Ok. This guy I REALLY liked just asked me out, BUT I'm not allowed to date. I see him once a week. Should I say yes? He's really nice, but if my parents find out they'd kill me, or worse, TAKE AWAY MY COMPUTER AND CELL PHONE FOREVER!!! :( So what should I do? I can meet him every week. I always have friends with me and we're always in a public place. In fact, the only time I see him is at church... Should I just "hang out" with him at church? Also, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE answer my other question... BTW the guy in my other question is John and this guy is named James.
2007-03-12 11:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by Honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw my mo "approves" him i just cant date or have a bf...
2007-03-12 11:35:22 · update #1
I would make a case with your parents for dating him once a week. Remind them that he attends your church. Tell them that you will let them know where you are going before every date and set up a time for you to be home on date nights.
There is a good chance that they will accept that. Otherwise, meet your friends and him at the same time and split up with your friends for a little while. It is not a formal date, but it will still feel like it.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-12 11:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents about it. If you tell them exactly what you just said here, im sure they'd be ok about it.
also talk to James and tell him your situation. I'm sure he would understand and if he liked you enough, he'd wait until your parents said yes.
2007-03-12 18:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by brown_eyed_girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hang out with him at church and maybe eben with your friends. don't try to do anything sneaky. if your parents find out, it will be hard for them to trust you, and to allow you to go out with him.
2007-03-12 18:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by pamcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋