My sons are young...not having a gf yet, though theyve gotten a couples of crushes here or there. but, apparently, some of you kids get together....what do you do? do your parents drive you around on chaparoned dates or ??
2007-03-12 10:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give them condoms, just in case.
2007-03-12 10:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Heads up! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll have my license in a few weeks but up until now my parents drove us everywhere. I never did anything with his family, because usually i was uncomfortable. But if we went to the movies, we would watch one movie and they'd watch another. You don't want them to think you're spying because that will push them to break the rules. Show them you trust them. If the girls wants to come over and watch a movie, leave them alone, but make sure they know you're not far away and could walk into the room at any moment. Let them hang out just the two of them sometimes, but don't ALWAYS let them be alone. It's healthier for em to hang out with friends or other siblings at the same time. If things get too serious, don't let them see each other as often. It's supposed to be fun when you're young, not all dramatic.
2007-03-12 18:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones that drive go out on their own, I think. The others just hang around as much as they can. Dating in high school isn't dating really . . . it's an abrupt jumping into relationships without knowing each other well enough. I didn't date in high school really, and I'm kinda glad I didn't because it seems like a dead end thing. Good night!
2007-03-12 18:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually tell their parents they go out in groups of mixed sex friends. they mght really do but then find some time together and kiss a bit. then they might tell u again that they are meeting friends and go to to watch a movie and kiss a lot.
they are not chaperoned but usually the parents go and pick them up at a nearby place.
dont worry too much about ur boys dating, ur job is to maintain a good realtionship with them so that they will come to u for advice and not hide things from u
2007-03-12 18:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they usually go to the movies Alone to try to get to know each other. Nothing really happens on the first date. On the first date its more like a "get together" with all the girls friends and all the guys friends.
2007-03-12 18:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh. When I was a teen 10 years ago my mom would trust me enough to go on the date on my own. I would suggest driving them to where they want to go or make sure they have a ride. Ask him what he's doing and what time he will be home. It's your right as the parent to know! But, also let him have enough freedom to make his choices. Remember it's never to early to start talking about safe sex!
2007-03-12 18:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by SunnyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a young teenager myself, i usually go with them alone. but yeah we do have to have my parents bring us around to where we want to go. We usually dont do much, you shouldnt worry bout them doing too much for their age because mostly we just talk and have a good time.
2007-03-12 18:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if kids don't have their own licesnce their parents should drive them around and drop them off but not stay thats what i will do when i get a girlfriend or my sister to drive
2007-03-12 18:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not exally a date but in some case the parents do come along but mine just drop me off.
2007-03-12 18:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by briana2554 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents drop me off at dates at least until i get my license. and they usually ask them out.
2007-03-12 18:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by mixalot2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋