My bf is tired of everyone, and everything..
what is some advice I can give him to help him feel better?
2007-03-12 11:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by dgfsdfgsdgfdgf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are the closest to him, try talking to him and make him feel better. let him know that you are there for him.
2007-03-12 11:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by pamcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time to mourn. Wallow with him. Complain about life. Let him know that at least to you, his sadness has merit. I disagree with these people who say, "Ignore it". Unless you figure he really is just fishing for attention, you need to let him know that you take his feelings and thoughts seriously. Don't be too doting and don't enjoy the situation, but don't blow it off either.
Then in a while take him out to do something new and exciting. Skydive, go see a movie, play a prank, go waterskiing, and just let your good time cheer him up. Just bumming around the house and talking won't do any good, this is a GUY.
You two should consider doing community service together. Volunteer working with kids, terminally ill people, or building houses, going on a missions trip or something. Go out and learn something. Do something for someone else. The cure for depression is activity.
2007-03-12 18:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to laugh like you use to. Also, you may want to seek some advice from his family memebers. Is this something he does often? Or is this just a funk. We all go through funks so maybe he just needs some TLC.
2007-03-12 18:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by SunnyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to relax, change his routine and try to figure out what really bothers him.
He cant be tired of everything and everyone
2007-03-12 18:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by lysa24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is the best thing you can give him. He'll come around when no one's giving him attention. He'll realized how much he missed the attention when there's no one to listen to him and his problems of being tired.
Trust me. Ignore him. It always works.
2007-03-12 18:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately the theripist. depression is really a problem with some youth today. if he's too embarrassed to do that, tell a parent or church leader or teacher, see if they can help.
2007-03-12 18:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by mike_gaerheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe now he needs "Space" and "time",
maybe he needs to be alone for a while.
(like in "Men are from mars women are from Venus> guys need to go to their caves for a while)
but in that time don't leave him all alone, let him feel that you care about him, and don't want to see him like this.
2007-03-12 18:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by adiga_5ijabz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better watch him very closely and get him some professional help cuz most people in that attitude are considered suicidial ,.
2007-03-12 18:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by jhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has depression, he needs to see a doctor to get some tablets
2007-03-12 18:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make the noose very tight.
2007-03-12 18:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋