I say yes? He's really nice, but if my parents find out they'd kill me, or worse, TAKE AWAY MY COMPUTER AND CELL PHONE FOREVER!!! :( So what should I do? I can meet him every week. I always have friends with me and we're always in a public place. In fact, the only time I see him is at church... Should I just "hang out" with him at church? Also, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE answer my other question... BTW the guy in my other question is John and this guy is named James.

2007-03-12 11:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by Honey 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl damn much but i don't know what i should do to make her see that!She is with an other person wich she consider him beeing "cute" but he is just an other "street guy" and he believs himself a thugh one but i can smash his mug off!But thinking like that won't help me ain't it?And so what i should do?Tell her that i love her.Tell her that that guy is not love her and so i won't get nothing!Beat that guy off.And the last one give up and cry when i see them togheter!
I know that this surely won't get to many answers but still if there is any ideea... can be original that can help me a lot more!

2007-03-12 11:30:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:30:17 · 29 answers · asked by Mys3 Girl 1 in Friends

when u go to write a message , then tottaly forget what you was goin to write lol hands up or am i the only dumb one lol

2007-03-12 11:30:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

where do u prefer to go on a date??

which is more romantic? and if neither where do u prefer to go or what do u prefer to do instead??

2007-03-12 11:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by the nice girl 23 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:29:26 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Lady Clairol 1 in Singles & Dating

it is for ashley tisdale but it is not ,he said she said it is another one does anyone now the lyrics

2007-03-12 11:29:21 · 2 answers · asked by alex 1 in Singles & Dating

Christina Romaro
Christina Ayers
Christina Ortiz
Or
Christina Vega

2007-03-12 11:28:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have decided to become an organ donor but i don't know how to tell my family. plz help.

2007-03-12 11:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-12 11:27:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at my school that i really like and everybody has told me he liked me too and we flirt all the time and today at the courtyard he asked me if i liked him and he said it in a bad way like i hope she doesn't sort of way and all of his friends were around so i said no but then he got all sad and everybody told me that he was going to ask me out if i said i liked him but i said no only because i didnt want to embarrass myself so now what do i do i really like him???

2007-03-12 11:26:54 · 3 answers · asked by sarah w 1 in Singles & Dating

My name is Tianna. What nickname can you make out of Tianna?

2007-03-12 11:26:36 · 28 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Friends

My bf is tired of everyone, and everything..
what is some advice I can give him to help him feel better?

2007-03-12 11:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by dgfsdfgsdgfdgf a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-12 11:25:45 · 10 answers · asked by WhatAnIdiotIam 1 in Family

I dont know if she likes me though

2007-03-12 11:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by baseballplayer 1992 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend and i wasnt really thinking and i want to get back with him but i dont know what to tell him. I mean i luv him so much and well i broke up with him becuase of things people said and **** and i listen to them. What should i do i am so lost without him.

2007-03-12 11:25:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married in Gatlinburg TN. It was a beautiful wedding, and we stayed there to honeymoon as well. I obviously didn't want to include my 11 yr. old son in my honeymoon, so he stayed with his Grandma and had a great time. It's been 6 months now and I'm feeling a little guilty for not including my son in my wedding. We would like to do something for our one year anniversary to include him, but what? It's too early for a vow renewal ceremony, but we want to do something a little more formal than just a party. What do we do?

2007-03-12 11:24:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I don't wanna be a cornball ya know. But if it so happens that prom time comes and I don't have a date, would it be that bad to just go alone and have fun or not go. Especially when almost everyone is gonna have a date? Most of the guys I meet are just imature or too freakin old like mid 20's to 30's and I'm still in high school so that's not gonna work. And then the guys around my age are so childish or really short like little boys, ugh! it's so annoying. But anyway would that be corny or not?

2007-03-12 11:23:54 · 21 answers · asked by Blaire 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this is kinda a stupid pointless question, but I really dont understand whats with this guy, so I thought I would ask anyway!

There is this guy at my school, I have never spoken to him or anything, I just know who he is. He is extremly popular, and like the hottest guy in the grade, and he has a cheerleader girlfreind and all that. He is like the man, but anyway, like every single time I walk past him, he like stares at me, and then when I look back at him, he like looks down or at the sky like he never saw me. Its really weird, he even stares at me when he is hugging his girlfreind! I really dont get it, it may be just nothing, but Its just kind of wierd for him to be staring at me all the time, but never talk to me! What does this mean?

2007-03-12 11:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, theres this girl who i am friends with. She was previously hurt in her last relationship. But now, i thought she was into me, but she told my friend she didn't like me. a couple of weeks after i found that out she started talking to me more, and it seems like she is more into me. I don't know what to so though....ive been playing hard to get and i think its working but i need to make a move at some point or else it might go on forever....should i ask her friend what she thinks about me or just ask her straight up?

2007-03-12 11:23:20 · 3 answers · asked by robster1216 1 in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy. I really didnt know him, but I was interested.My friend spoke to him and got his ## for me.I called him,he answered gave me a Lame excuse and never called back, yeah I got the hint.Rejected.Thats not what bothers me.So now im going to see him in school school.How should I act?Plus I talk to some of his friends do I stop?

2007-03-12 11:23:11 · 3 answers · asked by Confizzed 1 in Singles & Dating