i went to my JROTC military ball on sat. i thought i would be alone all night as i usually am. but i danced with someone. but it wasn't just one dance, it was almost all night. my question is, do i ask this person out or should i forget it? i have some feelings for her considering she's the only one to do so. i have her in one of my classes, so i see her everyday. it would just be nice to know if would be wise to do something. thanks
2007-03-12 11:00:43 · 19 answers · asked by Brutus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should get to know her a little better before you make any moves. Talk to her, and become her friend first. Girls love a guy who shows that they are genuinely interested, so ask her questions. What music does she like? What are her hobbies? This will help you to get to know each other better.......which may even lead to something more if you both feel the same way about each other.
Yea, I know that this is technically an answer, but I just got asked to a JROTC ball and I am not in the organization. I have no idea what to wear, what will happen there, or what to expect. Do you have any pointers?
2007-03-12 11:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by cdaae663 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her more to get to know her better first, then, if it seems like you two get along, then go ahead and ask her out on a date or something.
P.S. I don't think that having "feelings" for someone because they were the "only one" is a very good reason. Also, there's a chance that she just asked you because you and her didn't have someone to dance with, and she wanted to dance with someone.
2007-03-12 11:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ask her out- Just Do It! The worst she could do is say NO! I don't think she would of danced with you all night if she wasn't interested.
2007-03-12 11:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how well do you know her. friends? start texting her or emailing or comment on myspace. show that you are interested. but watch her signals if she's giving you half answers or not responding dont worry about she may have just wanted to dance. if she does respond and seems to enjoy talking to you then ask her to go on a group date and if that goes well then ask her out on a real date. trust me girls like a guy who shows that they are interested and are nice. so just start with friends so she trusts you before you spring an ask out on her.
2007-03-12 11:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by frances m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good man , if what you are feeling is just coming from a loneliness feeling , and you are getting desperate to come out with whichever girl , step aside and think of your reasons , but if you noticed that certain sparkle in her eyes , and then you felt it in your heart , then you act upon what your are feeling and know her a little deeper , yes , invite her to a date ......but remember dont do this just out of loneliness, for it later there would be an empty space between the two of you , because of such confusion.
2007-03-12 11:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by damoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't hurt to start a conversation with her. Ask her if she wants to pick up where you guys left off on the dance floor. You'll never know until you try.
2007-03-12 11:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to do anything if you dont want to. Do you think you would enjoy going on dates with her? If you do then try for it. If you think it would not be fun to date this girl, then dont do it. Knowing you danced with her all night, she would probably say yes to a date, so now it's all up to whether you would enjoy or not enjoy a date with her.
2007-03-12 11:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for her. If things don't work out at least you can say that you tried. If you think about her then you must have strong feelings for her. Try it and see. If it doesn't work out then you can say you're sorry and that it was a mistake and you weren't trying to be a jerk.
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2007-03-12 11:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd try talking to her after class. If she seems interested in you and what you're talking about, I'd talk to her a few more times after class. If she still seems interested in you, I'd ask her out and see what she says. Good luck!
2007-03-12 11:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out already!!! The worse thing she can say is no, and you'll still be home alone! Live a little!
2007-03-12 11:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by levell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋